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Hello! New to the site/life. Seeking dominant Woman - 12/1/2011 3:29:39 PM

MisterPants

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Heya, I'm some 25 year old white guy in Lubbock, Texas.

Too-long-didnt-read version:
man here looking for a dominant woman to show me the ways of pleasing her. Look at my profile for body pic. 5'8" tall, white, 170 lbs, brown hair. Have done bisexual things before but didn't like it. I truly find myself to be straight. Please don't look to "financially dominate" me right away. That's not happening so easily.

Better version:

I made my account on here a few months ago, but didn't have much time then to use it too much. Now, I'm graduating and ready to start new chapters of my life. In general, I am new to the lifestyle and really don't have much experience with it. I have had sex with men and women as a top and a bottom. I would also refer to it as dom and sub, but I'm sure that word to people in this lifestyle would not just refer to who's on top and who's on bottom.

Anyways, even though I've had sex a few different ways, I really feel that the thing I am looking for would be a dominant type of woman. I love the idea of serving a woman sexually and catering to their specific sexual needs ( love giving oral ). Perhaps my mind hasn't quite been fully opened to all of the possible ways that someone can be "dominated", and I feel I probably just need to experience these ways first hand to see how fun or not fun they are. So, I am seeking that person. Feel free to look at my profile.

I would love to meet many people on here, but please don't get the idea that I'm a sucker that's going to let you "financially dominate" me i.e. take all of my money. If I wanted a whore, I would go to craigslist.

Other than that, I look forward to meeting new people on here. Thanks

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RE: Hello! New to the site/life. Seeking dominant Woman - 12/1/2011 3:30:55 PM

ashjor911

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Welcome To CM

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RE: Hello! New to the site/life. Seeking dominant Woman - 12/1/2011 3:46:59 PM

tiggerspoohbear

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Welcome to the boards. If you're only looking for the sexual aspect of things, then that's fine. If you're looking for a long-term relationship, then talk to her as a woman first, not a label or a kink-delivery-system. Now, would you please take another picture, and post it? The one you have here shows a messy room with the door to the loo open and it's just, well, ICK. If you can't find a friend to take a natural pic of you doing something other than standing in front of a mirror, that's fine. But please, for all it's worth, clean up the mess before you take another shot. You may not realize what you're saying with that picture, but you're sure I'm not the only one who's going to pick up on it.

Good luck.

ETA: And please read the FAQs in the "Ask A Mistress" forum. They were written by the female Dominants who frequent this side of the boards, and you'll learn a lot.

< Message edited by tiggerspoohbear -- 12/1/2011 3:48:29 PM >

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RE: Hello! New to the site/life. Seeking dominant Woman - 12/1/2011 11:02:00 PM

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Oi, MisterPants dude! Until you get the domestic service down (as in clean up your domicile!) it isn't likely you'll be invited to the 'other' kind of service...you know, the fun stuff like serving a woman sexually. Toilets (especially with the seat/lid up!) are definitely not a selling point.

I second reading (and heeding) the Ask A Mistress FAQ. Welcome, good luck in your search and enjoy the journey!

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RE: Hello! New to the site/life. Seeking dominant Woman - 12/2/2011 12:13:10 AM

Delilya

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good luck

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RE: Hello! New to the site/life. Seeking dominant Woman - 12/2/2011 4:47:52 AM

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Tell us about the nonsex part of you?

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RE: Hello! New to the site/life. Seeking dominant Woman - 12/2/2011 8:23:31 AM

BurntKitty

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Welcome to CM, Mr Pants.

I'll echo the sentiments of the other lovely ladies here. Have someone else take a better avatar pic for you. On this side it's disconcerting to have a discussion with a torso in from of a toilet.

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RE: Hello! New to the site/life. Seeking dominant Woman - 12/2/2011 8:55:18 AM

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Welcome Pants, hope you get some.

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RE: Hello! New to the site/life. Seeking dominant Woman - 12/3/2011 12:51:04 AM

Ninebelowzero

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Mate if ya can get round here I've a couple going spare. Just take the damn things Mmmmmm'ok!

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ORIGINAL: MisterPants

Heya, I'm some 25 year old white guy in Lubbock, Texas.

Too-long-didnt-read version:
man here looking for a dominant woman to show me the ways of pleasing her. Look at my profile for body pic. 5'8" tall, white, 170 lbs, brown hair. Have done bisexual things before but didn't like it. I truly find myself to be straight. Please don't look to "financially dominate" me right away. That's not happening so easily.

Better version:

I made my account on here a few months ago, but didn't have much time then to use it too much. Now, I'm graduating and ready to start new chapters of my life. In general, I am new to the lifestyle and really don't have much experience with it. I have had sex with men and women as a top and a bottom. I would also refer to it as dom and sub, but I'm sure that word to people in this lifestyle would not just refer to who's on top and who's on bottom.

Anyways, even though I've had sex a few different ways, I really feel that the thing I am looking for would be a dominant type of woman. I love the idea of serving a woman sexually and catering to their specific sexual needs ( love giving oral ). Perhaps my mind hasn't quite been fully opened to all of the possible ways that someone can be "dominated", and I feel I probably just need to experience these ways first hand to see how fun or not fun they are. So, I am seeking that person. Feel free to look at my profile.

I would love to meet many people on here, but please don't get the idea that I'm a sucker that's going to let you "financially dominate" me i.e. take all of my money. If I wanted a whore, I would go to craigslist.

Other than that, I look forward to meeting new people on here. Thanks

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RE: Hello! New to the site/life. Seeking dominant Woman - 12/3/2011 7:32:31 AM

Killerangel

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It seems kind of counterintuitive to come to a sex site and NOT focus on sex, could you perhaps tell us about yourself and not about what you have done or want to do in the bedroom? Contrary to the explicit ads here and the explicit (usually spam) profiles, this is mostly just a gathering of people. Most of the people you encounter here want to know if they like you first before they get all kinky and naked with you. I just find it interesting and a little bit sad that you gave out your sexual resume and nothing about yourself. If the women here wanted a quickie in either dept. they have toys for that or the nearest guy, it's not hard to find.

I dunno, you seem like a nice guy so I took the time to add to your intro. Maybe give us a more varied picture of yourself, you had some great interests listed in the profile