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SweetCheri -> RE: Is it okay to have sex with a slave? (12/4/2011 1:12:57 PM)

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And she'll be inspired to clean the house from top to bottom without even one wince or sigh!
But only when she has a migraine.



Fornica -> RE: Is it okay to have sex with a slave? (12/4/2011 1:17:30 PM)

o snap.



Ninebelowzero -> RE: Is it okay to have sex with a slave? (12/4/2011 2:10:01 PM)

awwww ffs I got this wrong I need to become a dim/dom Cleaning & bj's awesome.
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ORIGINAL: Fornica

o snap.




Lockit -> RE: Is it okay to have sex with a slave? (12/4/2011 2:33:36 PM)

Each post she (they) make, brings someone to the web site, that doesn't investigate it, likes whats promised and doesn't realize they are signing up for an open ended contract that you can only cancel in certain ways... which isn't explained except to say you need permission to cancel. lol Each extra you want besides a weekly email costs more. The promise of a chance to have sex... has some of these dumb hard cocks ready to promise the world or sign away everything... and with this web site... they are.

So even one stupid question, finds a stupid guy seeking the promise land. 

Oh well... it keeps them out of my email box.



Ninebelowzero -> RE: Is it okay to have sex with a slave? (12/4/2011 3:45:49 PM)

there was a shit load I was going to reposte that with & then I realised that you would get it but a load of peeps would think it serious, so....
fancy it?



LafayetteLady -> RE: Is it okay to have sex with a slave? (12/4/2011 4:14:23 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Each post she (they) make, brings someone to the web site, that doesn't investigate it, likes whats promised and doesn't realize they are signing up for an open ended contract that you can only cancel in certain ways... which isn't explained except to say you need permission to cancel. lol Each extra you want besides a weekly email costs more. The promise of a chance to have sex... has some of these dumb hard cocks ready to promise the world or sign away everything... and with this web site... they are.

So even one stupid question, finds a stupid guy seeking the promise land. 

Oh well... it keeps them out of my email box.



Then perhaps one day we will all get lucky and some "smarter than the avery hard cock" will call them on an illegal contract and they will be busted and put out of business.

Not highly likely, but one can hope.....



smartsub10 -> RE: Is it okay to have sex with a slave? (12/4/2011 5:14:05 PM)

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Although a man maybe a sub or slave he is afterall still a man who is sexually attracted to a Woman and desires sex. But is it okay for him to expect or hope for sex from a Mistress? My Mistress friends and I have sex with most of our slaves, especially our sex slaves, but some other Mistresses in the lifestyle might look down on that and prefer to stay nonsexual with slaves. What is your own personal opinion?


There.  Fixed it.  You don't want your "students" to think you're an illiterate moron, do you? [:D][:D]



AcademyForSlaves -> RE: Is it okay to have sex with a slave? (12/10/2011 8:09:59 PM)

Hello,

Thank you to all those who have maturely and politely answered my question. I would love to hear more responses to My actual question from anyone who is kind enough to offer advice. I have a slave who wants sex more than focusing on being a good slave, and I have a slave who I do want to use for sex but he likes being chastised. Hence My question.



poise -> RE: Is it okay to have sex with a slave? (12/10/2011 8:38:27 PM)


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ORIGINAL: AcademyForSlaves
Is it okay to have sex with a slave?


Not if the slave belongs to someone else......[:-]



Fornica -> RE: Is it okay to have sex with a slave? (12/10/2011 8:48:11 PM)

It's super weird that you didn't actually ask ANY of that in your original post.
You asked if WE fuck our slaves, and advertised that YOU most certainly do (in orgy-like fashion with your BFF's)
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ORIGINAL: AcademyForSlaves

Hello,

Thank you to all those who have maturely and politely answered my question. I would love to hear more responses to My actual question from anyone who is kind enough to offer advice. I have a slave who wants sex more than focusing on being a good slave, and I have a slave who I do want to use for sex but he likes being chastised. Hence My question.




Lockit -> RE: Is it okay to have sex with a slave? (12/10/2011 8:55:34 PM)

Academy for slaves and is clueless on what to do with a slave that thinks of sex more than service? Seriously? People pay for that ignorance? Or is it your first time thinking about sex with a sex focused slave because most could never get that far.

Any guy that is paying for it is sex crazed. Thought you knew just how to teach them?

Guess this is more posturing and hinting at the chance a slave might have to be near you eh?



kristy0007 -> RE: Is it okay to have sex with a slave? (12/11/2011 4:24:50 AM)

do slaves still exist?



Arienos -> RE: Is it okay to have sex with a slave? (12/11/2011 5:03:07 AM)

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Thank you to all those who have maturely and politely answered my question. I would love to hear more responses to My actual question from anyone who is kind enough to offer advice. I have a slave who wants sex more than focusing on being a good slave, and I have a slave who I do want to use for sex but he likes being chastised. Hence My question.


Based on my current understanding you are offering an opportunity to acquire skills, expertises and/or a process for improving perceptions and understandings of the slave mindset. If this be so, then my question to you is, do you like to fuck and if you do...why the fuck do you ask such a question.



Ninebelowzero -> RE: Is it okay to have sex with a slave? (12/11/2011 5:10:51 AM)

I do admire the blinding simplicity in this reply. Nice one.
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ORIGINAL: Arienos

quote:

Thank you to all those who have maturely and politely answered my question. I would love to hear more responses to My actual question from anyone who is kind enough to offer advice. I have a slave who wants sex more than focusing on being a good slave, and I have a slave who I do want to use for sex but he likes being chastised. Hence My question.


Based on my current understanding you are offering an opportunity to acquire skills, expertises and/or a process for improving perceptions and understandings of the slave mindset. If this be so, then my question to you is, do you like to fuck and if you do...why the fuck do you ask such a question.




goodgirlbadbitch -> RE: Is it okay to have sex with a slave? (12/11/2011 7:29:33 AM)

Hey so say I'm not really interested in being penetrated or sucking cock. I'd hate to think that as a Dom I'm still obligated to do something that makes me feel violated. Will any sub I meet be disappointed/push me for sex?



DarkSteven -> RE: Is it okay to have sex with a slave? (12/11/2011 7:36:48 AM)

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ORIGINAL: goodgirlbadbitch

Hey so say I'm not really interested in being penetrated or sucking cock. I'd hate to think that as a Dom I'm still obligated to do something that makes me feel violated. Will any sub I meet be disappointed/push me for sex?


I don't know Canadian law, but here in the US if you're a pro Domme, doing either of those (or using a strap-on) could lay you open to prostitution charges.  If you're not a pro, then being a Domme means you don't do anything you don't want to.

So the answer is, some subs will be disappointed and push, and you as a big girl will tell them No.



goodgirlbadbitch -> RE: Is it okay to have sex with a slave? (12/11/2011 7:52:04 AM)

I'm not a pro Dom I'm just kinky :)
I know I can say no, and if the guys a nag about it I can give him the boot. But realistically will guys get pissed off? What if someone gets violent? I may be a scary bitch but I'm a tiny girl. I'm nervous about meeting people online. Should I put it on my profile that I don't want to fuck? P.s I'm not saying I'll never fuck or suck off a guy, i could if I trusted and cared for him. It's not what excites me though.



NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Is it okay to have sex with a slave? (12/11/2011 7:58:55 AM)


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ORIGINAL: goodgirlbadbitch

Hey so say I'm not really interested in being penetrated or sucking cock. I'd hate to think that as a Dom I'm still obligated to do something that makes me feel violated. Will any sub I meet be disappointed/push me for sex?

Some do as a matter of fact. It's up to you as the Domme to put your foot down and say "NO" if you don't want it.



LafayetteLady -> RE: Is it okay to have sex with a slave? (12/11/2011 10:05:17 AM)

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ORIGINAL: goodgirlbadbitch

I'm not a pro Dom I'm just kinky :)
I know I can say no, and if the guys a nag about it I can give him the boot. But realistically will guys get pissed off? What if someone gets violent? I may be a scary bitch but I'm a tiny girl. I'm nervous about meeting people online. Should I put it on my profile that I don't want to fuck? P.s I'm not saying I'll never fuck or suck off a guy, i could if I trusted and cared for him. It's not what excites me though.



A lot depends on the type of relationship you are entering into.  There are those who are looking for the D/s only, with no sex, others who are looking for a relationship that encompasses a D/s dynamic as part of it.  These days, yes it is common for people in a relationship to engage in sexual intercourse.  No one should get violent if their partner says no, though.

However, since your profile indicates you are looking for the relationship encompassing D/s, you would save yourself a lot of headaches if during the "getting to know you" phase, you were very clear that intercourse was not going to be part of the relationship for a long time.  It would (hopefully) avoid there being any issues regarding sex right from the start.



DarkSteven -> RE: Is it okay to have sex with a slave? (12/11/2011 10:29:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: goodgirlbadbitch

I'm not a pro Dom I'm just kinky :)
I know I can say no, and if the guys a nag about it I can give him the boot. But realistically will guys get pissed off? What if someone gets violent? I may be a scary bitch but I'm a tiny girl. I'm nervous about meeting people online. Should I put it on my profile that I don't want to fuck? P.s I'm not saying I'll never fuck or suck off a guy, i could if I trusted and cared for him. It's not what excites me though.



I think you'd be better off trying to meet someone in the local community than online.  If you want to play with him at a local play party, you'd be safe.  Even if you meet someone online, meet them for the first time at a play party.  If he's got a history, there's no way he'd consent to meet you there.



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