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juliaoceania -> RE: the benefits of....... (5/29/2006 8:50:49 AM)
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I do not know about how "beneficial" doing things that you may have not desired before is or isn't, I can only say what my experience has been.
Whenever there is something I havent been interested in doing that the dom in my life wants to try I begin to think about that activity a lot more, I begin to want to do that activity because they want me to. I do not let myself date doms that love doing things on my hard limits list, but there are many activities I have no interest in that when my dom expresses an interest in that activity I start to fantasize about it and end up enjoying it.
So while I do not necessarily "benefit" from it, I end up "benefitting" through my enjoyment of the activity, but even more I enjoy serving my One in that way. It is what totally gets me off about D/s, pleasing my dominant... thats why I avoid the ones that like to do things on my hard limits list.
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