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ChatteParfaitt -> RE: A strapon question for dommes (12/7/2011 12:36:40 PM)

Using FR:

I confess I have never found a harness that fits me well enough to really use, so for me a strap on has always been for show (or sucking, whatever).








LadyHibiscus -> RE: A strapon question for dommes (12/7/2011 12:41:12 PM)

My harness are both modified panties. They work fine, esp with the nexus, but there are just not enough kegels possible to make it easy for me. Plus I am so busy focusing on him that my simulation = zip.



SomethingCatchy -> RE: A strapon question for dommes (12/9/2011 11:18:31 AM)

I despise anything that's not human inside of me. It feels fake because it is fake. That said, strap on sex is by far the most mentally stimulating thing I've ever done, sexually. When I'm done, I feel as if I've climaxed dozens of times, and I'm usually very sleepy. Since physical satisfaction is not what I want, I modified a cheap online strap on that works well for me.



Politesub53 -> RE: A strapon question for dommes (12/9/2011 12:05:28 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

that attachment dealio is like sitting on a light bulb.



Look on the bright side, at least you can see what you are doing Lady H [8D]



LadyHibiscus -> RE: A strapon question for dommes (12/9/2011 12:06:21 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Politesub53


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

that attachment dealio is like sitting on a light bulb.



Look on the bright side, at least you can see what you are doing Lady H [8D]



[8|] I think I'll start closing my eyes...

[:D][:D][:D]



Delilya -> RE: A strapon question for dommes (12/10/2011 5:51:51 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DominaKathryn

I am a professional domina ... and although I would never ever use a strapon in my professional practice ... in my private life I have developed a few opinions about strap ons ...

The fantasy of a strapon is far more powerful than the reality.

It is easier to control and manipulate using a dildo in the hand than one in the bush ! ;) So I might use the harness to look formidable and sexy ... but I would slip out of it when I am ready to penetrate my submissive. And then just use my hand to control the dildo with far more finesse than the awkward harness would allow.

And dear ones, please use a condom even on the dildo ... why??? so that you do not spread fecal matter from one hole to another ... PLAY SAFE! So unless every hole gets their very own toy, you need to always change condoms ...

XOXO


^^This^^. Except I'm not a Pro.

I buy condoms from Planned Parenthood. They are 4 for $1.00. If you can't trust a condom from Planned Parenthood, who can you trust?



MariaB -> RE: A strapon question for dommes (12/12/2011 2:18:24 AM)

Personally I have never had a problem using a stap-on unless it was a badly fitting harness. There is lots of rubbish out there on the market. Lots of products look sexy but don't actually work. I think the other problem when mounting a guy is those silly little dildos just aren't going to be long enough. You really need a bit of length if you want them to feel a full sized cock.
I don't use a strap-on for his benefit, I use it for mine and I wouldn't be doing that if it didn't do something for me.

I agree that all dildos should wear a condom, even with a regular partner. Body fluids play havoc with rubber and silicone and condoms ensure cleanliness and the life of your dildo.



shymetalsub -> RE: A strapon question for dommes (12/14/2011 10:19:54 AM)

There have been so many responses, and I am so grateful.

BUT I WANT MOAR!!!



MistressRouge -> RE: A strapon question for dommes (12/14/2011 4:06:15 PM)

Doc Johnson, I recommend.



MariaB -> RE: A strapon question for dommes (12/15/2011 5:53:44 AM)


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ORIGINAL: MistressRouge

Doc Johnson, I recommend.


Listen to this lady, she's good [;)]



Ninebelowzero -> RE: A strapon question for dommes (12/15/2011 12:29:54 PM)

I fear you!



Lucylastic -> RE: A strapon question for dommes (12/15/2011 12:51:57 PM)

Doc Johnson is good, if you are a small size. The vaculock system is slightly better, but not much
By small I mean up to a 38 hip:)
then their elastic is useless, the fit is tight and bites in.
Pipe dream has started up a fetish line, not " expensive" compared to whole leather or "rubber" that fit women up to a 50+ hip now.
Luckily people like Docs, n Cal exotics are coming up to speed with regard to plus size items(Ive been waiting for this for 20 plus years dammit)
Ive always had "mack truck " hips and with weight gain and losss over the years, theres no way I can "buy" the regular stuff.
For an idea, have a look at this section...
http://www.pipedreamproducts.com/showsection-20.php?Section=04&Sub1=Strap-ons
SO many new things to try, so little time.
I personally always use condoms, and prefer a longer slimmer dil, but that is so very much a personal taste.
PS this is just my experience and opinion.



Ninebelowzero -> RE: A strapon question for dommes (12/15/2011 1:44:19 PM)

& I still have a virgin botty hole.



Lucylastic -> RE: A strapon question for dommes (12/15/2011 2:03:33 PM)

Ill be on the 10;30 plane out of toronto, meet me at manchester and we can fix that!!!!
yeah just kidding, sowwy



Ninebelowzero -> RE: A strapon question for dommes (12/15/2011 2:11:02 PM)

I know, the 10.30 fromToronto lands at Heathrow



LadyHibiscus -> RE: A strapon question for dommes (12/15/2011 2:11:17 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero

& I still have a virgin botty hole.


Oh tell me more!![8D]



Lucylastic -> RE: A strapon question for dommes (12/15/2011 2:15:34 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero

I know, the 10.30 fromToronto lands at Heathrow

Snorts
then Ill just get to standstead and take a ryan air
bugger spoiling my evil plan for the evening



Ninebelowzero -> RE: A strapon question for dommes (12/15/2011 2:30:30 PM)

Stanstead to East Midlands & I'll be at the bar. See you there.



Ninebelowzero -> RE: A strapon question for dommes (12/15/2011 2:32:22 PM)

I'm saving it for someone special. Oh no wait a minute oh bugger it!

Oh & it will hurt lots!!!!
quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


quote:

ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero

& I still have a virgin botty hole.


Oh tell me more!![8D]




MariaB -> RE: A strapon question for dommes (12/15/2011 2:56:17 PM)

Nine, the cost of a plane fare or the cost of a bus ticket and a packet of lube?!?! [;)]




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