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RE: Brutal Trampling? - 12/6/2011 10:24:52 AM   
Bobbysworld


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Status: offline 		Haha thanks for you input. And honestly idid watch that
Cartoon. And the name seemed somewhat appropriate. But was definately named after the show haha

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RE: Brutal Trampling? - 12/6/2011 10:39:38 AM   
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OP-I'll give you props for staying and listening, and absorbing the info given :)

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RE: Brutal Trampling? - 12/6/2011 10:53:01 AM   
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Hey mistresses i was just curious if any of you have ever trampled a man really hard? Its hard for me to find one willing. I know my request may be a little odd because i like to have my cock trampled. And i like it rough where the mistress isnt scared to stomp jump twist and march on it. Am i just out of line?


Hey Bobby, so you're a little mystified by the negativity, lets talk about it. I'm not going to put you down ok? Just follow along with me here.

First of all, you do know that men and women generally don't think things the same way right? They're different, they tend to be a little different when it comes to relationships and sex and a few other things. In general, women tend to concentrate more on the interaction between them and their partner, and a man tends to concentrate more on the act of sex and what titillates them. Read your opening statement above, in it you reference your genitals and what is for you a sexual act. This is rather personal material, do you bring this up in conversation in real life say, at the grocery store to the woman who checks you out? No? Why not? Because it would be crossing a boundary right?

This site, and especially this section, is full of women, women who don't know you yet and aren't connected to you- can you see where your personal question about your cock and about how you like getting off sexually might be oversharing? Yes, you are on a kink site, I can see where you'd think you can just let it all out here, but these women are also still women. Women who don't know you. Women aren't as sexually driven as men - remember that? So they aren't really going to want to talk about your cock with you because they don't care about it and because it creeps them out to be treated like a generic way to fulfill your fantasy.

Does this all make sense? You felt a bit bent out of shape, do you see how poorly it comes across when you literally walk into a room with your cock out?

It's kind of like how kids are with the "Are we there yet? Are we there yet?..." Men come into this forum all freaking day long to ask if the generic 'Mistresses' have ever thought of.....or done....or wanted to try....
All say long there are people crossing personal boundaries without a care, and they're speaking to an audience that generally doesn't care quite so much about the act of sex divorced from the personal connections. It's also this disconnect from the individual woman that absolutely makes us shudder. Most of us hate having you (not 'you', the generic you) make us fully aware of the fact that you just want us to fulfill a role and you don't really care about which woman does it beyond some general physical requirements. We detest feeling like the nameless, faceless drivein menu choice of the day. We don't really care about a stranger or what he loves to do in the bedroom, and we don't like being objectified as a robot who provides this fulfillment.

Does this make more sense to you now?

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RE: Brutal Trampling? - 12/6/2011 10:59:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		It does make sense. And while i guess i may have been too up front in my wording. I was really just looking foropinions as to whether my request would be a little over the top ot extreme for most.

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RE: Brutal Trampling? - 12/6/2011 11:01:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		Awesome post, Killerangel.

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RE: Brutal Trampling? - 12/6/2011 11:01:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hiya Bobby some advice. Once upon a time I played rugby & I was a dirty lowdown cheating dog. for my sins I got trampled on numerous occassions the worst being 2 Para Brigade, one of whom actually managed to penetrate my arsehole, I had to ask the lady hockey players in the bar for panty liners.

The advice is as much as you fantasise about this keep it upstairs internalised. Don't do it. It hurts like nothing you have ever experienced. I reckon worse than a fracture disclocation of the ankle or bust shin bone.

BTW good luck & welcome.

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RE: Brutal Trampling? - 12/6/2011 11:08:04 AM   
Bobbysworld


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Status: offline 		Well i have already had my fair share of experience. Ive had a girlfriend in the past who used to trample my junk. But she was always just a little on the scared side. Im just looking for someone to push my limits.

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RE: Brutal Trampling? - 12/6/2011 11:12:32 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Bobbysworld
Hey mistresses i was just curious if any of you have ever trampled a man really hard? Its hard for me to find one willing. I know my request may be a little odd because i like to have my cock trampled. And i like it rough where the mistress isnt scared to stomp jump twist and march on it. Am i just out of line?

I've never trampled someone, but I've thought about trying it w/ a willing partner - as long as it didn't actually injure him. If I injured him, I could actually ruin my own good times as well as his. I'm 6'1" and pretty plus-sized, so the chances of my being able to actually try this & have it be safe for the "tramplee" are pretty slim in my estimation. lol
quote:

ORIGINAL: Bobbysworld
I guess i shouldn say I dont want a relationship. Its more like no time for one. Work 80+ hours a week to build my company really leaves it as an only option. I dont have time to go to the bars to find a girl my age. I dont have time to start a relationship with a domme. Kinda leaves me in the dust but i guess im just out of other options

I can totally and absolutely understand being so busy with work that you have no time for an actual full-on relationship. I've been there & done that myself before. But the problem you have here is finding a Domme willing to do what you want without having a relationship. You can either keep looking - that will probably be for a long time - or you can suck it up and pay a Pro. I know what Pros cost, I've checked just out of curiosity, but that might be your best best.

NBMG

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RE: Brutal Trampling? - 12/6/2011 11:13:10 AM   
Bobbysworld


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Status: offline 		Although i am new to the BDSM Scene i have definately had my share of experience in all foot fetish activities and trampling. Ive had my desires fullfilled before but me and that woman ended up not working out. Now that i have no time to get into a relationship im just looking for a pro or any sorts of woman interested in learning about or partaking in any sort of activity.

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RE: Brutal Trampling? - 12/6/2011 11:15:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		Join a rugby club & lie on the ball

http://www.rugbydump.com/2007/12/281/try-savers-rib-breakers-8-pain

Enjoy.

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RE: Brutal Trampling? - 12/6/2011 11:16:53 AM   
Bobbysworld


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Status: offline 		I appreciate the gesture; and did indeed play rugby on my highschool team but yet quite what i am looking for. Thanks though.

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RE: Brutal Trampling? - 12/6/2011 11:20:07 AM   
Fornica


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Status: offline 		NBMG~ I would worry about the liabilities of being the one *doing* the harm, yk?

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RE: Brutal Trampling? - 12/6/2011 11:21:38 AM   
Bobbysworld


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Status: offline 		And to you nicebutmeangirl, being plus sized wouldnt really affect you being able to do it. I think you would possibily just have to be a little less violent. Because lets say a 110 pound mistress would have to literally jump up ad down to get the same kind of pressure as a bigger woman would with just a little bouncing. The women who have done it to me seem to get a little enjoyment out of it. Specially if there is more than 1 woman doing it. Something about women together make them extra ruthless

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RE: Brutal Trampling? - 12/6/2011 11:27:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		Here's the thing...what you're asking for is a five minute scene, tops. For reals--five minutes and I would have you puking and/or unconscious. Great lulz for me! Why would anyone *bother* though? Get a nice pro, or make some friends, because there is NO motivation for someone to give you her personal time.

So, get our your wallet, and take your chances. If you'd come on here with a castrastion dream, I would have told you to STFU. As it is, you're taking a chance that she'll lose control, but what's a ruptured testicle between strangerrs? And that other thing, where the spongy tissue of the peen is damaged...forgot the term, my brain is clogged with tax law.

I am not being bitchy, there are guys who LOVE this kind of thing. Have fun. KNOW the risks.

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RE: Brutal Trampling? - 12/6/2011 11:28:57 AM   
Killerangel


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Bobbysworld

It does make sense. And while i guess i may have been too up front in my wording. I was really just looking foropinions as to whether my request would be a little over the top ot extreme for most.


I'm really glad to hear that things made sense, I'm also glad that you are amenable to talking, says a lot of good about you. Many don't get this far because they're too defensive and their ego is bound up on being right. You've got more game than those guys so let's keep going...

So your wording was a little too up front, I'll agree with that. Maybe you think that it was just words, that we should have looked beyond that to your meaning and went with that instead of nailing you on the words. It's still just me talking here without putting you down, Bobby, did you ever think of how in a written medium, all we have to go on about you is your words? The ones that you admitted were probably too upfront, and also as I pointed out earlier, those words were also objectifying and rude. You wished us to divine your meaning, which wasn't exactly as you stated it, but then what you stated was also hard to get past. Also, remember, this happens all day long, every day of the week. Women here being asked continuously for personal information without a care as to how it's done or even if it's good manners. Why are they treated this way?

Because they are on an adult site? Probably, but they are still women Bobby even if this site is about BDSM, the women here are still women. Because men are more focused on sex? Probably, but if they want some, they'll have to figure out how to deal with women right? It's a bit of a dance I guess, talking in ways that are socially acceptable and still get you what you want, but that's how it is in life. It gets really old that the women here are not accorded the same social conventions and niceties that we are out in real non-kinky life. It almost feels that because we are on a kink site, the men here feel they can treat us as less, that gets old and we get prickly about it because we're confronted with it all the time. Many of us start to feel that we are just objects here to play a role without a thought as to what we want or who we are. Bleah.

You did get some answers to your 'real' question, maybe you'll get more. For myself, I would not do what you are asking for. I would never hurt someone in a permanent way, and what you want is too iffy, the boundaries are not clear (to me) as to where permanent damage may occur. I would not be willing to take the chance of causing you real harm no matter how much you wanted it.

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RE: Brutal Trampling? - 12/6/2011 11:30:10 AM   
Bobbysworld


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Status: offline 		Well i dont know about a 5 minute thing. Ive had someone constanty trample my junk for a good 45-1hr straight. Granted it was barefoot but still. Amazing what a guy can withstand sometimes.

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RE: Brutal Trampling? - 12/6/2011 11:30:10 AM   
Killerangel


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ORIGINAL: Fornica

Awesome post, Killerangel.


Thanks Fornica

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RE: Brutal Trampling? - 12/6/2011 11:35:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		Of all the dang threads on CM, My other half chooses to post on this one.  Nice that he doesn't mention that he rushes out of the room anytime I'm doing any form of CBT.  LOL.  (I'm going to see if I can trick him into posting on a needle thread next!)

In other words, OP, yes, some of us have done trampling.  This doesn't change what's written in the FAQ.  Here's the part you want to see:

Common Kinks/Fantasies

Q: Are there any (how many) dominant women into [insert your favorite kink here]?

A: While there is no way to answer the question of how many dominant women enjoy a particular activity, we can assure you that if you like it, chances are there’s a dominant woman somewhere in the world who likes it too. However, it’s beyond our ability to guarantee you’ll find one here. What we can guarantee is that, if you post a thread asking how many dominant women like your choice in kinks, many of us will be quick to assume you’re looking for semi-pornographic material to fuel your masturbatory fantasies (i.e. “wank fodder”) and shoot you down in record time.

You mentioned specifically that you may be looking for a professional to engage in this activity with you.  There is a whole section here for Professional Services.  In that forum, you can type "trampling" (or trample) into the search box to see if there is a professional who advertises here that might fit your needs. 


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RE: Brutal Trampling? - 12/6/2011 11:35:23 AM   
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If you are open to using a prodomme, here:

http://pro-district.com/Indiana.htm

http://darkheart.com/usalist.html#Indiana

http://pandemos.net/directory/indiana.shtml



Now, I don't know any of these women and am not affiliated with these sites in any way (so I take NO responsibility if you hire one and it goes badly). They came up in a simple google search.

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RE: Brutal Trampling? - 12/6/2011 11:35:53 AM   
Bobbysworld


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Status: offline 		Thanks for the input Killerangel. I guess there is some
Risks of permanent damage. But there would be simple guidlines to be gone over and of course some kind of safeword. Ive had my
Junk swollen and sometimes a little blood leakage. But still bounces back just fine everytime. But i do truly appreciate your concern

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