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PeonForHer -> RE: Brutal Trampling? (12/6/2011 12:22:18 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Killerangel
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ORIGINAL: Bobbysworld
Hey mistresses i was just curious if any of you have ever trampled a man really hard? Its hard for me to find one willing. I know my request may be a little odd because i like to have my cock trampled. And i like it rough where the mistress isnt scared to stomp jump twist and march on it. Am i just out of line?
Hey Bobby, so you're a little mystified by the negativity, lets talk about it. I'm not going to put you down ok? Just follow along with me here.
First of all, you do know that men and women generally don't think things the same way right? They're different, they tend to be a little different when it comes to relationships and sex and a few other things. In general, women tend to concentrate more on the interaction between them and their partner, and a man tends to concentrate more on the act of sex and what titillates them. Read your opening statement above, in it you reference your genitals and what is for you a sexual act. This is rather personal material, do you bring this up in conversation in real life say, at the grocery store to the woman who checks you out? No? Why not? Because it would be crossing a boundary right?
This site, and especially this section, is full of women, women who don't know you yet and aren't connected to you- can you see where your personal question about your cock and about how you like getting off sexually might be oversharing? Yes, you are on a kink site, I can see where you'd think you can just let it all out here, but these women are also still women. Women who don't know you. Women aren't as sexually driven as men - remember that? So they aren't really going to want to talk about your cock with you because they don't care about it and because it creeps them out to be treated like a generic way to fulfill your fantasy.
Does this all make sense? You felt a bit bent out of shape, do you see how poorly it comes across when you literally walk into a room with your cock out?
It's kind of like how kids are with the "Are we there yet? Are we there yet?..." Men come into this forum all freaking day long to ask if the generic 'Mistresses' have ever thought of.....or done....or wanted to try....
All say long there are people crossing personal boundaries without a care, and they're speaking to an audience that generally doesn't care quite so much about the act of sex divorced from the personal connections. It's also this disconnect from the individual woman that absolutely makes us shudder. Most of us hate having you (not 'you', the generic you) make us fully aware of the fact that you just want us to fulfill a role and you don't really care about which woman does it beyond some general physical requirements. We detest feeling like the nameless, faceless drivein menu choice of the day. We don't really care about a stranger or what he loves to do in the bedroom, and we don't like being objectified as a robot who provides this fulfillment.
Does this make more sense to you now?
This.
(There, I said it. [;)])
Well done, KillerA, for imparting this. Sometimes it's so good, on these forums, when someone rises above everything in order to *communicate*. Excellent.
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