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Kana -> RE: You see a booth in a mall and (12/7/2011 8:33:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FrostedFlake Stacey, Stacey, Stacey, Stacey, Stacey, Stacey. I have the urge to say something mean. Instead I am going to say something that won't make me look as good as saying something mean would. Before I do, I will take time to mention that I am glad that you have a domestic situation that you appreciate. Hang on tight, cause this wont be fun. My dad threw his baby sister into the mill pond. She was crying. She stopped. My dad put his elder sister into an institution for life. Brain damage. My dad crippled his younger brother and eldest son. Brain damage. My dad tossed a radio into a bath, electrocuting a girl who didn't want to see him any more. My dad bashed her new boyfriends head in with a tire iron. My dad named his first daughter after the girl he electrocuted. And when she was old enough, he raped her. I could go on for a while yet. But if you don't get it yet, you never will. My dad went to prison, but for none of the above. It seems that sticking a shotgun in someones face and saying, "Give me the money" is taken a little more seriously than any or all of the above. This is not appropriate. A baby in a millpond is at least as serious as serial shotgun robbery. Realigning our justice system to point in the direction it ought to is a monumental task. It seems sometimes like it simply cannot be done. It is one of those HEROIC tasks that often goes unrecognized as one. That is what Dudley Dooright was up to when he approached you at the mall. He was not trying to protect you from your husband. He was trying to protect you from my father. There are monsters in this world, Stacy. And some of us know some of them. You can bet your ass Dudley Dooright does. If, as it seems, you don't, well then, AREN'T YOU LUCKY. Welcome to Planet Earth, Stacey You don't have to pitch in and help, but that would be nice. I trust everyone else is going to forget I said these things, or at least make the distinction that I am not my father. Thanks. FF Dude. This is one of the most forthright, open, and god damn IMPORTANT posts I've ever seen here. Thank you for the honesty and courage. I don't know you at all, but you have mad respect from me. I tip my hat to you. edited for bolding

Iamsemisweet -> RE: You see a booth in a mall and (12/7/2011 8:46:09 AM)
I respect people like ff a lot. What a background. It would have been easy to become immersed in bitterness and brutality yourself. Instead, he seems to be trying to make a different way in the world. I am looking forward to hearing more about your journey ff, and I am sorry you and your family suffered such brutality

DesFIP -> RE: You see a booth in a mall and (12/7/2011 8:50:08 AM)
Hugs to FF. Not to mention that the op thinks DV and BDSM can't coexist. They can. There's as much abuse in kinky relationships as in vanilla ones. That idiot 'master' Terry stands as an example.

LillyBoPeep -> RE: You see a booth in a mall and (12/7/2011 8:53:10 AM)
And as significant as FF's post was, apparently it STILL didn't make a dent... le sigh No wonder the rest of the world things we're all nuts. quote: ORIGINAL: FrostedFlake Thank you, Stacey, for the confusing email. Unfortunately it is too late to edit the post out. ... Rats. FF Hugs appreciated. Postscript : quote: AngelikaJ ...What I am wondering about is do you really know the difference... No. Even I couldn't get the point across. And you see how clear I was.

LafayetteLady -> RE: You see a booth in a mall and (12/7/2011 8:59:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep And as significant as FF's post was, apparently it STILL didn't make a dent... le sigh No wonder the rest of the world things we're all nuts. Exactly. As long as there are stacys' running around, people will have a really hard time differentiating between DV and BDSM. FF, You have been through the ringer and come out the other side. Not only that, but you are willing to open up your life as you have in order to try to help others. What a wonderful way to end a legacy of violence.

thishereboi -> RE: You see a booth in a mall and (12/7/2011 12:55:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather I suspect any sub of yours would spend most of her time just sucking up. Unless she was on her back and then she would be sucking down. But I agree, she would be sucking one way or another.[8D]

Iamsemisweet -> RE: You see a booth in a mall and (12/7/2011 12:59:40 PM)
Stacey can't seem to make a distinction between BDSM and abuse. Obviously, if her current relationship doesn't work out, she shouldn't have trouble meeting a new master. She can just go hang out in front of DV court

JanahX -> RE: You see a booth in a mall and (12/7/2011 1:05:59 PM)
I just asked her in another thread if she was mentally disabled or maybe she suffers from some sort of brain injury. Its not even that she doesnt get it. She is expressing a bizarre thought process to a lot of the threads going on right now.

BitaTruble -> RE: You see a booth in a mall and (12/7/2011 1:18:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stacey4u2luv on the booth it says stop abuse against women your thoughts are....???? My thoughts were but, i wanna be used and abused by Master. i kept right on walking when the guy tried to talk to me. For some reason i was not sticking around and talking. Now try to imagine you do not have as much time to think about it as i just did, the both is there you read it and the man starts talking as you were walking past. I understand a knee jerk reaction. When I'm at Home Depot, I don't see paint stirrers.. I see weapons of ass destruction. When I'm out and about and see something little, my mind immediately wonders if I can pervert or convert it into something for the dollhouse. My question to you is this: Now that the knee jerk reaction is over, how do you feel about that sign?

Fornica -> RE: You see a booth in a mall and (12/7/2011 1:30:46 PM)
Ok, I laughed out loud and startled the dog at "weapons of ass destruction". heh.

fragilepieces -> RE: You see a booth in a mall and (12/7/2011 1:34:05 PM)
There are women who ARE abused---emotionally, mentally and physically who wear a collar just like you. There ARE men who USE the BDSM as a shield so they can abuse. Abuse is a nasty little monster and it's difficult to get away from even in a vanilla relationship but in a BDSM relationship it's even more difficult because we have that slave propaganda that circulates from time to time that one must be no-limits-doesn't have a choice---and must obey at all costs. Thankfully most of the time people know what they are doing and don't encounter a whole lot of that shit BUT WE ARE NEVER IMMUNE TO IT.

fragilepieces -> RE: You see a booth in a mall and (12/7/2011 1:42:24 PM)
quote: People in the vanilla world may consider all of us all twisted to an extent. Personally I don't think other people really give a fuck what we do.

LafayetteLady -> RE: You see a booth in a mall and (12/7/2011 4:23:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JanahX I just asked her in another thread if she was mentally disabled or maybe she suffers from some sort of brain injury. Its not even that she doesnt get it. She is expressing a bizarre thought process to a lot of the threads going on right now. You can figure out what the jumble she has been writing even says? Personally, after seeing a lot of the weird shit that has been coming out of her mouth (fingers), it seems as though she was abused as a child, is probably in an abusive relationship now (facing the slave propaganda you mentioned) and is so deep in denial, she is looking to get people to help her justify her position.

January -> RE: You see a booth in a mall and (12/7/2011 4:48:17 PM)
quote: There are women who ARE abused---emotionally, mentally and physically who wear a collar just like you. There ARE men who USE the BDSM as a shield so they can abuse. Thanks for pointing that out, fragilepieces. I'm starting to suspect our OP doth protest too much in her smug way. Perhaps she is trying to rationalize a relationship that's changing, and heading into real abuse territory. She is fighting her common sense, which is why so much of what she says is bizarre. I am concerned about her. January ETA: Sorry LL, I pretty well just repeated what you said!

LafayetteLady -> RE: You see a booth in a mall and (12/7/2011 6:17:38 PM)
No problem, great minds and all that [:D] Although, I can't say I am actually worried. Ordinarily I might be, but for some reason I'm not. Maybe because everything about her rings as false.

FrostedFlake -> RE: You see a booth in a mall and (12/7/2011 6:55:15 PM)
Thanks is in order for the kind words. Not merely because they are kind. But because they are a shield between my tender hide and the slings and arrows my words may have drawn.. Thanks. FF

lizi -> RE: You see a booth in a mall and (12/7/2011 9:14:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FrostedFlake Thanks is in order for the kind words. Not merely because they are kind. But because they are a shield between my tender hide and the slings and arrows my words may have drawn.. Thanks. FF If your previous post had drawn slings and arrows I for one wouldn't be interested in spending time here anymore. These boards can seem rough, but they're actually pretty fair. Things that seem off for one reason or another draw attention and questions, which can seem negative to the person posting. Things that ring of honesty and are genuine offerings, tend to get attention too. For the most part the comments are a reflection of the poster and his or her intentions. FF, I'd like to thank you as well for taking the time to post your earlier response to the OP. It was a very brave thing to do and I for one appreciated it. Thanks.

hlen5 -> RE: You see a booth in a mall and (12/7/2011 9:20:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lizi quote: ORIGINAL: FrostedFlake Thanks is in order for the kind words. Not merely because they are kind. But because they are a shield between my tender hide and the slings and arrows my words may have drawn.. Thanks. FF If your previous post had drawn slings and arrows I for one wouldn't be interested in spending time here anymore. ............. FF, I'd like to thank you as well for taking the time to post your earlier response to the OP. It was a very brave thing to do and I for one appreciated it. Thanks. Seconded and seconded.

Clickofheels -> RE: You see a booth in a mall and (12/7/2011 9:21:22 PM)
For some people, no explanation is possible...

NuevaVida -> RE: You see a booth in a mall and (12/7/2011 10:04:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stacey4u2luv on the booth it says stop abuse against women your thoughts are....???? I talk to them and consider donating a few bucks. I currently rather regularly donate to WEAVE (Women Escaping A Violent Environment). I think Bita asked a pertinent question - what do you think of the booth now? And hats off to FF for your strength to rise above.

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