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RE: I feel so lost - 5/29/2006 7:48:47 AM

skittykitty

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ORIGINAL: SweetEscravo
How can I deal with this? How might he react to me asking for him back? I know he still really cares about me...we still see a lot of each other, and still go out for dinner and everything else. He told me that he still loves me. But god...I would do anything at this point to just get him back. I just want to feel his arms around me again. I just want him back.

Good lord , I don't want to sound harsh, but really.. where is your self esteem girl, where is your backbone, he dumped you for someone else, simply because they had accomodation, and worse than that he still keeps you around, on a short leash, by virtue of this hold he has over you as your former master, he treats you like you don't have feelings or matter to him, because if you REALLY did, he wouldn't be doing this half and half thing.

He has the best of both worlds, he has this girl he is using for accomodation and then theres you, sweet loving submissive you, for when he's feeling like slipping on the old Domly mask again.. and you let him.

He's treating you like dirt, in the guise of friendship, not caring how much this is tearing you up in inside, and flaunting the other girl.

The last thing you need is to have him back, kick him to the curb and find a real Master who wont treat you like a part time plaything with no feelings.

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RE: I feel so lost - 5/29/2006 9:07:21 AM

LuckyAlbatross

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My local partner thinks you're just going to keep asking this question until you hear something you like, or do what I said previously which is fall directly into another rebound guy who will likely end up just as disastrous as this has.

My advice hasn't changed from the original thread you posted on this topic, and it's pretty much what Erin said.

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