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andyman909055 -> financial blackmail slavery (12/9/2011 3:10:03 PM)
im wanting to become a financial blackmail slave, i have some experiencewith my ex but now want more with somone i know less if that makes sense, i want the fear and all that comes with it, cant seem to find anyone interested

mnottertail -> RE: financial blackmail slavery (12/9/2011 3:16:03 PM)
Oh, christ, half the net just tipped right the fuck over, this is worse than black friday. Run for your lives, for the love of christ if you have any sense, boys!!!

PeonForHer -> RE: financial blackmail slavery (12/9/2011 3:22:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: andyman909055 im wanting to become a financial blackmail slave, i have some experiencewith my ex but now want more with somone i know less if that makes sense, i want the fear and all that comes with it, cant seem to find anyone interested That's a stinker, Andy. I do think you're going to have trouble finding what you're looking for, because it'll take a stiff balance. You need a woman who is fond enough of you to cater for that desire, but also knows how to be harsh enough and in the right way. Really, have you considered: is this balance even psychologically possible in one woman? Could you do it, if asked? Secondly, please be very careful. There are real blackmailers out there and you won't enjoy your experience with them. Bottom line: be careful with your fantasy. It could hurt you badly.

Fornica -> RE: financial blackmail slavery (12/9/2011 3:23:59 PM)
700 members just messaged him at the same time.

JanahX -> RE: financial blackmail slavery (12/9/2011 3:24:29 PM)
blackmail is illegal.

mnottertail -> RE: financial blackmail slavery (12/9/2011 3:25:47 PM)
I felt a disturbance in the force.... Two epicenters, the pacific rim and western africa. That would account for it.

Fornica -> RE: financial blackmail slavery (12/9/2011 3:27:03 PM)
lmao!

DarkSteven -> RE: financial blackmail slavery (12/9/2011 3:27:19 PM)
/Starts thread complaining about all the financial blackmail slaves on collarme/

mnottertail -> RE: financial blackmail slavery (12/9/2011 3:28:40 PM)
It is a shame all the animals that are slaughtered to provide the leather for financial slaves wallets. There has to be a greener way.....

Fornica -> RE: financial blackmail slavery (12/9/2011 3:34:46 PM)
Hardcore slaves use pita pockets as wallets, I've heard.

Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: financial blackmail slavery (12/9/2011 3:45:44 PM)
And how is this lady supposed to know you won't then try to go to the cops and tell them she's black mailing you and get her into all kinds of legal trouble? I'd never be dumb enough to get involved with someone's fetish such as this that I didn't know and had not known for a very long time, and have a good chance of knowing they wouldn;t then try to get me in trouble with the law.

mnottertail -> RE: financial blackmail slavery (12/9/2011 3:59:25 PM)
Thats why you want to keep good records as a findom or deal in cash only transactions.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: financial blackmail slavery (12/9/2011 7:54:50 PM)
Real live blackmail is real live illegal. As a mindfuck? Fun.. but that's just a game, not the real threat of fucking over someone's life. I rarely say this: be careful.

vincentML -> RE: financial blackmail slavery (12/10/2011 9:16:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Real live blackmail is real live illegal. As a mindfuck? Fun.. but that's just a game, not the real threat of fucking over someone's life. I rarely say this: be careful. The OP has a kink he wishes to address. Where do you sort "real live blackmail" from "contractual consensual blackmail?" As for illegal: where do you sort battering someone with a cane in real life with . . . well battering someone with a cane in real life? Isn't it all about consent? Is blackmail really blackmail in Law if it is consensual and contracted as a game? Welcome replies. [:)]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: financial blackmail slavery (12/10/2011 10:00:07 AM)
It's true I am taking a chance when I play, you can't consent to bdsm in Michigan. I choose my playmates carefully. Blackmail means I have Bad Stuff on someone and am coercing some act in exchange for keeping it secret. For it to be real, I need that bad stuff, correct? And the mark has to be in a position where he can't just say "do your worst". A. Now as the bad guy I have to step very carefully indeed to make sure there is no paper or electronic trail. I cannot speak except in code, because I don't want to be recorded. Blackmail is a felony, and a district attorney with an agenda might decide to pursue criminal charges if a complaint were filed. Civil charges, a whole other world. A dangerous game. It was fun back in the days of polaroids to shoot some pics and spin a fantasy..and nowadays I guess he could just take the camera chip. Personally, I would never take it further than that. I'm not sure that anyone could trust someone who felt otherwise. Could a man trust me if he knew that I had investigated his life to the point where I had the influence --I won't say power--to cause him distgress, harm, or failure?

slaveIMGI -> RE: financial blackmail slavery (12/10/2011 11:31:26 AM)
NM

PeonForHer -> RE: financial blackmail slavery (12/10/2011 12:34:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus It's true I am taking a chance when I play, you can't consent to bdsm in Michigan. I choose my playmates carefully. Blackmail means I have Bad Stuff on someone and am coercing some act in exchange for keeping it secret. For it to be real, I need that bad stuff, correct? And the mark has to be in a position where he can't just say "do your worst". A. Now as the bad guy I have to step very carefully indeed to make sure there is no paper or electronic trail. I cannot speak except in code, because I don't want to be recorded. Blackmail is a felony, and a district attorney with an agenda might decide to pursue criminal charges if a complaint were filed. Civil charges, a whole other world. A dangerous game. It was fun back in the days of polaroids to shoot some pics and spin a fantasy..and nowadays I guess he could just take the camera chip. Personally, I would never take it further than that. I'm not sure that anyone could trust someone who felt otherwise. Could a man trust me if he knew that I had investigated his life to the point where I had the influence --I won't say power--to cause him distgress, harm, or failure? I can relate to all that from my side of the kneel. I have had the fantasy from the sub's side . . . but it's one of the more difficult things to imagine working in practice. For it to be a turn-on, I'd have to believe both that the blackmailer really could hurt me in some way, and also that she wanted to. I'd have to be at least somewhat afraid and at least somewhat unable to trust her completely. Otherwise, the whole endeavour would be pointless. But if I didn't trust her completely, it says little about our chances for a relationship. A dangerous game. Or, maybe, to be treated like cayenne pepper - a small pinch of it, only. I don't know. I'd love to work out a plan that would cover all bases but have never been able to do so. However, that could say more about the paucity of my imagination and experience than anything else.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: financial blackmail slavery (12/10/2011 12:41:14 PM)
I just couldn't do bad stuff to you, Darling. How could I destroy your career and still look at you fondly? It doesn't work for me. ETA: not to mention I don't know how I could face myself.

PeonForHer -> RE: financial blackmail slavery (12/10/2011 1:05:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I just couldn't do bad stuff to you, Darling. How could I destroy your career and still look at you fondly? It doesn't work for me. ETA: not to mention I don't know how I could face myself. Thank you, Lady Hib. However, that first sentence I don't entirely believe . . . .

LadyHibiscus -> RE: financial blackmail slavery (12/10/2011 1:10:27 PM)
There's bad and there's BAD... [;)]

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