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Mustardseed -> RE: Romance and Domination (4/12/2007 7:26:52 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Katerina
The note reads: For you, the love and passion of my life. My strength and wisdom, the vessel that is always full and ready to quench my needs; the courage to endure and remain loyal and true and one with my soul; my light and vision, the fulfillment of all my dreams.
Would your perception of them change? Would they seem, somehow, less dominant, less in control? Would you, as a sub or slave, see a weakness there, you may not have seen before?
Or would you just accept the gifts, in the spirit they were given, as the note implies, and not wonder if the other shoe is somehow, about to drop?
After I reformed from the sappy puddle of blushing goo I became shortly after reading the note, I'd have exactly the same opinion of my Daddy as I've pretty consistently had for the past 1.5 years: he was worth giving a second chance to (our first date was a bit of a trainwreck) and he still loves me!
I think that a dominant working up the nerve to express their emotions in such a way is defintiely being brave. They're trusting their slave to see a side of them that may or may not come out very often, to cherish that side, and to still respect them as a domimant. They're risking for the sake of strengthening the relationship, for the sake of being honest, and simply because they want to.
How is that less dominant than keeping such feelings to oneself for fear of seeming less domly? Wouldn't bottling up one's passions be the cowardly way, the way that says "you'll only accept me if I fit your fantasy, so I can't be who I really am?"
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