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Looking for mommy - 12/12/2011 4:39:12 PM

MommysLilGurl42

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Hello everyone I'm new to the forums and I'm saying hi. Yes the title for my "hi" is right I'm looking for a mommy domme. I am transgendered looking to get some help with my transition(m2f) I'm a slave in the lifestyle so like if you help me change you can effect my change in a way like bigger boobs or a sexier face and stuff like that :). Otherwise I'm a slave who has been a switch then a submissive in the lifestyle and now finally being a slave only because I have not found my nich yet.

:) Hello all

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RE: Looking for mommy - 12/12/2011 6:40:51 PM

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Welcome to collarme!

When you say you want "help" with the transition, just what do you mean? Do you mean tips on makeup, dressing, etc., from a lifelong female, or cash to help with hormones and operations?

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RE: Looking for mommy - 12/12/2011 6:52:28 PM

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RE: Looking for mommy - 12/12/2011 7:20:13 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Welcome to collarme!

When you say you want "help" with the transition, just what do you mean? Do you mean tips on makeup, dressing, etc., from a lifelong female, or cash to help with hormones and operations?

Would it be bad to just say "yes to all" ? lol. Yes to the needing cash to help with the hormones and operations, as for tips on make-up and dressing from a lifelong female, I don't know fashion very well so that would help a bit as well.

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RE: Looking for mommy - 12/12/2011 7:24:23 PM

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So you are looking for someone mainly to pay for your transition?

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RE: Looking for mommy - 12/12/2011 7:43:31 PM

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Welcome to CollarMe. Good luck with all that.

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RE: Looking for mommy - 12/12/2011 8:06:13 PM

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Um. Wouldn't a transgender support group be a more appropriate place to seek help?

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RE: Looking for mommy - 12/12/2011 8:15:32 PM

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LadyHibiscus Maybe not, because they might not understand the bdsm stuff, and since he's seeking a domme this person belongs here just fine.

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RE: Looking for mommy - 12/12/2011 8:32:16 PM

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I'm not chasing him off, TFTB, I just mean that others who are transitioning will be in a better position to help with resources.

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RE: Looking for mommy - 12/12/2011 9:10:32 PM

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Some ladies are great about makup tips, :D

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I'm not chasing him off, TFTB, I just mean that others who are transitioning will be in a better position to help with resources.

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RE: Looking for mommy - 12/13/2011 2:25:06 AM

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Welcome, hope it works out for you. You've got a lot of things going on.

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RE: Looking for mommy - 12/13/2011 11:18:15 AM

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Forgive me for being so blunt.

This (http://www.collarchat.com/m_3918500/tm.htm) is a thread specifically dealing with TGs and their issues. Please read it.

One of the things you'll note in that thread is how strongly TGs felt against their born physical gender and how much they wanted to transition. I have heard some say that they were suicidal prior to transition because they were miserable.

The way you express yourself makes you sound like a crossdresser who dresses up for fun. The fact that you haven't put any skin in the game as yet and haven't begun hormones or surgery or evidently planned for how to pay for them, makes me wonder if it's a serious matter for you or just a lark. Also, you address implants but seem unaware that when you go on hormones, your breasts will grow. You may not need implants at all.

Transitioning is NOT a fun experience. It can be hazardous to health and will be hazardous to your pocketbook. It can affect your career and could result in alienation from your family.

Start off by joining some TG boards and learning. See if it's something you want to do.

More bluntness: You clearly have a desire to be a sissy. And you want a Domme to foot the bill for your surgery. You are looking for a lesbian Domme with extra cash to give to you, who's into sissy play. And yet your profile doesn't really state what you can offer her in return.

I'd suggest you

1. Learn about TGs.
2. If you still want to be one, sit down and figure out how YOU will pay for it. The SRS alone costs $20K-$25K.
3. After you've brought yourself to where you want to be, try to meet your dream Domme. Without financial expectations of her.

Welcome to collarme.

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