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Greta75 -> RE: Question about being submissive (1/2/2012 7:05:49 PM)
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I feel submissive because I don't get turn on ordering a man around in bed.
I like him to take charge and know what his doing and what he wants from his woman.
A very strong, alpha and assertive man is just very very attractive.
In my vanilla personel, I am very outspoken, and do portray a very strong image. At work, I gotta manage big grown men all older than me, and you got to be tough, stand your ground, with the right soft touch to survive in there and to earn respect. Otherwise, you'd get mowed over.
With somebody I can fully trust, it is just very attractive to be able to simply not be strong, let my guard down, and let him lead and I can mindlessly follow and just focus on pleasing him and feeling the security that he will handle me with care. Doing all these sinfully pleasurable things to me. It is totally erotic that I can trust him to whip me without intent to hurt but to pleasure.And simply kneeling to him is so pleasurable for me, as I dunno, the key word is, I get so much joy and pleasure out of it. It's just..., to die for. Perhaps it's being able to feel this level of trust with somebody that is heady.
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