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plastikcoatedcok -> First Time Butt Plugger (5/29/2006 2:29:07 AM)
Im starting to get some interest in trying a butt plug, but dont really know enough about them to buy one yet. Im looking for something to start out wearing in private, but eventually wear under clothes and out. Im not sure on what size, shape or material to get. Some assistance would be great! ...and for thoes who wanna know, i got my cb-3000 and its great! No more metal chastity belt for me (i use to be chastity locked on here) thanks!

Tangwystal -> RE: First Time Butt Plugger (5/29/2006 3:29:36 AM)
I love butt plugs... I would suggest, for longish term wearing, that you get one that is a bit giving (softish, ie, not glass) but the main thing is that there be a distinct difference in diameter between the main plug and the neck so that your sphincter muscle has something to hold onto to keep it in place. The above is only my personal opinion based on my experience.

stef -> RE: First Time Butt Plugger (5/29/2006 11:09:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: plastikcoatedcok Im starting to get some interest in trying a butt plug, but dont really know enough about them to buy one yet. Im looking for something to start out wearing in private, but eventually wear under clothes and out. Im not sure on what size, shape or material to get. Some assistance would be great! Many sex toy shops sell an 'Anal Trainer Kit' that contains three different sized plugs that you can work your way through. If/when you want to switch to something larger than that kit offers, I'm sure that Mr. S might have something to meet your needs. quote: ...and for thoes who wanna know, i got my cb-3000 and its great! No more metal chastity belt for me What happened to "real chastity belts" being better? What a difference a month makes, eh? [;)] ~stef

plastikcoatedcok -> RE: First Time Butt Plugger (5/29/2006 1:03:31 PM)
that link you gave me, would you recomend me buying from them? thats pretty much exacty what im looking for. Are there any real dangers when your starting this? as for the chastity thing, i STILL think metal chastity belts are the real deal. I would love to have one, but, the next time I do, im getting it custom fitted and measured. i just had too many issues with my last one. This will last me a while, untill I can afford to have something custom done.

outofhabit -> RE: First Time Butt Plugger (5/29/2006 1:59:12 PM)
I've heard great things about the aneros, which they call a "prostate stimulator" but basically is a butt plug. I don't have a prostate so I wouldn't know...however, I've seen it and unlike most butt pluts, it has a base but won't spread your cheeks apart...if I was going to wear a butt plug all day, that would be extremely important to me. I personally use the lil flirt. I only use it during sex play. I like it because it is small...like inserting a single finger in my ass. It's made of silicone. Silicone toys are love. They are non-toxic. They can be sterilized. They tend to be cheaper than glass or metal toys and unlike glass toys, you don't have to worry about them chipping.

stef -> RE: First Time Butt Plugger (5/29/2006 3:58:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: plastikcoatedcok that link you gave me, would you recomend me buying from them? thats pretty much exacty what im looking for. Are there any real dangers when your starting this? I've never bought from the site in question, so I have no opinion about them either way. I was just using them to illustrate the product. The only real danger is forcing things and going faster than your body is ready for. Use plenty of lube, take your time and everything should be ok. ~stef

troch -> RE: First Time Butt Plugger (5/29/2006 9:19:25 PM)
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plastikcoatedcok -> RE: First Time Butt Plugger (5/30/2006 12:02:15 AM)
i orderd that trainer kit, and a tube of lube. How much will i need to lube up? any special way for insertion? How often would you say they should be taken out? I was planning once a day, to relieve myself if nessasary. http://store.healthyandactive.com/ve801.html

spectreandnectre -> RE: First Time Butt Plugger (5/30/2006 12:55:40 PM)
W/we are starting training on this aspect also so this thread is quite interesting to me keep it going...lol

just2cute2care -> RE: First Time Butt Plugger (5/31/2006 12:45:40 AM)
I've bought a LOT of things from Mr. S leather over the years (mostly mail order). They're excellent, and they stand behind their products. I've seen cheaper, for sure, but Mr S Leather (San Francisco) has never let me down.

LadyAlexa -> RE: First Time Butt Plugger (5/31/2006 8:55:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: plastikcoatedcok i orderd that trainer kit, and a tube of lube. How much will i need to lube up? any special way for insertion? How often would you say they should be taken out? I was planning once a day, to relieve myself if nessasary. http://store.healthyandactive.com/ve801.html You should use enough lube to make insertion comfortable. Most who do it themselves would lie partially on their stomach with one leg bent in order to spread the cheeks. Lube the plug then slowly insert into anus. If you feel pain, stop don't force it. Relax. Then try again very slowly. If you start out small you shouldn't have any problem. Have some paper towels handly to wipe up extra lube. Then just lie there and experiment with holding your butt cheeks tight and the spincter muscles in check so the plug stays in. You might find you can't hold the plug in for very long as it does take concentration. Remember, the colon is meant to expel things not to keep them in so it's trying to do it's job! You will have to experiment with how long you can hold the plug. There are some harnesses out there that some have used I'm sure but those submissives I know personally who have tried them have had assorted results.

timeoutgurlie -> RE: First Time Butt Plugger (5/31/2006 10:40:48 PM)
I just started using anal toys last year and I was scared to death at first, but got over it pretty quickly when I felt it in there [:)] lol My suggestion is to use something 'jelly' (they usually say jelly on the package, and you can push through the packaging and feel if it's soft and flexy or not). It slides in easily, and it bends easily, so -IMO- it's best to start with. Buttplugs make a great intro to the bigger toys also, and when you plan to move up in size, going back to jelly helps a lot. Once you're used to the size of whatever you're using, then harder materials (plastic, glass, metal) can be pleasurable as well, but I'd think if you started with the harder variety, it could be uncomfortable or even painful. Oh, and lube is your friend, don't forget about lube [:D] AND make sure it has a base that's big enough to not slide right inside you...you don't wanna lose that [:-]

timeoutgurlie -> RE: First Time Butt Plugger (5/31/2006 10:45:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: plastikcoatedcok i orderd that trainer kit, and a tube of lube. How much will i need to lube up? any special way for insertion? How often would you say they should be taken out? I was planning once a day, to relieve myself if nessasary. http://store.healthyandactive.com/ve801.html Sorry saw this AFTER posting the first time [:-] The first time I used one, I just put a condom on it (we ran out of lube) and it went in very easily, so I don't think it takes much, most lube sold is well enough made that a drop really will do ya lol Insert it comfortably, whatever pace is comfortable for you, I slid mine in pretty quick for a beginner, but I was also relaxed, so I'm sure that helped a lot. I slept with mine in all nite, and have worn it for entire days or nites often, without anything bad happening; probably another personal preference though, if it feels uncomfortable, then take it out and try again when you're ready. Have fun [:D]

plastikcoatedcok -> RE: First Time Butt Plugger (6/4/2006 1:56:45 AM)
well, i got my colt training kit, and started with the smallest plug, man it hurt at first, but, i basically squatted down and it went in smoothly, but, it wont stay in. When i have more time, im going to hold it in for a bit, try and get my ass and muscles use to it. How long does it take to get it so it dosent come out? also, how do you properly clean it i mean, the ass cavity isnt the cleanets thing, lol. What should I do, rinse it off in the sink?

stef -> RE: First Time Butt Plugger (6/4/2006 9:44:34 AM)
The smallest ones will have a hard time staying in without help because the difference between the plug's diameter at it's widest point and it's diameter at the "neck" is negligible. As you move to larger plugs where the difference between those two measurements gets greater, it'll stay in more easily. As for cleaning it, you can just clean it in the sink or you can put a condom on the plug and tie it off over the base before you insert it. When you're done, cut the condom off, throw it away and give the plug a quick rinse. There's also the option of cleaning yourself out before using the plug. ~stef

plastikcoatedcok -> RE: First Time Butt Plugger (6/5/2006 12:36:24 AM)
well, the smaller ones goes in smooth without a hassle, but, still wont stay in. I tried the biggest one, but only got 1/4 way. the middle one gotnearly 100%, but still, slid right out. Is there any type of harness to get, or do I have to train my anal cavity day after day?

timeoutgurlie -> RE: First Time Butt Plugger (6/5/2006 1:43:33 AM)
Not that you'd know this sensation, but it may be like women when first using tampons. You think it's in all the way, but it's still at the point where the muscles just reject it and push it out. usually takes a few tries to get it right and know how far you need to push past to get beyond the rejection zone. I'm thinking, maybe this is somewhat the same. He'd used his fingers in me before the plug came into play, so maybe I didn't have probs because I was 'desensitized' to the whole insertion process, so I could get it in there and keep it in without any probs. Try with the middle size, and when it feels like it's in all the way, push a lil more...obviously, be careful to not push the base inside you, or it'll be a pain int he ass to get out (pun is so totally intended, har har lol) but push it till you really feel the resistence give out and it feels solidly IN there, see if that doesn't work for keeping it inside. Once that sphincter muscle grips it, you're probably good to go with keeping it in. If it doesn't work, or you don't enjoy that, I'm pretty sure there's harnesses, and someone here should be able to tell you where they are [:)]

WhatElse -> RE: First Time Butt Plugger (6/5/2006 11:20:30 AM)
I just started to experiment with anal stimulation and I love it. I have a buttplug thats 4 inches long, and at its widets point is 1 inch thick in diamater. I luve it up and lside it in slowly, and then once i get it passed the thickest part is slides right in. Does not hurt at all, and the first time I tired my girl friend Angela slid it in and out to train my butt.

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