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RE: Does the Bratty Princess Thing Ever Work? - 12/13/2011 1:30:39 PM   
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I have been very discouraged at the perspectives who have been contacting Me for sessions.



"Perspectives."

Oh hell, how much more dismal can D/s get . . . .

I wonder, does it give the punter an extra buzz if he knows the 'domme' is wildly stupid? Does it go with the 'brat' thing? My biggest dread - even bigger than getting rejected - is discovering that a woman to whom I'd been developing an attraction is an air-head.


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RE: Does the Bratty Princess Thing Ever Work? - 12/13/2011 1:30:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		No, I would never completely financially ruin anyone. That's like killing the goose that lays the golden egg.
Most of what we do and talk about is fantasy. (except for the money and the gifts!)
A responsible findom knows what every man is capable of giving, and urges him accordingly.
Many findoms help the men who serve them come up with a budget they can live with.
As I said earlier, most men who are into this just want to talk about it. Some take it further. I cannot be responsible for everything they do, but I can get the info I need to know when to push and when not to.

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RE: Does the Bratty Princess Thing Ever Work? - 12/13/2011 1:32:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		She is young. And yeah, she used the word incorrectly, but from what I've known of Veronica, she is far from stupid.

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RE: Does the Bratty Princess Thing Ever Work? - 12/13/2011 1:35:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

She is young. And yeah, she used the word incorrectly, but from what I've known of Veronica, she is far from stupid.


Jesus. In that case, she just makes me shudder.

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RE: Does the Bratty Princess Thing Ever Work? - 12/13/2011 1:43:13 PM   
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Do you know that Veronica and Call Envy live in the same town I do? Envy is less than five minutes away!


Bah! I hate you.

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RE: Does the Bratty Princess Thing Ever Work? - 12/13/2011 1:44:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		Those are all really great questions, Ishtarr. I haven't read the blog; perhaps I'll take a look.

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RE: Does the Bratty Princess Thing Ever Work? - 12/13/2011 2:01:07 PM   
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No, I would never completely financially ruin anyone. That's like killing the goose that lays the golden egg.
Most of what we do and talk about is fantasy. (except for the money and the gifts!)
A responsible findom knows what every man is capable of giving, and urges him accordingly.
Many findoms help the men who serve them come up with a budget they can live with.
As I said earlier, most men who are into this just want to talk about it. Some take it further. I cannot be responsible for everything they do, but I can get the info I need to know when to push and when not to.


So is the only reason you wouldn't financially ruin him to protect your own sake in his bank account, or is it more of an ethical boundary you've set for yourself?

Maybe this is too personal a question, but how much a month do you make on a guy like elaine?
I'm assuming the relationship is build up over time, so the amount is build up accordingly, but how much information do you have about his personal life that may aid you in determining what he's capable off?

I'm not trying to be judgement or anything -not sure if it comes across like I am- but financial domination and blackmail have fascinated me for a long time, and I've had these kinds of questions pop up in my head for a long time, every time the subject of financial domination pops up.

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RE: Does the Bratty Princess Thing Ever Work? - 12/13/2011 2:02:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

Those are all really great questions, Ishtarr. I haven't read the blog; perhaps I'll take a look.


It's a good blog, very well written and quite interesting if you're fascinated about this topic.
I'd dare to say that it's a good read even if you're not interested in the topic.

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RE: Does the Bratty Princess Thing Ever Work? - 12/13/2011 2:15:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		I personally can't abide a bratty bitch.  But the world is full of idiots and people with personality disorders that will tolerate unbelievable shit.  Eventually they find each other to prove the old saying about a fool and his money.

Fuckin' annoying rude brat's... just choke the little fuckers 'till they turn blue and shut up.


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RE: Does the Bratty Princess Thing Ever Work? - 12/13/2011 2:18:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am fasciated by it. :p I don't get it, so I figure it's an opportunity to learn. Will have a look; thanks for the heads-up. :)

And yeah, that's my feeling, RS - it's annoying and rude, not "cute."

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RE: Does the Bratty Princess Thing Ever Work? - 12/13/2011 2:35:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

I am fasciated by it. :p I don't get it, so I figure it's an opportunity to learn. Will have a look; thanks for the heads-up. :)

And yeah, that's my feeling, RS - it's annoying and rude, not "cute."


I guess my overwhelming feeling is, 'not my world'.

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RE: Does the Bratty Princess Thing Ever Work? - 12/13/2011 2:40:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MissAsylum


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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Do you know that Veronica and Call Envy live in the same town I do? Envy is less than five minutes away!


Bah! I hate you.


Come to Louisville! I'll set up a party!

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RE: Does the Bratty Princess Thing Ever Work? - 12/13/2011 2:42:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		Why thank you Mr. Sadist Sir. I daresay if we met in real life, we'd have a good time getting to know one another. I've always appreciated you and your wit.

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RE: Does the Bratty Princess Thing Ever Work? - 12/13/2011 2:50:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hi Ishtarr, I'm not purposely ignoring your questions. I'm getting dinner on the table, and you have a lot of good questions. (some may be too personal for this side, but most not) I want to give your questions the thoughts due. bb later!

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RE: Does the Bratty Princess Thing Ever Work? - 12/13/2011 3:38:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am a Princess. Brat, hell no. I can't abide bratting in a three year old, I sure as hell couldnt deal with it in an adult. Brat = sarcastic bitch in a schoolgirl uniform.

Hib, sarcastic bitch in a kitty ear hat. WHICH IS ENTIRELY DIFFERENT

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RE: Does the Bratty Princess Thing Ever Work? - 12/13/2011 4:31:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		we don't do the brat or princess thing. It turns both of us waay off. To me a brat is like the teenage girls around here who are sooo lound with their goofing off and yelling at one another you just wanna reach over and slap them.

Every single time I get on the bus after school has let out there's at least 3 of these girls who everyone wishes would just shut up! They're loud, obnoxious and if you tell them to please quiet down they yell at you and tell you to mind your own business. They're the ones that as soon as they're off the bus everyone claps lol.



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RE: Does the Bratty Princess Thing Ever Work? - 12/13/2011 4:33:11 PM   
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Men go into the club and observe the behavior of the beautiful, confident, though haughty woman.
Should she acknowledge him, he suddenly gets a visa into her world, simultaneously escaping his world.

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RE: Does the Bratty Princess Thing Ever Work? - 12/13/2011 4:46:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

It's an interesting topic - it was spawned out of an ad in the introductionnn section that went horribly awry...

My experience is mostly to do with female subs who engage in this behavior. In a way, I can see how it would work for a Dominant. Being bossy or bratty blah blah blah.
But it's like the equivalent of a domineering man, though - not the same as a Dominant man.




I don't think so. Looking at it from that standpoint you would also conclude that bratty princess subs aren't 'real' or 'true' because they aren't into service.

In many ways I see it more as a D/lg thing. Where the daughter isn't fully mature, and is bratty, and is daddy's little princess. I can see that with either the daddy or the daughter as the dominant or sub. I have to conclude that a daddy sub must be into humiliation on some level though. Or maybe that's the only way I can wrap my head around it?


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RE: Does the Bratty Princess Thing Ever Work? - 12/13/2011 4:46:48 PM   
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I am a Princess. Brat, hell no. I can't abide bratting in a three year old, I sure as hell couldnt deal with it in an adult. Brat = sarcastic bitch in a schoolgirl uniform.

Hib, sarcastic bitch in a kitty ear hat. WHICH IS ENTIRELY DIFFERENT


I'm not sarcastic. At least not often and not purposefully. Sarcasm is a bitter thing, and I am not a bitter person.

It's possible brat isn't the best word for what I am and do, but it's very close. It's more of an innocent tease. It's difficult to explain unless I'm right there with you doing it. It's not something that's disrespectful, or mean. I really wish I could give you a good example, but it's difficult if we're not talking in person.

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RE: Does the Bratty Princess Thing Ever Work? - 12/13/2011 4:59:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm not generally sarcastic, either, or bitchy, I was flashing back to a SNL sketch...I think it's sad how often sarcasm passes for wit nowadays. I am always teasing, though, it's a good way to entertain while maintaining distance.

People should send me stuff. I need new office chairs. And shoes.

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