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RE: Athletic slaves/submissives - 12/14/2011 11:49:11 AM   
tj444


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I have some very good friends that engage in this behavior. They've been together 17 years, so it must work for them.


You mean as in a threesum relationship with the man slut/bull/doer with the couple for 17 years? or do you mean the couple has been together for 17 years and the men come and go?

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RE: Athletic slaves/submissives - 12/14/2011 1:21:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: tj444

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
I have some very good friends that engage in this behavior. They've been together 17 years, so it must work for them.


You mean as in a threesum relationship with the man slut/bull/doer with the couple for 17 years? or do you mean the couple has been together for 17 years and the men come and go?


It's a cuckold dynamic where she is cuckolded. They have been together for 17 years.


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RE: Athletic slaves/submissives - 12/14/2011 1:40:07 PM   
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I have found no shortage of women lusting after men in religious study groups, art and historical museums


I have found a great shortage of women lusting after sailors, in marinas or otherwise.

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RE: Athletic slaves/submissives - 12/14/2011 1:59:41 PM   
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why are kinky submissives such a minority?




You're joking, right? Maybe it's a geography thing.

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RE: Athletic slaves/submissives - 12/14/2011 2:32:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Achillesx7
why are kinky submissives such a minority?

Because men outnumber women in the scene by at least 10:1.
I guess we're not helping things are we?

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RE: Athletic slaves/submissives - 12/14/2011 3:13:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Achillesx7
why are kinky submissives such a minority?

Because men outnumber women in the scene by at least 10:1.
I guess we're not helping things are we?


Nope, but I bet you're having a lot of fun......


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RE: Athletic slaves/submissives - 12/14/2011 3:20:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Achillesx7

10:1 ratio on the largest bdsm site isnt very promising statistically speaking:)


You are so right. Statistically there seem to be so many more kinky men than kinky women, no matter what age group we are talking about. This means that men have to try harder. They have to impress more. They have to actually work at finding a submissive or slave who is compatible in both vanilla and kinky ways.

That is probably why there are so many pro Dommes versus pro Doms. Women can go to any event and find someone to play with them whereas a single man might have to really work his super personality to find someone to play with at an event.

Since I'm a woman I don't mind the odds at all. You being a man might have some difficulties. Life is not fair. The odds do not favor you. Just accept it and do all you can to find what you desire. At the moment this seems to be a natural submissive or slave at the right age to not only be submissive but to want to be submissive who is athletic and desires a black Dom with a buff body. Quite frankly, you will appeal to a very small percentage of submissives or slaves whether they are natural submissives and slaves or not. I am not looking nor am I am in age category that would be looking at someone like you, but even when I was young I thought weight lifters and those who looked like them were rather icky looking. It just does not appeal to me and never has. Sorry.

As I have said before, there is not quick way for you to find that perfect submissive. You will have to use all the ways available to you to find her. This means internet as well as munches and events. Networking is a great way to make sure people remember you as a great guy and a great potential Dom. Make friends even if those friends are other Doms or owned submissives. Increase your odds all you can.

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RE: Athletic slaves/submissives - 12/14/2011 3:24:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		Going to events, you may find a different ratio, too. Here inn NE, there are more single subs than single doms of either gender. So our community is "backward" from the typically assumed ratio.

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RE: Athletic slaves/submissives - 12/14/2011 3:24:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		I do try harder, I do impress more.  Thats why I am always getting letters from the cmail moderators to leave people alone......   

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RE: Athletic slaves/submissives - 12/14/2011 3:33:35 PM   
peppermint


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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

Going to events, you may find a different ratio, too. Here inn NE, there are more single subs than single doms of either gender. So our community is "backward" from the typically assumed ratio.


How interesting!!! In the NW it seems there are several males for every female who is also looking. I have mentored several ladies my own age and have told them that their age doesn't matter at all. There are many male Doms close to their age who would love to meet them. I don't know of any females, submissive or dominant who are unpartnered due to lack of choices.

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Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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RE: Athletic slaves/submissives - 12/14/2011 3:34:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I do try harder, I do impress more.  Thats why I am always getting letters from the cmail moderators to leave people alone......   


We all know how "trying" you are.

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Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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RE: Athletic slaves/submissives - 12/14/2011 3:42:55 PM   
LillyBoPeep


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ORIGINAL: peppermint


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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

Going to events, you may find a different ratio, too. Here inn NE, there are more single subs than single doms of either gender. So our community is "backward" from the typically assumed ratio.


How interesting!!! In the NW it seems there are several males for every female who is also looking. I have mentored several ladies my own age and have told them that their age doesn't matter at all. There are many male Doms close to their age who would love to meet them. I don't know of any females, submissive or dominant who are unpartnered due to lack of choices.


Lack of choices is kind of "the thing" here. Haha
Most of the Dominants who are available are because they're poly.
Our communnity is mostly older people, too. We do have a TNG group, but a good chunk are 50s and beyond.
There are some in their 30s-40s but again, either not available or poly.

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RE: Athletic slaves/submissives - 12/14/2011 5:07:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		Same here more single subs then single doms. Lots of guys or other newbies using the l/s for z quickly . Not many single doms.

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RE: Athletic slaves/submissives - 12/14/2011 8:05:00 PM   
peppermint


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ORIGINAL: Buzzzz

Same here more single subs then single doms. Lots of guys or other newbies using the l/s for z quickly . Not many single doms.


Around here there are more single male subs compared to single female Dominants, however there are also more single male Dominants compared to single female subs. Either way, there seem to be more kinky men (both submissive and Dominant) looking and a lack of kinky women (both submissive and Dominant). All I have to do is look at the list of who has been on the site recently from my state and it's usually 80 tp 90 percent male.

< Message edited by peppermint -- 12/14/2011 8:06:09 PM >

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Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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RE: Athletic slaves/submissives - 12/15/2011 3:52:14 PM   
Higuysitsme


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

This is entirely hypothetical on the basis that such a muscular black Dom exists somewhere, right?



Lol. Luv it!

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RE: Athletic slaves/submissives - 12/17/2011 12:03:27 AM   
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Are there any submissive/ slave women that are athletic or have nice bodies due to investing in there health consistently? Or any out there that crave to be dominated & submit to the authority of a muscular black man? Any dom can be muscular but are there sub/slave women that literally get weak for black doms?


Oh, dude. What do you think the odds are that an athletic woman who likes black men and lives anywhere near you is going to stumble on this thread? If all you are doing is putting up an ad (which is all this thread seems to be), you should just look through the profiles and write to women directly. Because, honestly, anyone with half a brain sees right through you, and you're coming off as a buffoon.

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RE: Athletic slaves/submissives - 12/17/2011 12:56:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: seekerofslut

I have found a great shortage of women lusting after sailors, in marinas or otherwise.

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Well, seeker, why weren't you in MY marina?!

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RE: Athletic slaves/submissives - 12/17/2011 2:55:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Achillesx7

Im not into being cucked, more curious about being the doer per say


Wasn't it Frank Sinatra who said that everybody does somebody?

Or was it Arnold Schwarzenegger? I can't remember offhand..


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RE: Athletic slaves/submissives - 12/17/2011 5:13:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Achillesx7

Are there any submissive/ slave women that are athletic or have nice bodies due to investing in there health consistently?
Yes, there are.
Or any out there that crave to be dominated & submit to the authority of a muscular black man?
Of course there is.
Any dom can be muscular but are there sub/slave women that literally get weak for black doms?
Why not?


Now all you have to do is get off the computer, go to a few events or munches and meet them. Good luck in your search.


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RE: Athletic slaves/submissives - 12/17/2011 5:18:51 AM   
LillyBoPeep


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Status: offline 		And be aware, a lot of people might find the "color-specific" thing pretty boorish... (*raises hand*)

Theoretically you only need to find one girl to go along with you, and they're certainly out there, so no worries. But be prepared to meet lots of others who just think it's silly to assume there's something special about you or your "Dominance" because you have differently-active melanocytes.

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