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Truthful people or just scammers? - 12/16/2011 12:52:03 AM

Xynarah

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Hey there

My Husband and I are genuinely looking for another submissive woman to join our relationship. Our experience so far has been that people don't read your profile and contact you anyway wanting things that are clearly not desired. And rather off-putting, we've so been messaged by girls claiming to be gorgeous, perfect and just what the doctor ordered - so to speak - obviously scammers. Some of them in your face scammers... "buy me a cell phone so I can call you...." WTF?? Is anybody on here legit or what?

I'm feeling so very let down... thinking I might just delete the account and move on.

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RE: Truthful people or just scammers? - 12/16/2011 1:00:34 AM

GreedyTop

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you're hunting for a unicorn. like many others on the site. yes, there are scammers on the site (as there are everywhere else on the webz). Use your common sense, ignore/block/delete those that aren't what you're after.

Also, you may want to check the poly forum.

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RE: Truthful people or just scammers? - 12/16/2011 2:28:49 AM

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good luck

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RE: Truthful people or just scammers? - 12/16/2011 2:49:26 AM

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In addition to what Greedy stated about how tough the competition is, your profile is more a tribute to your husband than a realistic discussion of what you expect the prospective woman to do, and how she'd fit in within your house. In other words, while you complain that your prospectives are not reading your profile, they might be in fact reading it and not wishing to go further.

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RE: Truthful people or just scammers? - 12/16/2011 5:12:23 AM

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Hey xyn, don't give up so easily, give it at least thirty years!

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RE: Truthful people or just scammers? - 12/16/2011 5:17:32 AM

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What GT, DS said,
Welcome

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RE: Truthful people or just scammers? - 12/16/2011 5:19:43 AM

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After getting your husband's username off your profile, I find it interesting that HIS profile makes nary a mention of you.

If I were still searching that would put me off IMMEDIATELY to find out he held back that he was married. If I was a bi-female looking to become a part of an existing couple, I would skip over his profile and never email him and if I were a monogamous woman I would be extremely pissed that he held back his marital status.

May I suggest a couple's profile for the both of you with links to your individual profiles and in the individual profiles a link back to your couple's profile?

ETA: I JUST noticed that your husband's profile is a couple's profile, but there is still the problem that he doesn't mention you at all in the body of the profile. If I could easily miss that, so could any prospective thirds.

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RE: Truthful people or just scammers? - 12/16/2011 5:23:34 AM

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Welcome to the site, Xynarah. Best of luck to the both of you.

edited because searching4mysir types much faster than I!

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RE: Truthful people or just scammers? - 12/16/2011 5:30:31 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

edited because searching4mysir types much faster than I!

What can I say...I'm an admin who types 80 wpm

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RE: Truthful people or just scammers? - 12/16/2011 5:50:19 AM

DaddySatyr

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If No one here is legit(imate), why ask for our opinion? If we truly aren't legitimate, then we're only going to try to manipulate you into staying so that we can ply our trade on you (I don't need a cell phone, per se but an upgrade to one of those fancy smart phones would be nice ... or I could use a new television).

Seriously, though, finding a lady that will be able to accept the idea of entering into an already established relationship is the first hurdle.

What must be understood is that two-person relationships are difficult enough in this world (and, IMHO, people don't put enough effort into them but, they just treat them as "disposable"). Then, you want to add a third person meaning that there's a relationship amongst one man and one lady, one man and a second lady, both of those ladies and both of those ladies as relates to the man. It's not rocket science but, it's not play time in the sandbox, either.

Now, you need to add into the equation that almost all people suffer from some level (even if it is minute) of insecurity. This adds more "fun" to the mix of your multi-person relationship.

I am not trying to discourage you. I promise you but, you need to realize that what you seek takes time, effort, understanding, and (perhaps most importantly) honesty/openness.

Good luck on your journey.

Peace and comfort,

Michael

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RE: Truthful people or just scammers? - 12/16/2011 5:55:02 AM

ChatteParfaitt

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Welcome to the discussion side of CM.

I echo what everyone else has said, with a extra dose of hypocrites are not loved here or anywhere else.

While you are downing the "scammers" you have encountered (and I know there are many), your husband has "neglected" to include you in his profile.

Someone might turn around and call the two of you "scammers."

Dig?

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RE: Truthful people or just scammers? - 12/16/2011 5:59:55 AM

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You are all figments of my (very diseased) imagination

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RE: Truthful people or just scammers? - 12/16/2011 6:03:01 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

You are all figments of my (very diseased) imagination

Then, could you, please, in the future; imagine me as 4 inches taller, 15 years younger, and with four more zeros before the decimal point in my bank account?

... Oh! and with a nine-inch "personality", too, please?

Peace and comfort,

Michael

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RE: Truthful people or just scammers? - 12/16/2011 6:04:46 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

You are all figments of my (very diseased) imagination

... Oh! and with a 9 inch "personality", too, please?

Ahhhhhhh, Nine Inch Nails.

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RE: Truthful people or just scammers? - 12/16/2011 6:13:05 AM

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Imagine me huevos rancheros for breakfast. I'm hungry.

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RE: Truthful people or just scammers? - 12/16/2011 7:18:14 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

You are all figments of my (very diseased) imagination

Is there a shot for that?

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RE: Truthful people or just scammers? - 12/16/2011 7:41:00 AM

LadyPact

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Welcome to the forums, OP.

Out of curiosity, I had a quick look at both profiles. Unless there is a couples profile that I'm missing, both you and your husband just signed up within the last week. Did you really think that there were scads of bisexual submissive poly females who were willing to join a couple and it would take less than a week to find one? Ummmm..... Yeah...... No. It doesn't work like that.

Instead, it's quite the other way around. There are so many couples looking to find that person to join them compared to those who are willing to join an established household that the numbers are staggering. That's why those single bisexual submissive poly females are called unicorns. Expect your search to find one to take much longer than a week.

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RE: Truthful people or just scammers? - 12/16/2011 8:19:30 AM

GreedyTop

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*smooches the ever lovely LadyP, and sends much love to her household*

*still waiting for that friggin AK addy card, dammit!!! LOL*

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RE: Truthful people or just scammers? - 12/16/2011 8:59:49 AM

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This.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Welcome to the forums, OP.

Out of curiosity, I had a quick look at both profiles. Unless there is a couples profile that I'm missing, both you and your husband just signed up within the last week. Did you really think that there were scads of bisexual submissive poly females who were willing to join a couple and it would take less than a week to find one? Ummmm..... Yeah...... No. It doesn't work like that.

Instead, it's quite the other way around. There are so many couples looking to find that person to join them compared to those who are willing to join an established household that the numbers are staggering. That's why those single bisexual submissive poly females are called unicorns. Expect your search to find one to take much longer than a week.

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RE: Truthful people or just scammers? - 12/16/2011 11:36:40 AM

Kana

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

You are all figments of my (very diseased) imagination

Is there a shot for that?

Indeed. It has to be injected straight into the clit though....

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