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Sissification - 5/29/2006 9:09:23 AM

idoastold

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What are some of the ways a Mistress would engage a Sub in sissification activities?

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RE: Sissification - 5/29/2006 1:00:20 PM

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A put your cock and balls in a control device.
dress you in panties.
Thus you cannot get an erection.
Prevent you from ever cumming.
Then massage your prostate gland gently so the cum comes out once a month but never let you get hard or have an orgasm.
this is called forced milking.

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fuck you in the ass with her strapon.
then fuck you in the mouth with her strapon.
sit on your face and require you to tongue her asshole.
chemical washes can make that a safer activity.
So choose wisely.
A sweet frock to wear by choice is one thing, bondage with forced feminization as detailed above requires a safe choice of domme.
You get to specify your 'Hard limits' in your ad. that section should be large, based on your reading before you engage the process.

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RE: Sissification - 5/29/2006 1:10:08 PM

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What are some of the ways a Mistress would engage a Sub in sissification activities?

Is this a question about how to motivate a submissive to submit to sissification, or just a desire to see a list of nasty forced feminization techniques? Hmmm.....

Sissification of a man can include some of the following activities:
* Making him wear panties/bra/stockings
* Making him shop for the above items
* Putting him in make up, wig, fake nails
* Using him sexually as if he were female -- fucking his ass/mouth with a strap on.

The list can go on and on. However, I think what's key is how the woman treats the man and reacts to the situation. She needs to be into it, enjoying his transformation, mocking him, teasing him. She needs to start talking to him as if he is a sissy, calling him a slut and a whore, referring to his ass as his "pussy" and his cock as his "clittie" for example. She needs to force him to walk and speak like a woman and take on a female persona -- whether it be a slut, a schoolgirl, etc.

Like many aspects of power exchange, the tools and techniques are just props. The attitudes, lust and motivation are what make or break it. I could turn a man into a sissy without the use of any of the above props. I've turned a man into a "whore" in bed and had him behaving like a sissy with and without the slutty outfits.

Although, the slutty outfits are very hot when on the right guy.

What makes 'sissification' work for me is the guy not wanting to be sissified.

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RE: Sissification - 5/29/2006 4:36:06 PM

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Also , the Mistress, has to pretty much forget your male existence when comunicating with you. I had suggested to a woman who was trying to sissfy a guy that she only speak to him as his fem name. Meaning , his male side never was acknowledge. His..excuse me her name was used with all communications.Never was he seen as a male even in his vanilla life for she made him start to realize the male side was his false side. For example, every week, he was to write in his journal ( a pink book with matching stationary) his feelings about his life from a female postion. And he had to write a letter by hand and had to send it everyweek to his Mistress on all sorts of experiences and ideas. Of course, he wore female garments on a daily bases of some sort, but that was expected. Even went to the level of opening an email account with his female ego only....

Do this often enought, and having the right person involved and you have yourself a sissyfied man who will become more indebted to a Mistress who can bring it out of them.

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RE: Sissification - 5/30/2006 2:24:16 AM

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My Mistress has trained a number of sissy slaves and her starting point is always to arrange for the sissy to be castrated. Sissification is the removal of the males masculine side and this is the way Mistress begins. She feels otherwise use of female attire is just crossdressing and of no value in forcing a female persona on the male slave. Also its not just treating the sissy as a female but more as a prissy pretty plaything in the image of a female almost if you like as a caricature subjugated and humiliated. However the male origins must remain to show that the sissy is actually male but displayed as female. I hope a few of my Mistresses ideas help.
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RE: Sissification - 5/30/2006 7:44:15 AM

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Some of us need that sissification to maintain that constant submissive nature. It certainly works for me.

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RE: Sissification - 5/31/2006 6:20:30 AM

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i have always dressed in female attire on a part time basis, and thought i was pretty sisy. Then, Mistress bought me a little girl dress in pink, natch, and it was a slap down! i am a sissy. i also have a pretty pink lacetrimmed skirt and matching panties to wear for Her. THAT will go along way to sissify even a sissy! ....like me! sissy-stephi curtsey

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RE: Sissification - 5/31/2006 6:51:31 AM

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Some of us need that sissification to maintain that constant submissive nature. It certainly works for me.

Would that make you a fetishist instead of a submissive?

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RE: Sissification - 5/31/2006 8:48:02 AM

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My method starts with a girlie name.
Then I pick out a bra and panties or I ask what color they like.
I actually dress My sissies.
I enjoy putting their thigh highs on them.I apply their make-up and put the wig on them.
Sometimes they wear a maid outfit sometimes a dress...they then go do some housework.
I LOVE to watch men try to vacuum with high heels on...LOL

Sometimes I get mean and attach a kitty collar( something pretty) on their penis with a matching leash....I let the leash drag...they have to worry about stepping on the leash and/or it getting sucked up the vacuum....Life is good

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RE: Sissification - 6/3/2006 1:09:28 AM

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ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

My method starts with a girlie name.
Then I pick out a bra and panties or I ask what color they like.
I actually dress My sissies.
I enjoy putting their thigh highs on them.I apply their make-up and put the wig on them.
Sometimes they wear a maid outfit sometimes a dress...they then go do some housework.
I LOVE to watch men try to vacuum with high heels on...LOL

Sometimes I get mean and attach a kitty collar( something pretty) on their penis with a matching leash....I let the leash drag...they have to worry about stepping on the leash and/or it getting sucked up the vacuum....Life is good

well you sound like my kind of mistress think i want to move to denmark curtsy tvsue

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RE: Sissification - 6/4/2006 10:38:12 AM

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Hi,. I happen to be a cross dresser. Been this way since early childhood. I also happen to be proudly submissive. But as a cross dresser, I do not identify as a sissy at all. In fact, I just do not like the term for it's other meanings as well what I consider myself. The term sissy to me is a put down and an insult of who and what I am.

If my Mistress or Domme wants to feminize me, needless to say, I am very happy about that. But to use the word "sissify" does not go well with me.at all. Of course if my Domme liked that term and referred to me as such, I am sure I would not protest since it is Her will I want to please.

BTW, the Domme that has me under consideration does not like the term "Mistress" either. So needless to say, I do not call Her Mistress. However we both respect and understand the common use of both titles or terms, Mistress and sissy. But they do not fit me or us when it comes to my feminization and the way She or I view Her earned title or my being femininzed.
Different strokes for different folks I guess. To each their own.

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RE: Sissification - 6/4/2006 3:14:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

Sometimes I get mean and attach a kitty collar( something pretty) on their penis with a matching leash....I let the leash drag...they have to worry about stepping on the leash and/or it getting sucked up the vacuum....Life is good

I'm not really into sissification, but *that* made me smile.

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RE: Sissification - 6/4/2006 11:16:03 PM

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I too am not very fond of veing called a sissy. I'm also, though my point of view is a tad biased, against FORCED feminization, especially when you alter the human body in an irreversible way. However, as long as the relationship is strong and, yes, a loving one, it could work.
AAkasha got it right on, as did MistressSassy.

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RE: Sissification - 6/5/2006 7:02:11 AM

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I guess it could be alittle of both. It is just a component I need to get me in that state of mind .

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RE: Sissification - 6/5/2006 7:13:29 AM

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OOOOOOH! i agree with Mistress Sassy66! and miss tv sue. If You treat a man as a sissy, sissy is what You get! (that is what i told my Mom!)

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RE: Sissification - 6/5/2006 7:38:42 AM

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Now, when I ask this question, it comes from a 24/7, so remember that:
Why would a mistress choose to sissify her submissive or slave as a 24/7? This question assumes the two had been in the relationship a few months.

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RE: Sissification - 6/9/2006 9:05:09 AM

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Sissifacation is a method of insuring submission, or enforcing it, in my case.

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RE: Sissification - 6/9/2006 9:24:10 AM

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I love sissies. I’m not sure I could handle it 24/7 or living in my house but I certainly love spending time with them. Its humiliation and affection all rolled up together. The dynamic is truly special. Throughout the years I developed very strong wonderful relationships with a few sissies.
If I told you my secrets about what I do to them I'd have to kill you. lol- well that's a strong word. Its all very complicated.

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RE: Sissification - 6/9/2006 6:47:52 PM

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very interesting Rowena. Do you think your Mistress might be interested in training me? Castration as a starting point sounds perfect.

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RE: Sissification - 6/24/2006 4:46:15 AM

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Sissification has been something that i've found trips my trigger of late...the appeal for me is more having my manhood stripped, as opposed to any great desire to be female. While many have expressed concern about the extreme it was taken to for Rowena, i could see losing my balls, if that was something that a Domme i was in a long term relationship wanted for me...not something She'd want because i wanted it...but if it was something She really wanted...that, for me, would give it great meaning.

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