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Given your personal sexual and kink preferences, have you...to date...met your perfect partner?


Yes (Males)
  5% (3)
No (Males)
  28% (15)
Yes (Females)
  40% (21)
No (Females)
  25% (13)


Total Votes : 52
(last vote on : 12/23/2011 9:15:18 AM)
(Poll ended: 12/28/2011 6:45:00 AM)


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Ranger4 -> Given your personal sexual and kink preferences, have you...to date...met your perfect partner? (12/17/2011 1:32:40 PM)

Comments welcome...it would be nice if you responded gender specific...




Lucylastic -> RE: Given your personal sexual and kink preferences, have you...to date...met your perfect partner? (12/17/2011 1:47:54 PM)

OH I love that avatar, yum
I voted yes, purely because given my real life "restrictions" I have got the perfect male submissive for me.
Without the restrictions or realities... well we can all dream.
Im not looking for anything beyond what I have now. If I could, it would be someone with him and more of a maso side, but Im having way to much fun with what reality delivers:)




Lockit -> RE: Given your personal sexual and kink preferences, have you...to date...met your perfect partner? (12/17/2011 1:54:10 PM)

Yes, a few times. [:D] No, a few times.

Mr. Right for Right Now has been the most common. He was okay. [;)]

Lifetime partner... Mr. Right all the time... no, not at this time. [:D]




SweetCheri -> RE: Given your personal sexual and kink preferences, have you...to date...met your perfect partner? (12/17/2011 2:08:31 PM)

I have no one perfect partner, but I did meet three girls who between them are my perfect partner.




tazzygirl -> RE: Given your personal sexual and kink preferences, have you...to date...met your perfect partner? (12/17/2011 2:10:54 PM)

I met someone who was almost Mr Right... who thought I wasnt right for him, which made him the "almost" part.

Eh, it happens.




angelikaJ -> RE: Given your personal sexual and kink preferences, have you...to date...met your perfect partner? (12/17/2011 2:12:23 PM)

Yes - I didn't know what I wanted and so wasn't really looking BUT my perfect for me (and very real) partner found me here in Jan '09.
My becoming His was a process.

I once asked Him where was He going to take me and His reply was a whispered "Everywhere.".
I love the journey of the facets within Everywhere.
I love Him and I love belongingness; specific to Him.

edit: clarity and to add
quote:


I have written elsewhere that it is better than perfect; it is real.
Real, of course, is not always easy.
Real can mean hearing and seeing uncomfortable truths.
Real can mean hard work and getting one's hands dirty.


I prefer real to perfect.




TheFireWithinMe -> RE: Given your personal sexual and kink preferences, have you...to date...met your perfect partner? (12/17/2011 2:18:14 PM)

Female...and still single, dammit! In other words NO I haven't found my perfect or even semi perfect man. [>:]




LillyBoPeep -> RE: Given your personal sexual and kink preferences, have you...to date...met your perfect partner? (12/17/2011 2:23:22 PM)

I'm a chick, and yes I met a man who was pretty perfect.
He left the planet, but I'm moving on annd I think there's a possibility of finding another kind of perfect.
Every experience with a different person is new. They don't compare to before because they aren't "before." Just "now" and the possibility of tomorrow.

So we'll see what perfect means tomorrow. :p




tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Given your personal sexual and kink preferences, have you...to date...met your perfect partner? (12/17/2011 2:28:05 PM)

Yup, found him, not letting go, he's not either, and it only took 8 years.  [:)]




barelynangel -> RE: Given your personal sexual and kink preferences, have you...to date...met your perfect partner? (12/17/2011 2:41:19 PM)

Yes, i found my perfect partner, i didn't get to have him forever, but the time i did have him was the right fit at the right time. 




littlewonder -> RE: Given your personal sexual and kink preferences, have you...to date...met your perfect partner? (12/17/2011 3:59:11 PM)

Yes...happily a couple for 6 years and still going strong and we met here.




LaTigresse -> RE: Given your personal sexual and kink preferences, have you...to date...met your perfect partner? (12/17/2011 4:05:38 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Ranger4

Comments welcome...it would be nice if you responded gender specific...


In my mind......no one person is perfect and yet...all are perfectly them.

I do not expect any one person to be my everything. I just want them to be themselves and love them as they are.




sheisreeds -> RE: Given your personal sexual and kink preferences, have you...to date...met your perfect partner? (12/17/2011 4:20:26 PM)

Yes, he and I have been together almost 3 years. Never thought I could be this happy with someone, and have my strangeness be so well understood.

Amazingly we met on a vanilla dating site, just chatting about our divorces.

You just never know when or how you'll find the one.




JanahX -> RE: Given your personal sexual and kink preferences, have you...to date...met your perfect partner? (12/17/2011 4:21:12 PM)

Yup ... it was a cool day in JanahX's world.

Basks in the awesomesauce ....




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Given your personal sexual and kink preferences, have you...to date...met your perfect partner? (12/17/2011 5:16:59 PM)

Perfect? I haven't met anyone, let alone someone perfect. I've managed to kill some time and get my heart broken a few times.




lizi -> RE: Given your personal sexual and kink preferences, have you...to date...met your perfect partner? (12/17/2011 5:43:33 PM)

He's not perfect, I've never met my perfect partner, but he's pretty awesome. We get along fantastically and do weird things like finish each other's sentences. We like the same things and have the same type of outlook on life and ideas on what is important. I know my questions and need for information drives him a little bonkers at times, and his tendency to rush combined with tunnel vision makes me very uncomfortable.

I don't think I'll hit it closer than this to perfection, so I'm willing to accept this as being realistically the closest I'll get and I'm very happy with that. I'm not settling by any means and I'm pretty damned happy  [:)]




RexDarcy -> RE: Given your personal sexual and kink preferences, have you...to date...met your perfect partner? (12/17/2011 6:41:30 PM)

I am single. I don't think I will ever find the "perfect fit", but I have had a few good connections and one connection that was fucking awesome.




stellauk -> RE: Given your personal sexual and kink preferences, have you...to date...met your perfect partner? (12/17/2011 7:58:02 PM)

'Moons and Junes and ferris wheels, the dizzy dancing way you feel
When every fairytale comes real, I've looked at love that way
But now it's just another show, you leave them laughing when you go
And if you care don't let them know, don't give yourself away...'

Judy Collins 'Both Sides Now'

'What do you get when you give your heart?
You get it all broken up and battered
That's what you get, a heart that's shattered
I'll never fall in love again...'

Bobby Gentry 'I'll never fall in love again'

'We are stardust, we are golden
And we've got to get ourselves back to the garden'

Matthews Southern Comfort Band 'Woodstock'

Feel my vibe? I'm pretty much 1960's lifestyle, heart somewhere between Monterey and Woodstock.

No perfect partner or even a relationship.. Just friends, shared experiences, shared memories, happiness, love, everybody just be themselves and come and go in my life freely, some stay, some go away, others return..

Anything more than this is a bonus. Everyone is an individual who brings something special and unique to my life. They are appreciated. They are part of what makes my life what it is.






LadyHibiscus -> RE: Given your personal sexual and kink preferences, have you...to date...met your perfect partner? (12/17/2011 8:01:11 PM)

Well, now I have a Judy Collins earworm.




Casteele -> RE: Given your personal sexual and kink preferences, have you...to date...met your perfect partner? (12/18/2011 3:16:25 AM)

I'm a bit confused about the answer choices. Is that "Yes (Males)" for "Yes, I have and I am male" or "Yes, I have found the perfect male partner?" And so on for the other answers. It is especially important on a site like this where gender is a little more involved.. than simply "M/F."

Regardless, though, for myself, I cannot answer the question because of how I view things. (Removed what I originally typed here and started a new topic in general banter instead--http://www.collarchat.com/m_3965501/tm.htm.)




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