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Awareness -> RE: new sub female looking for help (12/19/2011 11:51:16 PM)
Awesome. Now you've been rumbled, the whole site sucks. This is brilliant! Warning people. Meltdown in progress! This identity will self-destruct in 5....

SweetCheri -> RE: new sub female looking for help (12/20/2011 12:03:41 AM)
Rumbled? What do you mean by rumbled?

Awareness -> RE: new sub female looking for help (12/20/2011 12:29:32 AM)
It's a colloquialism. You wouldn't understand.

SweetCheri -> RE: new sub female looking for help (12/20/2011 1:23:21 AM)
I see, its in Buffoonish, that would explain why it makes no sense to me.

searching4mysir -> RE: new sub female looking for help (12/20/2011 5:32:53 AM)
Cheri, Would Heather have EVER said "go to CM, create a profile, ask a question in the Ask a Submissive section looking for a mentor, but give no details in regards to what you are asking about?" Somehow I doubt it. As many issues as I may have with Heather, she is an intelligent woman and would rather train her submissives herself.

barelynangel -> RE: new sub female looking for help (12/20/2011 5:34:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chocolateeyes46 I am currently under consideration by a very worthy dom and am here to learn more about the D/s lifestyle and where this leads me (I am totally new). I have no interest in talking to any men, only females to get their advice, answer questions and gain perspective from their point of view. Any help you would offer? I am sure you are realizing by the responses that your wording above is not going over well. My confusion is why you are so worried about discussing D/s with both genders you are wanting to learn about D/s on a message board? If you are totally new, you would probably find it beneficial to listen to all perspectives and then take what you find useful and then perhaps discussing it with your dom to collaborate on things that are new to you and he can help you understand more of what you hear from the public so to speak. All in all, this board is full of female perspective on many aspects of D/s, i don't think you will have trouble finding archives full of female perspective on various D/s discussions and topics. angel

LadyPact -> RE: new sub female looking for help (12/20/2011 5:35:35 AM)
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SweetCheri -> RE: new sub female looking for help (12/20/2011 6:24:34 AM)
Hannah! Heather is a submissive, Hannah Lynn is the one who does the training. This thread has concentrated almost entirely on being under consideration, her desire not to speak with men, and discussing what she wrote to another poster in an email (against the TOS by the way). At the time I made my post there had been one actual reply to the topic, and two sort of off-topic but helpful replies out of 38 replies. Are you at all surprised that I would advise her to look elsewhere?

searching4mysir -> RE: new sub female looking for help (12/20/2011 6:36:24 AM)
You obviously knew who I was talking about. Sorry, Haytch House isn't all that important to me to keep you all straight (and I was picturing the "Hannahlynheather" username in my mind). Yes, I'm still surprised that you would tell her to look elsewhere. The fact is she never asked a specific question so there wasn't anything for anyone to focus on. With the OP, talking about being "under consideration" wasn't really off-topic because she didn't really GIVE us a topic.

OsideGirl -> RE: new sub female looking for help (12/20/2011 7:22:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: searching4mysir The fact is she never asked a specific question so there wasn't anything for anyone to focus on. With the OP, talking about being "under consideration" wasn't really off-topic because she didn't really GIVE us a topic. I have to agree. Her post was along the lines of "I'm thinking about taking a math class and my teacher sent me here to find out what math is like from other female students. The teacher is thinking about accepting me and even though I've never met the teacher or spoken to any of his students.....I'm positive he's a good teacher."

Lockit -> RE: new sub female looking for help (12/20/2011 7:27:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetCheri My 100% honest advice? Ask on a different site, as you can see from the responses you have received so far, you won't actually get much in the way of useful advice from anybody here. This is not the place for somebody who actually wants to learn. Had there been an actual question asked, there might have been answers given to the question. There wasn't a question. There was an attempt to try to isolate submissive women and include them in mentoring a woman in a relationship many found questionable on a number of fronts. Do feel free to advise the op if you find our responses faulty.

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