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xXLithiumXx -> RE: Orgasm Control (1/2/2012 12:58:01 PM)
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl
Experienced? Yes.
By either of those methods? No.
It takes time, this isnt something you can train her to do overnight... or even in a month. I dont know about her, by denying me orgasms, after a while, has the opposite effect.... I simply lose all desire to even try.
Having her beg to cum is a good place to start. As she begs, keep her on the edge by denying her over and over for that session. But dont keep that edge raw for days, that may only serve to piss her off. When she is begging so that you know she needs to cum, not wanting but needing, then give her the command word...and immediately stop all stimulation. If she cant, allow her a moment to relax, then start again... repeating the process over and over until she is pops without any contact.
You have to get her to associate the orgasm to your voice, not to your touch. Also, something that seems to be lacking in many I speak too about this subject is that teasing has become something of the past. Teasing is fun, exciting and keeps her in a steady but low hum. I would hope I dont have to explain how to tease your woman. It doesnt have to be a concentrated effort for hours on end. While she is washing the dishes or cooking, slide up behind her and pop her on the ass (make sure she isnt holding anything breakable). If she is on the phone, a snuggle behind her and cupping a breast works wonders to distract and titillate. And text messages while you are apart are a great way to keep the excitement going. I would get text messages about having hot chocolate ready for me when I got home... because he loved how hot my hands would get giving him a massage. They dont have to be graphic, just enough for her to know exactly how sexually exciting you find her.
It can be done. And its definitely worth the work.
Good luck!
This.
I had a dom that had me trained so well he could stop an argument by giving me command. Dead in my tracks, fall to my knees, stutter and puddle. No joke.
A woman's orgasm is hard to work out with out unraveling the mind; what works with one, may not work as well with the other.
But the idea is, if you want her to cum on command, this approach is probably the most solid.
My dom used this method, and the results were amazing.
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