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goldcoastguy -> 38m dom daddy QLD seeks sub sugarbaby (12/21/2011 4:39:49 AM)

im a 38 dom daddy on the gold coast QLD seeking a sub / sugarbaby, in return she will receive a generous allowance plus gifts

hope to hear from slutty subs soon !



xxblushesxx -> RE: 38m dom daddy QLD seeks sub sugarbaby (12/21/2011 4:42:44 AM)

God, that'll get 'em crawling out of the woodwork.
Btw, what is QLD? (just curious)



DaddySatyr -> RE: 38m dom daddy QLD seeks sub sugarbaby (12/21/2011 4:54:55 AM)

"QLD" is "Queensland" (Australia)



xxblushesxx -> RE: 38m dom daddy QLD seeks sub sugarbaby (12/21/2011 5:06:10 AM)

Thank you, sir. : )



searching4mysir -> RE: 38m dom daddy QLD seeks sub sugarbaby (12/21/2011 5:22:09 AM)

Welcome to the DISCUSSION side of CM.

Color me naive, but by using the phrase "sugarbaby" do you mean you are a fin-dom and you expect to live off her giving her "a generous allowance and gifts" out of the money she earns?



xxblushesxx -> RE: 38m dom daddy QLD seeks sub sugarbaby (12/21/2011 5:26:52 AM)

Generally, a sugarbaby is taken care of by a sugardaddy. In a true SB, SD relationship, there is no sex involved. I have a feeling there would be in this one, however. HTH!



ashjor911 -> RE: 38m dom daddy QLD seeks sub sugarbaby (12/21/2011 5:42:58 AM)

Welcome



searching4mysir -> RE: 38m dom daddy QLD seeks sub sugarbaby (12/21/2011 6:17:13 AM)


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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Generally, a sugarbaby is taken care of by a sugardaddy. In a true SB, SD relationship, there is no sex involved. I have a feeling there would be in this one, however. HTH!


Thanks...I was thinking a sugarbaby was the opposite of a sugardaddy where the baby provided all.



JanahX -> RE: 38m dom daddy QLD seeks sub sugar baby (12/21/2011 6:25:17 AM)

I always think its interesting when guys like to go after women that sleep around with lots of people and is currently doing so. (if they are a successful slut - that is)



kalikshama -> RE: 38m dom daddy QLD seeks sub sugarbaby (12/21/2011 6:38:09 AM)

/snicker/

http://www.sugarbaby4u.com/blog/sugar-daddy/sugar-baby-why-you-wont-find-a-sugar-baby-on-those-regular-dating-sites/

Before sugar daddy and sugar baby became popular search terms for online relationships, there were only these gigantic dating sites that take anybody and everybody. For the average successful man who has a busy lifestyle, and really doesn’t have a lot of time to search for ladies online every day, those sites can be cumbersome. Sure, you can search according to all sorts of special criteria, but are they really that helpful? Not if you want a sugar baby .

Members of the dating community who are not from the crust, may often go on to date a few times, fall in love, and get married. However, for the affluent dating community, standard dating rules dont apply. Wealthy men often seek a form of companionship that includes superior physical beauty, and they have a desire to pamper their women with gifts, travel and more. They seek such a mutually beneficial relationship that satisfies their lifestyle and needs. Many women who are not from this class of society do not understand the unique needs and desires of affluent men, and that is why the second stage of dating for most of these men involve the women realizing what the man really wants, or the man realizing that the woman simply can not satisfy those needs.



J1M -> RE: 38m dom daddy QLD seeks sub sugarbaby (12/21/2011 6:48:08 AM)


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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Generally, a sugarbaby is taken care of by a sugardaddy. In a true SB, SD relationship, there is no sex involved. I have a feeling there would be in this one, however. HTH!


I have never heard that SD/SB relationships were supposed to be sexless; quite the opposite. I hate the name, and I would not choose to apply it to any relationship of my own, but I have been in a couple of relationships with younger women who needed "help". I think of it more as having a mistress (in the non-BDSM sense of the word). As many "pro-Dommes" as there are on the board, I would hope people would be non-judgemental about the financial aspect.



xxblushesxx -> RE: 38m dom daddy QLD seeks sub sugarbaby (12/21/2011 7:10:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: J1M


quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Generally, a sugarbaby is taken care of by a sugardaddy. In a true SB, SD relationship, there is no sex involved. I have a feeling there would be in this one, however. HTH!


I have never heard that SD/SB relationships were supposed to be sexless; quite the opposite. I hate the name, and I would not choose to apply it to any relationship of my own, but I have been in a couple of relationships with younger women who needed "help". I think of it more as having a mistress (in the non-BDSM sense of the word). As many "pro-Dommes" as there are on the board, I would hope people would be non-judgemental about the financial aspect.


I understand that the common understanding is that it's an exchange of sex for money, but according to the ladies I know who are involved in such things, this is incorrect. They claim that if they would exchange sex for money, they'd rather be an escort because they would make more buck for their bang (so to speak) by charging per session.

I do have reason to believe this is true, because other ladies on that particular site (and some of the sb's) are also escorts.

"Pro-dommes" also do not have sex for money btw. (although some come perilously close to the line and others do cross it, I've heard) But in its purest form it is a power exchange, not a sexual one, although sexual tension will undoubtedly be present.

And yeah, people are always going to be judgmental in some way when there is an exchange of money and more than a hint of sex.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: 38m dom daddy QLD seeks sub sugarbaby (12/21/2011 8:11:22 AM)

The things I discover in middle age! Le sigh! [;)]



Fornica -> RE: 38m dom daddy QLD seeks sub sugarbaby (12/21/2011 8:36:03 AM)

I'm super happy to meet you, OP, and look forward to your contributions to intelligent discussion, as I'm sure you are oozing with teh wize :)



DaddySatyr -> RE: 38m dom daddy QLD seeks sub sugarbaby (12/21/2011 9:11:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

I understand that the common understanding is that it's an exchange of sex for money, but according to the ladies I know who are involved in such things, this is incorrect. They claim that if they would exchange sex for money, they'd rather be an escort because they would make more buck for their bang (so to speak) by charging per session.



I wonder about this, though. I have seen plenty of relationships that might not have bore a label but the woman was obviously only with the man until the money ran out. True enough, I always called these women what they were, anyway but they seemed to believe they were above that.

Anyway, I'd like to get back to this younger lady, possibly paying my bills ... LOL



Peace and comfort,



Michael



kalikshama -> RE: 38m dom daddy QLD seeks sub sugarbaby (12/21/2011 9:18:00 AM)

quote:

I understand that the common understanding is that it's an exchange of sex for money, but according to the ladies I know who are involved in such things, this is incorrect. They claim that if they would exchange sex for money, they'd rather be an escort because they would make more buck for their bang (so to speak) by charging per session.


The sugarbabies I've known do put out and while they are aware they could make more money as a escort, can't be bothered to put in the hours this entails and prefer being the mistress of one man at a time.



LaTigresse -> RE: 38m dom daddy QLD seeks sub sugarbaby (12/21/2011 9:19:37 AM)

Anyone can buy me anything they want........what they expect in return, well that is a whole nother kettle of fish.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: 38m dom daddy QLD seeks sub sugarbaby (12/21/2011 9:47:23 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama

quote:

I understand that the common understanding is that it's an exchange of sex for money, but according to the ladies I know who are involved in such things, this is incorrect. They claim that if they would exchange sex for money, they'd rather be an escort because they would make more buck for their bang (so to speak) by charging per session.


The sugarbabies I've known do put out and while they are aware they could make more money as a escort, can't be bothered to put in the hours this entails and prefer being the mistress of one man at a time.



We've known several women whose life was being "kept". It's a hard life, especially as you age.

I dig old guys, I would be happy to be an Anna Nicole without the drugs and stuff...but I can't get past the whole ONLY for money thing. ~sad face~



MistrixMsE -> RE: 38m dom daddy QLD seeks sub sugarbaby (12/21/2011 9:51:16 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Anyone can buy me anything they want........what they expect in return, well that is a whole nother kettle of fish.


Amen sister....



tiggerspoohbear -> RE: 38m dom daddy QLD seeks sub sugarbaby (12/22/2011 10:14:18 AM)

Welcome to CM and the boards. And, uhhhh, yeah, good luck with that thingie. I know I could sure use the help in someone paying for my bills, but thanks, I'll do it on my own. This little thing called self-respect and all.



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