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MarcEsadrian -> RE: Tired of fakes! How does Messaging with a normal mistress usually go? (12/21/2011 3:19:40 PM)
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Ok so ive been on here for only a few weeks. Seems like there are a lot of fakes.. I want to know how a normal mistress messages if I were to send a message to them. [...]
Also what are some signs that a mistress may be fake?
I do hate to say it, but Collarme has been overrun by men pretending to be lesbian slaves and Mistresses, among other things. In between the cracks you'll find real women...if they even bother to log in anymore.
Signs of a "fake Mistress" profile from the outset usually involve super hot photos that look like they were ripped from a stock photography or porn site. Look for images that exude the qualities of a "real world" capture (amateur exposures amidst domestic or other "ordinary" settings with no professional touching), and make certain there's more than just a few in the profile. Examine the profile text itself; usually Mistresses—and dominant personalities, overall—are fairly particular in describing themselves and what they want. Further, search the user name out on other sites to cross-reference. Most serious individuals involved in "the lifestyle" leave tracks on more sites than merely this one alone. Facebook, Twitter, Fetlife, Wordpress, Blogger, etc. are the usual suspects. Some Mistresses even have individual domain names to visit, especially if they have a professional side to what they do.
A critique about your profile, if I may? Saying you "live for" Queening isn't a smart gesture; it makes you look too focused on sex (although I'm entirely aware this may be a bit of Freudian honesty at play). Most dominant females with a brain are looking for males with a heart in this, and while sex is obviously a powerful motivator, it's best to not be so direct and open about your oral proclivities at the top of your interest list; it's the textual equivalent of a cock shot for an avatar. "I'm looking for friendship with the possibility of something more in the future," is a little vague, as well, especially when combined with, "I'm new to this lifestyle and don't have much experience at all so I don't really know what my interests are for sure." Most alpha females I know of avoid the young and the clueless, especially those with "nilla" vibes.
Assuming you are real, your profile text needs work, too. Correct your grammatical mistakes and make certain to write with care in the future; you'll loose a lot of bites with sloppy, bland writing that says nothing about who and what you really are.
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