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DarkSteven -> RE: marriage to sub men? (12/22/2011 5:05:30 AM)
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ORIGINAL: cuck55
Everyone seeks to get something from a relationship. this lifestyle is no different. i had hoped that some experienced mature Masters might have experience with some married female slaves and would know if there was any desire among single female slaves for a marriage that would allow them to pursue a Master as well. This appears to be common in swinging and cuckoldry. At this point i'm asking for response from experienced MATURE Masters as to what they have experienced in this area. Thank You.
Let's try to rethink that situation for you and try to make it work by changing the dynamics. You want a woman, already serving (or intending to serve) a man, who would be open to an additional relationship with a sub man. The only way I could see that working is if she was a switch that needed to have BOTH her Domme and sub sides fulfilled.
Enough for abstraction. I checked into some profiles for local women and some friends I know to see what's happening out there.
Here is an excerpt from the profile of a local woman, aged 26: "So let me explain, briefly, the situation and you can decide if the situation fits you. My husband is gay and we have separate bedrooms. I needed health insurance and he didn't want to tell his parents about his alternative lifestyle. We don't have sex but he is my best friend. He means a lot to me and i cannot imagine a world where he isn't a part of my life. We arnt traditionally married."
Another from a local 23 year old switch: "I am married to my hubby and i keep him in chastity pretty much most of the time. I keep him locked up and he lets me do what I want with who i want, So we are now looking to expand from just our house to other people and play maybe move in with another couple or woman."
There is a local woman named Chris who is a switch and likes to be Topped and has a man whom she Tops. He wants it to be a full relationship, but she doesn't seem to want more than a play relationship.
Finally, there is a woman, very active here, who is in her fifties. She is late to the lifestyle and identified as a pure submissive until the last year, when she discovered her Domme side. She's in a solid relationship with her Dom and is also looking for a sub for herself but has been burned by poly dynamics before and I suspect she's be very leery of taking on a male sub, as opposed to female, as a result.
So this does occur, although it's rare.
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