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RE: The difference between men and women - 12/22/2011 7:02:27 AM   
kdsub


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Men love sex more than money


I don't know...money is pretty cool.

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RE: The difference between men and women - 12/22/2011 7:04:08 AM   
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RE: The difference between men and women - 12/22/2011 7:19:32 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lizi

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ORIGINAL: smashmyballsup

as sites like this make abundantly clear, is this:
Men love sex more than money, and use money to get more sex, whereas women love money more than sex, and use sex to get more money.


This is extremely offensive as well as being an false statement. We can probably all think of cases where it is true and ones where it isn't. Grow the hell up and become a man first, maybe you'll find out the difference between making untrue blanket statements and seeing the world as the many-varied place that it is. Men also realize when they are disappointed in something that they work harder for it, not sit on their ass and make a crap-worthy generalization to soothe their wounded ego. Geez, act like a man instead of a child and some woman might actually want to play with your dick instead of spurn your advances. It kills me when guys equate sex and money because it means that they dont' have anything of worth going on at all, which you have made crystal clear. Making interaction between the sexes seem simplistic and due to one thing only gives you an easy out for not finding anyone. The heart of the matter is that women don't like pussies, if they did they'd go get another woman.

I have my own money that I worked hard for, and could care less about the contents of some dude's wallet, since what is in there belongs to him. Money is so far down my list of attractive qualities that it's a almost non-existent, I've dated many a broke man in my life and even paid for all of our entertainment/food if I wanted to spend time with someone who couldn't afford that. Personality and integrity are however on the top of the attractive quality list and unfortunately you wouldn't make it...there are many things you can do instead of offering money, but unfortunately you can't see what they are and aren't willing to do the work it takes to be someone worth fucking.

Every guy has a dick, yours isn't special. You have to present the dick with other attractive qualities to be the guy she picks next time instead of the guy she passes by because the dick is all he's got. Shoot, women have dildos and vibrators, if all you're offering is dick be prepared for a lifetime of being alone.



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RE: The difference between men and women - 12/22/2011 7:21:52 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lizi

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Gee, I dunno, Smasher, I think I'd rather have good sex more than money any day! There goes your theory.


Me too. A good boinking makes my week, a handful of cash...meh. The guy has to reduce all women to a low level though so he can hold his head up.



Right you are, on both counts. Money may come and go, but the pleasure and glow from good sex lasts a long, long time, and is a much more valuable currency to me!

Hey Lizi, I'm startin' to wonder whether you and I might have been separated at birth. Whaddya think?!

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RE: The difference between men and women - 12/22/2011 7:30:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Kana

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ORIGINAL: smashmyballsup

as sites like this make abundantly clear, is this:
Men love sex more than money, and use money to get more sex, whereas women love money more than sex, and use sex to get more money.


And here I was thinking the difference was that women are crueler by far :-)



I think you are quite right and the OP is quite wrong..... Then again that could just be my, not so inner, sadist typing.


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RE: The difference between men and women - 12/22/2011 7:37:48 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

And here I thought it was because I had a cock.  Silly me.
silly you indeed. you see, a cock isn't required. i don't have one, i have looked, but i have just recieved an email informing me that i am in fact a man.


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RE: The difference between men and women - 12/22/2011 7:39:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: smashmyballsup

as sites like this make abundantly clear, is this:
Men love sex more than money, and use money to get more sex, whereas women love money more than sex, and use sex to get more money.

All you've made "abundantly clear" is that you deal in gross generalizations about entire groups of people and that is the product of a closed mind and apparent ignorance. I'd like to see where you glean your statistics from to prove your theory.

I would much rather have good sex than be rolling in the dough, and I certainly don't use sex to get more money. I think you're just pissed because you've been on here for three weeks and haven't gotten any ass yet.

The real reason you haven't gotten any ass yet has nothing at all to do with the sex vs money debate. It has everything to do with your own profile, which is all about your fetishes and nothing else. If you got hit up by a money Domme, the reason is probably your own profile. The only way you'll get a fetish-delivery system is by paying for it. If you want a Domme, on the other hand, don't be so single-mindedly focused on your fetishes. We're real women out there and more than just our kink.

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RE: The difference between men and women - 12/22/2011 7:39:54 AM   
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RE: The difference between men and women - 12/22/2011 7:45:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		i figured as much. i reprted the message as a scammer, went to his profile and reported that as a scammer, and then marked the message as spam as well.

i was going to block him but the page says its an automated system that acts when a certain number of reports are recieved, so figured if i didn't block him then he would keep writing, and i could report each message as a scammer and spam. he's written back twice now. each one reported & marked.

edit - and now he's written back as a sub girl. this is going to be sort of fun.


< Message edited by Miserlou -- 12/22/2011 7:48:29 AM >

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RE: The difference between men and women - 12/22/2011 8:13:32 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I haven't the patience for all of that. I just hit delete and move on. But it's just, whatever works for you and maintains your own zen I guess.

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RE: The difference between men and women - 12/22/2011 9:29:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		I will believe the op that this is true for him. What he's missing is that this is true for him because he has nothing else of value to offer. No friendship, no caring, no love.

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RE: The difference between men and women - 12/22/2011 9:49:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I will believe the op that this is true for him. What he's missing is that this is true for him because he has nothing else of value to offer. No friendship, no caring, no love.



I would qualify this by saying that he has, as yet, given no indication of the above..

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RE: The difference between men and women - 12/22/2011 10:02:59 AM   
stellauk


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Status: offline 		Complete rubbish.. and please take this from a walking, talking, thinking, feeling example of possible equality between the genders.

You might have done better pondering the difference between men and dogs. After all, dogs can lick their own bollocks.

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RE: The difference between men and women - 12/22/2011 11:05:21 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lizi
Me too. A good boinking makes my week, a handful of cash...meh. The guy has to reduce all women to a low level though so he can hold his head up.

I do think there are people who value money more than sex, and others who'd take the sex. It's even vaguely possible that there's some correlation to gender, but I'd hesitate to make any sweeping generalizations. But I'm definitely with Lizi on the whole "sex - hurray! cash - whatever" idea. For me it's a matter of prizing experience over assets. Money comes and goes, as do most of the things I spend it on. If I get $1000 today, and next week I've spent it, it's like I never had it. Memories and experiences are more lasting. Long after I've forgotten what I spent my last bonus check on I'll fondly remember a really great sexual experience.

One thing I'm sure of is basically saying "Women are whores" is not a good way to get more sex.

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RE: The difference between men and women - 12/22/2011 1:21:54 PM   
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I hear a can of worms opening.....


Yep. Once the can of stupid has been opened, it's customary to move onto worms.


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RE: The difference between men and women - 12/22/2011 1:26:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: smashmyballsup

as sites like this make abundantly clear, is this:
Men love sex more than money, and use money to get more sex, whereas women love money more than sex, and use sex to get more money.


<pats lap>

C'mere young fellah, tell me what's caused you to be so jaded?

And if you have a 60 amp fuse for an Acme stupid-o-meter would you mind lending it to me, since your OP blew the fuse that was in mine just now.

This site doesn't make anything of the sort abundantly clear.

I'll concede that this site does make it abundantly clear that there are plenty of men so desperate for a feel that they'll pay for it, and there are women who are enterprising enough to spot a business opportunity

But there are enough quality people here to make your generalisation seem more than a little.... wantwitted.

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RE: The difference between men and women - 12/22/2011 1:33:15 PM   
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RE: The difference between men and women - 12/22/2011 1:37:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		I will echo Fornica:

I haven't been back for very long but, Crazy, you are one of the people I really enjoy reading (snark or non-snark, actually).



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RE: The difference between men and women - 12/22/2011 1:58:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Fornica

I'm so glad your snark free vaca is over ;)


So am I!

Fuck me though there's such a build up of pent up snark, I'm going to splooge it all over the face of these boards.

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RE: The difference between men and women - 12/22/2011 2:00:07 PM   
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Very kind of you to say so DS

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