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nick51068 -> Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older subs? (12/22/2011 9:38:54 AM)
Hello Everyone, Well I know that everyone is different and each Mistress will have Her own preference, but i was just wondering in general: Do You like younger or older subs? When i was in my 20s i searched for older Dommes in their 30s and 40s, just because 20 something year old girls just did not seem to have that domineering presence that older Dommes had and the Mistress seemed to like me. Of course I was young and stupid and did not want to commit so it never worked out. So now I am in my 40s, bald and a 30 extra lbs and think why would a Mistress want an older sub, when She can have a 25 year old sub that is in great shape and looks good. Plus since there are so many more sub males then dominant females, a 45 year old Domme can have her pick of 25 year old subs. So I am thinking if you took the immature non-committal personality of a 20 something year old out of the mix picture would Mistresses rather have a 25 year old or a 45 year old Sub?

Lockit -> RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older subs? (12/22/2011 9:44:50 AM)
NO...no...no... I want an old guy. I want him to fit me and my life. Just because you can have something, doesn't mean it is something you want or is best for you. I want what is best for me and to be what is best for someone else.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older subs? (12/22/2011 9:45:15 AM)
If you know we all have our preferences, why are you asking for a "general" answer? Most of my life I dated older men. Two men I was involved with in the past turned 63 this year. These days, I am looking younger, but not that much younger...35-50 is my range. While I have young friends, I have trouble seeing anyone that I could have given birth to as a life partner. So, no one under 30 for me, kthx. I have several friends who exclusively date younger men, I call one of them a "virgin hunter"!

DarkSteven -> RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older subs? (12/22/2011 10:25:22 AM)
As an invariable rule, Dommes refuse to take on any submissives that are younger than 35 or older than 35 and six months. You missed your chance.

Lockit -> RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older subs? (12/22/2011 10:51:30 AM)
Gee thanks for the help Steven! ROFL!

LaTigresse -> RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older subs? (12/22/2011 11:01:38 AM)
I like to be in relationships with human beings that are compatible with me. Their age is irrelevant.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older subs? (12/22/2011 11:02:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse I like to be in relationships with human beings that are compatible with me. Their age is irrelevant. It's true that I have no age ranges in mind where women are concerned...

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older subs? (12/22/2011 12:07:47 PM)
Nick, I get all ages in my Inbox, from early 20s to mid-60s, but I'm 54 and I normally search within the 40-60 or so age range. I'm not going to discount someone because of their age if everything else connects perfectly, but I'd just....feel weird....being with someone the age of my kids or younger, ya know. Bottom line? I like someone I can click with on all levels, have common interests with, someone with a similar maturity level. I find that most of that's usually lacking between a 20-something guy and myself. There's nothing wrong with being bald in your 40s with a few extra pounds. There's more to life than a sexy body. I want a sexy mind....which to me is intelligence, common interests, someone I click with.

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older subs? (12/22/2011 12:25:52 PM)
This: quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse I like to be in relationships with human beings that are compatible with me. Their age is irrelevant.

peppermint -> RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older subs? (12/22/2011 2:17:37 PM)
quote: why would a Mistress want an older sub, when She can have a 25 year old sub that is in great shape and looks good. Maybe it's because she really loves that overweight 40 something guy. Maybe it's because they have a lot in common and she has fun when they are together. Maybe it's because he took the time to wow her with his great personality. Maybe it's because he is past the "do me" phase and wants a real relationship with a dominant woman.

MistrixMsE -> RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older subs? (12/22/2011 3:27:01 PM)
In a personal relationship, I prefer men 45+, I just am not compatible with younger men on a day to day level. Might there be an exception to that rule somewhere? Yes. Am I out looking for him? No. As a personal sub, I prefer men who's personality & presence I enjoy, who are compatible in play interests, and who are mature enough to commit to serve on a long term basis.. usually that means 30+, at least late 20s. Pro clients? I still prefer 28+, but make exceptions when they are respectful and seem sincere.. with references. (pretty is fun to look at, but if pretty doesn't come with maturity and intelligence... then he's just gonna give me a headache eventually)

Baroana -> RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older subs? (12/22/2011 4:08:03 PM)
I've noticed that many sub males lust after older women. However, for me the feeling is not mutual. I cannot be with someone who does not meet or exceed my own maturity level. This usually means that a younger guy will not do, though I have no hard and fast rule.

bighappygoth39 -> RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older subs? (12/23/2011 6:32:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl I like someone I can click with on all levels, have common interests with, someone with a similar maturity level. I find that most of that's usually lacking between a 20-something guy and myself. There's nothing wrong with being bald in your 40s with a few extra pounds. There's more to life than a sexy body. I want a sexy mind....which to me is intelligence, common interests, someone I click with. I would definitely agree with the stuff in bold. I think if you are a certain age and have grown up kids, then there will be a limit you might not feel comfortable in going over. My partner is a few years younger than me, but I did have a lower age limit in mind when I was looking for a relationship, as I wouldn't have felt right being with someone not much older than my eldest, tbh. I'm sure there's a lot of ladies out there who might get off on having an older sub as well, though. Good luck, and I hope you find what you're looking for. [:)]

DianeB269 -> RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older subs? (12/23/2011 6:46:30 AM)
45 to 55...

masternoname -> RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older subs? (12/23/2011 7:20:14 AM)
He hasn't had much luck with his profile and is hoping this thread will generate some interest. quote: If you know we all have our preferences, why are you asking for a "general" answer?

nick51068 -> RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older subs? (12/23/2011 8:16:52 AM)
No just interested in people's response. Isn't that what message boards are for, seeing what other people thoughts are? Or is that not how they do it in Mordor, you goofy little hobit. quote: ORIGINAL: masternoname He hasn't had much luck with his profile and is hoping this thread will generate some interest. quote: If you know we all have our preferences, why are you asking for a "general" answer?

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older subs? (12/23/2011 8:33:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: nick51068 No just interested in people's response. Isn't that what message boards are for, seeing what other people thoughts are? Or is that not how they do it in Mordor, you goofy little hobit. quote: ORIGINAL: masternoname He hasn't had much luck with his profile and is hoping this thread will generate some interest. quote: If you know we all have our preferences, why are you asking for a "general" answer? Since the threads you start are all kind of like this, maybe you'd like to check out the Polls & Random section, you can do an actual poll there and get all sorts of commentary.

BigButtKath -> RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older subs? (12/23/2011 9:10:26 AM)
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seekingOwnertoo -> RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older subs? (12/23/2011 12:29:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven As an invariable rule, Dommes refuse to take on any submissives that are younger than 35 or older than 35 and six months. You missed your chance. ROFL .... [:D] Nice Steven ... just nice! Seasons greetings and enjoy!

Carralo1 -> RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older subs? (12/23/2011 3:16:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: nick51068 No just interested in people's response. Isn't that what message boards are for, seeing what other people thoughts are? Or is that not how they do it in Mordor, you goofy little hobit. quote: ORIGINAL: masternoname He hasn't had much luck with his profile and is hoping this thread will generate some interest. quote: If you know we all have our preferences, why are you asking for a "general" answer? Hahaha I love it!! Message boards on any forum are All the same. You come on here just to get some advice and the OP is always put down and attacked for no reason. People out there....

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