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total trust - 12/22/2011 1:46:48 PM   
Hillwilliam


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Status: offline 		Simple poll.

Do you have someone that you can trust to tell ANYTHING to?

Deep Dark secrets, financial info, worries, cares. No matter what you tell them, they'll be nonjudgemental (unless you wish otherwise) and keep it under their hats.

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Kinkier than a cheap garden hose.

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RE: total trust - 12/22/2011 2:53:13 PM   
RexDarcy


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Status: offline 		Yes, without a doubt. She has been a great friend as long as I have known her, and knows more about Me than anybody else.

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RE: total trust - 12/22/2011 2:57:07 PM   
Fornica


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Status: offline 		Yup.

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RE: total trust - 12/22/2011 4:10:58 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		Yup

Master

My daughter comes in a close second but there are some things I won't tell her just because I don't want her to worry about me.



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RE: total trust - 12/22/2011 4:21:11 PM   
stellauk


Posts: 1360
Status: offline 		Yes. I have a few people like that.

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RE: total trust - 12/22/2011 4:21:34 PM   
needlesandpins


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Status: offline 		no

i have very close people, but i can't say 100% that i have one person that i would tell everything too. i will tell that person everything that is relevent to them and probably most of everything else. but i know i'm a very 'locked inside' person, so i know i will hold back somethings no matter how much i trust a person.

needles

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RE: total trust - 12/22/2011 5:47:57 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Yes, though I wouldn't burden her with much of it. But yes, I could tell her anything.

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RE: total trust - 12/22/2011 6:06:07 PM   
Iamsemisweet


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Status: offline 		Yes, I have a friend like that, and I am pretty comfortable with my Love, too.

One of the reasons my marriage didn't work is because I was afraid to tell him anything.  It was miserable.


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RE: total trust - 12/22/2011 7:54:05 PM   
slaveluci


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From: Little Rock, AR
Status: offline 		Yes, two of them. Master and my best friend since the age of 14. I can and have told them things I would never tell another soul and they have never made me feel less for any of it

luci

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RE: total trust - 12/22/2011 8:21:20 PM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		Yes.  It takes a certain kind of person to mesh with me.  Being trustworthy is one of those factors required in the mesh.  Not only can I trust them with a secret, they will help me bury the bodies if called to. 


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RE: total trust - 12/22/2011 8:55:19 PM   
tazzygirl


Posts: 37833
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Status: offline 		Yes. The man. Even if I know what I may have to tell him will hurt him, I know I can still tell him.

Its been a blessing to find him.

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Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: total trust - 12/22/2011 9:11:26 PM   
Aynne88


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Status: offline 		Nope. I will take my shit to the grave. 

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RE: total trust - 12/22/2011 11:56:33 PM   
tazzygirl


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Status: offline 		Unless you go senile first and blab everything!

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Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: total trust - 12/23/2011 4:03:55 AM   
Kaliko


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Status: offline 		I have a few people like that, because I tend to not keep too much to myself, anyway. I've become kind of an open book in person. If you are in my life for any certain amount of time and we "click", you are usually in it all the way. I tend to trust first, until given reason not to. :)

My former dominant. He and I still keep in touch and I have no doubt he'll have my back no matter what. I'm sure I can still talk to him about anything....if I feel I want or need to.

A very good friend who seems to be on almost the same wavelength I am in every way.

My sister.

I also have some people I will easily tell all to, but they will be more judgmental - my mother and another friend of mine. Sometimes the judgment is a necessary sanity check.

Of course, there are some people, like my brother, who are the least judgmental people in the world and I'm sure I could tell him anything. But...we don't "click" and so I don't. So, I don't run around telling everybody everything, but...yeah,...I don't hide too much from those I'm close to.





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RE: total trust - 12/23/2011 4:07:47 AM   
Kaliko


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ORIGINAL: Iamsemisweet

One of the reasons my marriage didn't work is because I was afraid to tell him anything.  It was miserable.



Ditto. I know what you mean.



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RE: total trust - 12/23/2011 5:24:20 AM   
Hillwilliam


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Status: offline 		Ive tried a few times and it blew up in my face each time.

I'm now in the "Aynne88 school of secrets".

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Kinkier than a cheap garden hose.

Whoever said "Religion is the opiate of the masses" never heard Right Wing talk radio.

Don't blame me, I voted for Gary Johnson.

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RE: total trust - 12/23/2011 7:56:36 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

Ive tried a few times and it blew up in my face each time.

I'm now in the "Aynne88 school of secrets".


That's too bad. I know it's almost a miracle to have someone you can be that open with. And I am not an open person, so it's not like I actually say all my stuff out loud...but knowing that I CAN is a tremendous thing.

~~Squishes for Hilly~~

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RE: total trust - 12/23/2011 8:11:24 AM   
Clickofheels


Posts: 603
Joined: 10/23/2011
Status: offline 		Are there people whom I trust to tell ANYTHING? VERY few, but Yes!!!

Are there people to whom I Do tell anything? No!!

I was brought up in a generation where things like finances and sex were not discussed with others. And personally I still don't.
I'm not interested in my close friends yearly income nor what they choose to do behind closed (bedroom) doors...nor are they with mine.
And I hate any form of gossip!

To each his own.
(Smiles)

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RE: total trust - 12/23/2011 8:29:50 AM   
Kaliko


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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

Ive tried a few times and it blew up in my face each time.

I'm now in the "Aynne88 school of secrets".



It's always interesting to me how people go through life with such different experiences and results. I used to be quite the opposite of how I am now, and I guess what happened as a result was the equivalent of it blowing up in my face. The opposite approach (for me, anyway) is ... more fun. :) It's a more in-depth way for me of dealing with people that allows me to feel my humanity ever more forcefully, for good or for bad.


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RE: total trust - 12/23/2011 9:07:22 AM   
Arpig


Posts: 9930
Joined: 1/3/2006
From: Increasingly further from reality
Status: offline 		Pretty much any of my friends, that's why they are my friends...they are the ones who have stuck by me. Saying "I'm schizophrenic" tends to separate the wheat from the chaff pretty fucking quick.

The ones who are left I can trust with my life.

ETA: And my daughter, she and I are completely open with each other. We have no secrets between us, nor do we have any need for them.


< Message edited by Arpig -- 12/23/2011 9:12:01 AM >

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