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Sadistic shopping.........? - 12/23/2011 7:25:03 AM

Higuysitsme

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Just a thought. I have had to go in to the local shopping mall this morning to get a final present for someone. I expected it be hell on earth, but thanks to good sense, getting there early, and good luck, we got parked, had coffee, did the necessary in a pleasantly quiet and relaxed atmosphere, had lunch, and then got out again as the crowds were starting to build up.

I wondered - would you consider this scenario for your slave - or would it be too cruel?! For that last minute pre-Christmas dash to the shops; you get there and settle yourself in a comfy coffee shop with your newspaper or magazine, and slave heads off to do battle for the first item on the list. Returning, s/he then gets given the next item on the list; pausing only to get you a fresh tea/coffee and a nice slice of cake before heading off again. And so on, til the list is finshed.

Nooo; you just couldn't could you?! Its all just toooo sadistic!

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RE: Sadistic shopping.........? - 12/23/2011 7:29:17 AM

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ok maybe it's just me but I'm not getting what is sadistic or that big a deal.

But we also usually like to shop together. It helps us to understand each other better and we get more ideas for what each other likes plus we love spending as much time together as possible but if he wanted me to do what you described.....not a problem. It's not a big deal. I wouldn't see anything sadistic or cruel about it.

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RE: Sadistic shopping.........? - 12/23/2011 7:45:33 AM

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No; its a joke! Its Christmas! Its meant for fun comment!

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RE: Sadistic shopping.........? - 12/23/2011 7:58:34 AM

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I'm taking Higuysitsme's comment as just a fun, silly Christmas tease!

On the other hand, I could get into that idea for next Christmas! (winks)

Have a great Christmas, Higuysitsme!

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RE: Sadistic shopping.........? - 12/23/2011 10:21:08 AM

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Okay.....to make it Sadistic......add itiching powder to the subs underwear prior to the shopping trip!

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RE: Sadistic shopping.........? - 12/23/2011 10:44:07 AM

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Thinking back to LAST Xmas eve, where I had to get up early to stand in lines at the department store down the road, JUST to get pressies for my Dad---which were only available THAT DAY due to coupons!--oh hell yeah I would make someone stand in line! And carry my coat! So I could stand in a different line in another part of the store!

THEN there would be coffee and snacks. A crepe shop opened up in the same little mall, meet you there!

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RE: Sadistic shopping.........? - 12/23/2011 10:49:22 AM

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Crepes! I am in. I can be a coat rack in a pinch :)

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RE: Sadistic shopping.........? - 12/23/2011 10:57:19 AM

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I don't see anything sadistic about this. I have done this before...read a nice book while the pet goes to get things. Cup of tea at the music shop while I read and he deals with everything else. It's actually a very nice way to shop.

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RE: Sadistic shopping.........? - 12/23/2011 11:12:34 AM

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Being stuck in a coffee shop all day waiting for someone else to do the shopping doesn't appeal to me.

Because as long as the s is dealing with the crowds, the d is waiting for them to finish.

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RE: Sadistic shopping.........? - 12/23/2011 11:14:21 AM

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You obviously don't dig coffee and pastry as much as I do, Des!

And I would use Handy Helper Dude to make life easier---Here, honey, hold my place in line while I grab... kind of thing. Efficiency!

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RE: Sadistic shopping.........? - 12/23/2011 11:15:56 AM

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Now if I could be down the block at Barnes & Noble in a comfy chair reading a book while he deals with the list, that would work for me.

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RE: Sadistic shopping.........? - 12/23/2011 11:16:44 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Now if I could be down the block at Barnes & Noble in a comfy chair reading a book while he deals with the list, that would work for me.

See! You understand! Better still of course is shopping online while we sneak off together...

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RE: Sadistic shopping.........? - 12/23/2011 11:27:49 AM

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You won't catch me near a Wal-Mart/Best Buy/mall in December.

/LOVES Amazon!!!/

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RE: Sadistic shopping.........? - 12/23/2011 11:42:50 AM

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Did someone say "crepe shop?"

Joining LadyH and Mummyman with a smile.

After which she will go to B&N and join Des! Have you seen their new "Sexuality" book section? Lovely books there...even books on D/s. (winks)

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RE: Sadistic shopping.........? - 12/23/2011 12:24:55 PM

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His Tallness hates crowds and large amounts of stupidity. I can see the two of us doing this, but it really wouldn't be sadistic. We both would probably enjoy it.

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RE: Sadistic shopping.........? - 12/23/2011 12:29:56 PM

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I would just stay home and send them to town with a list...

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RE: Sadistic shopping.........? - 12/23/2011 12:54:49 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Now if I could be down the block at Barnes & Noble in a comfy chair reading a book while he deals with the list, that would work for me.

Man, I have got to think about switching over to the other side of the kneel.

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RE: Sadistic shopping.........? - 12/23/2011 1:34:15 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Thinking back to LAST Xmas eve, where I had to get up early to stand in lines at the department store down the road, JUST to get pressies for my Dad---which were only available THAT DAY due to coupons!--oh hell yeah I would make someone stand in line! And carry my coat! So I could stand in a different line in another part of the store!

THEN there would be coffee and snacks. A crepe shop opened up in the same little mall, meet you there!

Yep, slave to shop... and HELL YES to crepes.. and prosecco...

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RE: Sadistic shopping.........? - 12/23/2011 1:43:15 PM

ChatteParfaitt

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You'd make a great coat rack. And a shopping bag hauler.

Just saying.

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RE: Sadistic shopping.........? - 12/23/2011 2:05:26 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

You'd make a great coat rack. And a shopping bag hauler.

Just saying.

Why thank you. These broad shoulders are good for something :)

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