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DarkSteven -> RE: Quick Question... (12/25/2011 4:34:08 AM)
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Hi, wisco. I've read posts from a lot of folks like you making the exact same complaint. And in every case, it's because their profiles don't show the wimmins what they have.
Your profile says "I want a relationship with a Domme." And then - nothing. That's not good enough.
Show yourself. Say you like to go bowling, and show a pic of you after you've just hit a strike. Include a pic of you studying your books before a test. Create images, both with your words and your pics, that show your hobbies, job, and aspirations, and also what you envision doing with her. Will you take her for picnics? Go camping with her? Fine dining? (Can you cook?)
What I'm suggesting above is the way to get the attention of the genuine lifestyle Dommes here. ANYONE can get the attention of the tribute and website Dommes, and that's all you're getting now.
Also, a specific suggestion regarding your profile - don't be coy. You say "I am smart, good with conversation..." and that's it. My profile says something similar and then mentions seven or eight topics I can talk well in. You say "I've got a long list interests" and drop it. That means nothing if you don't state what they are.
And you state "So idk if I mentioned this in my profile, but I am looking for a relationship that allows us to explore these fetishes and such, just wanted to let that be clear in case anyone was confused by it."
1. You wrote the profile. You should know what's in it.
2. There's a slight bias against textspeak here. Spell words out.
3. What's the point of the sentence? That you have fetishes? That you want a relationship? What does it say that is not assumed from the rest of your profile?
With all that said, welcome to collarme.
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