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Hello! - 12/27/2011 9:15:21 AM   
Shirinx


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Joined: 12/27/2011
Status: offline 		I was directed here by a friendly voice from another site. I've been trying to navigate around the place and just trying to figure things out. There's a lot of things to fill out in the interests area!

I'm pretty new to all this and just very curious. Not sure if I'm a sub or Dom. Some days I feel on top and some days I feel like going with the flow.

Any advice on places to chat here would be great! I really enjoy posting in forums more than IMs because I get to write longer replies. Is there an rp area here, by the way?
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RE: Hello! - 12/27/2011 9:42:25 AM   
Delilya


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Status: offline 		good luck

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RE: Hello! - 12/27/2011 2:18:41 PM   
ashjor911


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From: balcony, having a Smoke
Status: offline 		Welcome

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RE: Hello! - 12/27/2011 2:26:16 PM   
Ninebelowzero


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Status: offline 		Howdy have a good one here.

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RE: Hello! - 12/27/2011 2:28:03 PM   
DaddySatyr


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From: Pittston, Pennsyltucky
Status: offline 		Welcome to CM, where there's a fair amount of snark but also a fair amount of good people, looking to help and be of service.



Peace and comfort,



Michael

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RE: Hello! - 12/27/2011 5:13:04 PM   
Higuysitsme


Posts: 127
Joined: 12/10/2011
From: Sheffield, UK
Status: offline 		Hello, welcome and good luck in your journey. Probably a good idea to look up the subjects of 'sub' and 'dom' on the boards, to start getting a little more idea of what appeals to you. There are chatrooms which may take the form of rp, although I tend to find people are usually talking about anything but bdsm in them! Enjoy anyway.

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Peace and happiness is the way.'
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RE: Hello! - 12/27/2011 9:35:40 PM   
Shirinx


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Joined: 12/27/2011
Status: offline 		Thank you for the warm welcome, Delilya, ashjor911, Ninebelowzero!

DaddySatyr > Thank you! I had a lot at some other Introduction threads before posting and the snark is strong here! But it was quite funny too.

Higuysitsme> Thank you for the advice! Will definitely start looking around earnestly. I dropped in on the chatrooms and they did seem to be chatting about day-to-day topics rather than bdsm, which is nice too. :)

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RE: Hello! - 12/28/2011 3:15:32 AM   
OohAahMrs


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Status: offline 		Hey shir, welcome. One thing i learned in my time in Florida, you go with the flow!

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RE: Hello! - 12/29/2011 8:13:43 AM   
Shirinx


Posts: 7
Joined: 12/27/2011
Status: offline 		Thank you for the welcome, OohAahMrs! (Nice username, btw.)

Erhm, does anyone know how people can see that I'm online? When I go view my profile, my inbox gets flooded immediately, and some people are a bit pushy to get a response. I sometimes like to just lurk and view profiles or come here, but I also feel bad that they think they're being ignored.

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RE: Hello! - 12/29/2011 8:49:20 AM   
searching4mysir


Posts: 2757
Joined: 6/16/2011
Status: offline 		Don't worry about if people get their panties in a knot over your response time. Basic human courtesy is all they should expect. Answer at your leisure. One neat little trick is to hover over their name in your inbox and you should be able to read most, if not all, of the message without triggering a read on their end. Then you can decide if you want to "delete unread" (for the complete obnoxious assholes) or read later. I do try to respond immediately if I trigger a read, which is why I really like that hover thingie.

Welcome to the discussion side of CM.

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RE: Hello! - 12/29/2011 4:32:09 PM   
Shirinx


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Joined: 12/27/2011
Status: offline 		Thank you searching4mysir! That tip has helped immensely. The hover thing is really cool! I realised it works for profile names and the forums here as well. :D I hope it's worked, since it's mainly one user who keeps doing it. Just deleted unread another one of their "Oh I see you online, let me sPaM you again" messages.

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RE: Hello! - 12/29/2011 4:49:31 PM   
kfaith88


Posts: 21
Joined: 12/11/2011
Status: offline 		Hi Shirinx!
I am a lurker, and new to all of this as well so I can't help with any advice. I just wanted to say hello, b/c I too am just curious and trying to find out where I fit in all of this, or if I fit at all :)

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RE: Hello! - 12/29/2011 5:09:21 PM   
Clickofheels


Posts: 603
Joined: 10/23/2011
Status: offline 		Shirinx! (Smiles)

Singapore, eh? How interesting!

Welcome, and enjoy!

MsClick

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RE: Hello! - 12/29/2011 5:10:21 PM   
BurntKitty


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Joined: 9/7/2010
From: Here To Eternity.
Status: offline 		Welcome to Cm. Take your time & enjoy the ride!!!!

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RE: Hello! - 12/29/2011 8:13:22 PM   
Shirinx


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Joined: 12/27/2011
Status: offline 		Hello kfaith88! Just read your profile and it sounds like you're in the same situation as me! :D Curious to explore. Glad to meet you. The PMs are starting to freak me out a little so I might hang out around the boards for a while. I'm sure we both fit in somewhere, though we might not have found a place yet. :)

Hello Clickofheels! Yup, from the... suddenly rather cold island due to rains. Thank you for the welcome. :)

Thank you for the welcome BurntKitty! :D

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RE: Hello! - 12/29/2011 8:24:44 PM   
kfaith88


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Joined: 12/11/2011
Status: offline 		Lol I agree.. Good luck to you, and keep in touch. Let me know if you find anything worth sharing! ;)

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RE: Hello! - 12/29/2011 8:33:06 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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Status: offline 		Welcome, Shirinx! Glad to have you join us. Good luck in your search and enjoy the journey!

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RE: Hello! - 12/29/2011 8:50:06 PM   
diffstrok


Posts: 1
Joined: 3/8/2009
Status: offline 		Hi Shirinx,enjoy your stay here...All the Best!

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RE: Hello! - 12/29/2011 10:29:31 PM   
Shirinx


Posts: 7
Joined: 12/27/2011
Status: offline 		Sure, kfaith88! Actually, I was thinking of joining my local munch. Then I was thinking... Why is it called a munch? Such a cute word for something BDSM related. Did some googling and wikipedia threw this up:

"... it had both great hamburgers and a spacious patio where attendees could meet in relative privacy. This was known as the "burger munch". (That Kirk's location was demolished around 2005, though a few other locations still exist.)
The Kirk's burger munch attracted a large and often spirited crowd, with discreet play. As time went on, the atmosphere became less discreet and people started bringing in outside food. Ultimately, the management insisted that the group stop meeting there."

I pictured people wearing collars and getting kicked out mid-munch on a burger.

Thank you for the welcome, MistressDarkArt!

Thank you, diffstrok.

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