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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Meet him first, date in person for awhile, get to know each other before you say you're in love with him.

This.

I'm also going to add: Being in a D/s BDSM relationship tends to break through walls and brings up strong emotions which frequently get misdiagnosed as love. Date for awhile and determine if you really like him before you run into a commitment. Don't let your genitals rule your decisions.

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ORIGINAL: MikeSojourner

I would say that it is very common for Dominant/Submissive to develop feelings for each other beyond friend/playmate (unless they are just occasional playmates). Exactly what it develops into will be different from couple to couple.

For me, from the Dominant side - I have cared for all my submissives, felt an emotional attachment to them, perhaps even to some extent loved them without being "in love" with them, if that makes sense. I am in-love with my wife, which is different than loving/caring for my submissives.

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ORIGINAL: Lily315

is it normal for a sub to fall in the love with her Dom.

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ORIGINAL: Lily315

is it normal for a sub to fall in the love with her Dom.