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zumala -> RE: Sign of the times (5/31/2006 9:53:21 AM)

Wow...
 
Okay, I guess I should set down a couple of things about myself first, before I address the original issue.  First off, I am a Christian.  And at the this point in time, I know that can mean any number of things because of the fact that some of the churches/denominations seem to have run amok.  So I'll just say that by Christian, I mean simply one who believes the Bible.  I don't follow a denomination.  Secondly, I'm not sure what Christ preached could be called tolerance (that word also has multiple meanings today).  He never told someone 'You are sinning by doing this, but that's okay.  You go right ahead and do that anyway.'  It was more like 'You are sinning by doing this.  You have the choice to continue and accept the consequences of your choice, or you can repent.'  He wasn't shoving anything down anyone's throat, but He wasn't condoning or accepting sin, either.
 
But onto the main point...  In this country people do have the right to believe whatever they want, to speak freely, and for the most part to display whatever signs and symbols they want to.  So I don't see why a Wiccan can't put a religious symbol on a grave marker if a Christian or a Buddist or any other religious person can.
 
zuma




leatherorlace -> RE: Sign of the times (5/31/2006 10:00:03 AM)

The military chaplains handbook has a section on Wiccian so, I have to question who might be the dunder-head in the VA. It's probably the same one that has consistiently disallowed My claims after the SSA approved them for military related injuries. lol
Gentry
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/A_BDSMDs_Church_for_Delicious_Deviance/

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ORIGINAL: fergus

6) The military has approved Wicca (and other pagan faiths) for dogtags etc ... but headstones is NOT under the auspices of the military - it is under the Veterans Administration.
7) I hope that Selena Fox and the family of Sgt. Stewart manage to clear the matter up before too long.  He died serving in Afghanistan.  Those who died with him already have their faiths represented on their tomb stones.

fergus





Moloch -> RE: Sign of the times (5/31/2006 10:18:56 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Emperor1956

Fergus:   Its the FIRST amendment that provides for the Free Exercise of religion, not the Second Amendment.  The 2nd is that pesky one about raising militias, that leads us to all be gun-toting maniacs.


*Takes a deep  breath*

No he is right, the FIRST amendment allows for freedom of speech and "assembly", which gives militias the forms to meet and orginize, the 2nd amendment gives them the Right to bears arms.

Speaking of nut-job militias, can you belive a bunch of morons got together and kicked the shit out of the british for taxing the shit out of us for representation, and kicked us out of our own houses to house their soldiers!!! We need to put a stop to that people like George Washington are dangerous radicals!!!




SirKenin -> RE: Sign of the times (5/31/2006 10:48:48 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SirKenin
The way I see it, the problem is this.  It is not enough that people want to make up and practice some screwed up religion.  They want to throw a wrench in everyone else's gears.  Like the homosexuals for instance.  It was not enough for them to practice what everyone else felt was immoral.  They had to shove it down everyone else's throat and invade every institution in the country via a well formulated agenda.


You've got be to joking.

*meow*


No, I am not joking at all.  Not in the slightest.

I am a Christian.  I am not a very good one.  I make tons of mistakes, but I am still a Christian and freely admit it.  There is a difference though.  I do not force anyone else to recognize My beliefs.  I do not force anyone else to make any special concessions for Me.  I do not want special recognition.  I am nobody special.  I am a humble man that simply tries My best to make My way through this mess in one piece.  Heck, I even mess up in here, taking My frustrations out on people and sometimes simply being an ass.  But when it comes right down to it, I just want to be treated like everyone else.

Not so with this Wiccan.  Suddenly they feel because they have invented themselves a religion that they can elevate themselves to some sort of special status.  They have a right to break all the rules.  They have a right to spit in everyone else's face and put themselves on a pedestal.  It makes Me sick to My stomach just thinking about it.  They have the same rights as I do.  Practice their religion in their own church and stop trying to break the rules.  Can Christians put Christian symbols at that cemetary?  Probably not.  That was not stated in that article, but that would not make for a sensational news story.  So yeah, I do not agree with her at all.  If she wants to erect her own memorial, she is welcome to do so.  Let her put it on her front lawn.  She has that right.

As far as the homosexuals go,  they followed a carefully planned, well thought out agenda developed by two brilliant men named Kirk and Madsen.  If you want to read the book, which I read most of, it is named "After the Ball:  How America Will Conquer Its Fear and Hatred of Gays in the 90's".  It is available on Amazon or from your local library.  It will be a real eye opener, I promise you.


I have seriously just lost a huge amount of respect for you. Your posts for the most part have been well-thought out and intelligent. This line of reasoning coming from you is a serious shock to me. (Though that's my problem, I formed an incorrect assumption about who you were based on some posts in an internet forum.)

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Like the homosexuals for instance. It was not enough for them to practice what everyone else felt was immoral.


How can you say that while being part of BDSM without feeling like a hypocrite?

All that being said, homosexuals and Wiccans are not asking for any rights that nobody else has.

Homosexuals want to be protected from discrimination like everyone else. When their pastor marries them, they want it to be recognized like when their pastor marries a man & woman. How is that somehow placing themselves on some pedestal?

Wiccans want the same right to display religious symbols on their grave and memorial markers than Christians, Buddhists, Sikhs and even Atheists are allowed to display? How is that placing themselves on a pedestal?

*meow*



Well, you know what assumptions do, do you not?  You will quickly learn that I am My own person.  I do not follow an agenda.  I do not kiss ass.  I state it how I see it to be.  I do not ask people to like it, I ask them to tolerate it.  I have to tolerate you, you then have to tolerate Me.  That is how it works.

If you can prove to Me that any other mainstream religion is allowed to place their symbols in that cemetary then I will change My tune.  Until then My opinion stands.

As for homosexuals, I have absolutely nothing against them.  I hang out with them, drink with them, even make friends with them.  If that makes Me a bad person then so be it.  It is not the orientation I have a problem with.  It is the act.  I do not find it hypocritical at all.  I think transsexuals are great.  One in particular that I am thinking of is wonderful and makes a great MC at the events My wife and I go to.  I guess it is kind of a side note that she is very attractive and makes for a great singer as well.

However, desecrating the sanctity of marriage and other institutions are more than I am willing to tolerate.  It is funny though, the one's that I hang out with are not interested in forcing their lifestyle on everyone else.  They are just happy being who they are and having you as their friend.

So I ask you.  What is wrong with this picture?




darq -> RE: Sign of the times (5/31/2006 10:59:09 AM)

Its not my universe ... I'm just tired of hearing people bitch and moan until the REAL issue is lost behind a bunch of BS. He DIED, not so he could be Wiccan or display a pentacle, but so that the freedoms that this country was founded upon would remain FREE. I'm SORRY that the VA is unwilling to allow his widow to put a pentacle on his plaque ...

But you know what? Whether that that symbol is there or not, his name being on that wall will mean that generations from now people will know that HE died for this country. Again I ask ... Which is more important? Acknowledging his sacrifice or a symbol of his religion?

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ArtCatDom -> RE: Sign of the times (5/31/2006 11:07:57 AM)


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Well, you know what assumptions do, do you not?  You will quickly learn that I am My own person.  I do not follow an agenda.  I do not kiss ass.  I state it how I see it to be.  I do not ask people to like it, I ask them to tolerate it.  I have to tolerate you, you then have to tolerate Me.  That is how it works.

If you can prove to Me that any other mainstream religion is allowed to place their symbols in that cemetary then I will change My tune.  Until then My opinion stands.

As for homosexuals, I have absolutely nothing against them.  I hang out with them, drink with them, even make friends with them.  If that makes Me a bad person then so be it.  It is not the orientation I have a problem with.  It is the act.  I do not find it hypocritical at all.  I think transsexuals are great.  One in particular that I am thinking of is wonderful and makes a great MC at the events My wife and I go to.  I guess it is kind of a side note that she is very attractive and makes for a great singer as well.

However, desecrating the sanctity of marriage and other institutions are more than I am willing to tolerate.  It is funny though, the one's that I hang out with are not interested in forcing their lifestyle on everyone else.  They are just happy being who they are and having you as their friend.

So I ask you.  What is wrong with this picture?


I absolutely know how they work, which is why I admitted it was my own fault. Just as much, as you know from my own posts, I state my opinion just as strongly. If nothing else, I'm sure we can respect each other for that.

As for what is allowed on headstones and markers at the cemetary:
http://www.cem.va.gov/hmemb.htm

Also, I don't see homosexuals demanding marriages rights as them forcing their lifestyle on us. How does homosexuals getting married desecrate marriage? What about all those churches and religions that will marry homosexuals? All they all invalid houses of worship fallen to desecrated depths?

*meow*




ArtCatDom -> RE: Sign of the times (5/31/2006 11:09:26 AM)


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Its not my universe ... I'm just tired of hearing people bitch and moan until the REAL issue is lost behind a bunch of BS. He DIED, not so he could be Wiccan or display a pentacle, but so that the freedoms that this country was founded upon would remain FREE. I'm SORRY that the VA is unwilling to allow his widow to put a pentale on his plaque ... But you know what? Whether that that symbol is there or not, his name being on that wall will mean that generations from now people will know that HE died for this country. Again I ask ... Which is more important? Acknowledging his sacrifice or a symbol of his religion?


Part of what he died for was the right to be a Wiccan. Part of what he died for was the right of Wiccans to display their religion as members of others religions do.

The fact he is being discriminated against in death is beyond the pale.

*meow*




darq -> RE: Sign of the times (5/31/2006 11:14:56 AM)

Hmm, the symbol I associate with my faith isn't on that list either. Should I throw a fit now?




NeedToUseYou -> RE: Sign of the times (5/31/2006 11:20:44 AM)

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ORIGINAL: darq

I'm not missing the point ...

I just disagree with the point.

I think its more important that his sacrifice be recognized instead of being turned into a spectacle over a symbol which can be added later on when it is finally approved.

I always thought it was the wishes of the deceased that matter most, not the living, in regard to such things. It seems arrogant, to deny a miniscule request, from the departed, or for that matter the living family of the dead. Why? Is it going to hurt anybody? Is it going to offend everyone? Doubtful. I just can not rationalize the logic. To me it's the pinnacle of self-obsessed behaviour to deny someone a little  symbol, just because it doesn't agree with another completely uninvolved party sensibilities. If that's the standard, well, I don't even like the concept of graveyards. Does that mean everyone should be burned into ashes. Ah, but I know to some people it is important to be buried, and a marker displaying something they would be fond placed above them. Or a plaque. So, It works for them. If it helps the dying, or the living family in any small way, who am or you to tell them its not right. Seems petty.





darq -> RE: Sign of the times (5/31/2006 11:34:21 AM)

Well, another way to look at it is this ...

Pagans have a variety of symbols ... Just like they have a variety of dieties .. So maybe the reason the VA is stalling on accepting the Pentacle is because they've got several different symbols being petitioned for ...

I'd say we don't know the whole story ...




darq -> RE: Sign of the times (5/31/2006 11:36:44 AM)

And before someone points it out to me, I know that not all Pagans are Wiccan ...




NakedOnMyChain -> RE: Sign of the times (5/31/2006 11:51:54 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SirKenin

Well, you know what assumptions do, do you not?  You will quickly learn that I am My own person.  I do not follow an agenda.  I do not kiss ass.  I state it how I see it to be.  I do not ask people to like it, I ask them to tolerate it.  I have to tolerate you, you then have to tolerate Me.  That is how it works.


Well, then, I believe I'll follow your lead by not kissing ass and not following an agenda.  I'll call it like I see it, and here's how I see it:  You're a damn fool who will hopefully live to regret being one.  Ok.  Now let the toleration start.

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However, desecrating the sanctity of marriage and other institutions are more than I am willing to tolerate.  It is funny though, the one's that I hang out with are not interested in forcing their lifestyle on everyone else.  They are just happy being who they are and having you as their friend. 


Two people who love each other being married, regardless of gender, is not a desecration.  It is a beautiful act.  Also, they deserve the societal and financial benefits as much as the next person.  A gay couple's right to marry does not constitute them forcing their lifestyle on you.  How would it effect you any differently than an unmarried gay couple?

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So I ask you.  What is wrong with this picture?  


That you are able to vote.




NakedOnMyChain -> RE: Sign of the times (5/31/2006 12:01:01 PM)

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Well, another way to look at it is this ...

Pagans have a variety of symbols ... Just like they have a variety of dieties .. So maybe the reason the VA is stalling on accepting the Pentacle is because they've got several different symbols being petitioned for ...


So do Christians.  You have the cross, the Ichthys (Jesus fishie), angels, the virgin Mary, the Chi-Rho, the lamb, the dove, the Alpha-Omega, IHS, St. Andrew's cross, and so many others I couldn't even ponder listing them here. 

Obviously, the cross is approved as a universal Christian symbol, regardless of sect, and is acceptable to engrave on the plaque.  All we're asking for is our most universal symbol to be able to be used in this fashion.




petwolf22 -> RE: Sign of the times (5/31/2006 12:29:13 PM)

Actually if you saw my post,  SirKenin, the National Cemetery Association has approved 38 different religious symbols that people are allowed to put as markers on memorial plaques. http://www.cem.va.gov/hmemb.htm There's probably many that they're missing...if you happen to have an issue with it, you're perfectly within your right to say something about it (directed toward darq).

So this Wiccan is not trying to be any different, they are just trying to have the same rights as everyone else.

Let's call all religions made up while we're at it.  Just a crutch to help humans accept the fact that one day they're going to die?  Makes it easier to cope with if you've got something to believe in.




Delightb32 -> RE: Sign of the times (5/31/2006 1:59:28 PM)

This is ridiculous.   The widow does not have a "right" to anything.  The government is giving a plaque to a widow.  The government does not require the widow to accept it, nor does the government require the widow to be a certain religion to accept it.  In fact, the plaque itself can be completely free of religious symbols.  If I sent my Christian friends Hanukkuh cards, am I restricting their freedom of religion?  No.  This is a gift from the government, and the recipient has no "right" to demand anything of the giver.  If the giver of a gift has certain parameters for the gift (such as it can contain only 1 of 38 symbols), then the recipient should not demand those parameters be changed.  When a person receives a gift, they have no right to demand the gift be changed.  I am a Jainist, a religion which has existed since 500 B.C.  The American government does not include the symbol of my religion among the list of 38, but that does not mean I should pitch a fit.  That means I can follow the process for change and be grateful if I am successful, or I can decline the gift. 

Because people are bashing religions and there seems to be a Christian attack going on, let's pretend that I were a Christian.  If I wanted the Jesus fish on my plaque instead of a cross, should I demand and whine when I don't get it?  No.  I should chose an option or decline the gift. 

Please, people, try not to be so open minded that your brain shuts down and causes the neurons to suffer claustrophobia.




ArtCatDom -> RE: Sign of the times (5/31/2006 2:33:40 PM)


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This is ridiculous.   The widow does not have a "right" to anything.  The government is giving a plaque to a widow.  The government does not require the widow to accept it, nor does the government require the widow to be a certain religion to accept it.  In fact, the plaque itself can be completely free of religious symbols.  If I sent my Christian friends Hanukkuh cards, am I restricting their freedom of religion?  No.  This is a gift from the government, and the recipient has no "right" to demand anything of the giver.  If the giver of a gift has certain parameters for the gift (such as it can contain only 1 of 38 symbols), then the recipient should not demand those parameters be changed.  When a person receives a gift, they have no right to demand the gift be changed.  I am a Jainist, a religion which has existed since 500 B.C.  The American government does not include the symbol of my religion among the list of 38, but that does not mean I should pitch a fit.  That means I can follow the process for change and be grateful if I am successful, or I can decline the gift. 

Because people are bashing religions and there seems to be a Christian attack going on, let's pretend that I were a Christian.  If I wanted the Jesus fish on my plaque instead of a cross, should I demand and whine when I don't get it?  No.  I should chose an option or decline the gift. 

Please, people, try not to be so open minded that your brain shuts down and causes the neurons to suffer claustrophobia.



Our government has established that certain rights to religion exist for solidiers, which includes being buried and having one's grave and other markers adorned accordingly to religious beliefs. The standards for application to have a non-standard marker are fairly open and easy to pass, on paper. Interesting you mention the "Jesus fish" because it has been adorned on government provided markers, upon request.

Wandering off the OP topic, you follow Jain Dharma? I find that utterly fascinating. Have you been to the Jain society there in Atlanta? Are you an observant listener, or is it more of a personal philosophy application?

*meow*




Ankou -> RE: Sign of the times (5/31/2006 2:34:20 PM)

So basicially, the government, who Is supposed to support and abide by the amendments to the constitution, and the constitution itself, Is able to ignore our rights as people, and apparently, as soilders, to show and have our religion shown upon death of a cemetary marker? Wow, You learn somthing new every day.

This isint solely about the fact a soilder died, its about the fact he died for a REASON. The reason being to protect his beliefs, and the beliefs of others, such as displaying one's own religious symbol. It's sad that he cannot do this simply because they will not allow this symbol. It's not like the widow wouldint pay to have it added, it's just NOT ACCEPTED. See how I said not accepted? That means the military, or government or whatever, IS NOT ACCEPTING this man's religion and religious symbol, reguardless of who pays for it but allows others. That, my friends, IS discrimination.

-Jesse




darq -> RE: Sign of the times (5/31/2006 2:37:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Delightb32

This is ridiculous.   The widow does not have a "right" to anything.  The government is giving a plaque to a widow.  The government does not require the widow to accept it, nor does the government require the widow to be a certain religion to accept it.  In fact, the plaque itself can be completely free of religious symbols.  If I sent my Christian friends Hanukkuh cards, am I restricting their freedom of religion?  No.  This is a gift from the government, and the recipient has no "right" to demand anything of the giver.  If the giver of a gift has certain parameters for the gift (such as it can contain only 1 of 38 symbols), then the recipient should not demand those parameters be changed.  When a person receives a gift, they have no right to demand the gift be changed.  I am a Jainist, a religion which has existed since 500 B.C.  The American government does not include the symbol of my religion among the list of 38, but that does not mean I should pitch a fit.  That means I can follow the process for change and be grateful if I am successful, or I can decline the gift. 

Because people are bashing religions and there seems to be a Christian attack going on, let's pretend that I were a Christian.  If I wanted the Jesus fish on my plaque instead of a cross, should I demand and whine when I don't get it?  No.  I should chose an option or decline the gift. 

Please, people, try not to be so open minded that your brain shuts down and causes the neurons to suffer claustrophobia.



Thank you for hitting the nail on the head. [sm=mrpuffy.gif]




Ankou -> RE: Sign of the times (5/31/2006 2:37:42 PM)

P.S.
Wicca itself may not be an ancient religion, but many practices are either based on those which happened since B.C., or ARE those practiced B.C. but only recently has it really been grouped and given a section in modern religion.

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Also, this is hardly an attack on christianity, but more so an example. You KNOW they will allow a cross, or a star of david, that's the point. They are prime examples since the majority of america believe in them. Stop pulling the religion card out as if you were so persecuted ;).




ArtCatDom -> RE: Sign of the times (5/31/2006 2:44:53 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Ankou

So basicially, the government, who Is supposed to support and abide by the amendments to the constitution, and the constitution itself, Is able to ignore our rights as people, and apparently, as soilders, to show and have our religion shown upon death of a cemetary marker? Wow, You learn somthing new every day.

This isint solely about the fact a soilder died, its about the fact he died for a REASON. The reason being to protect his beliefs, and the beliefs of others, such as displaying one's own religious symbol. It's sad that he cannot do this simply because they will not allow this symbol. It's not like the widow wouldint pay to have it added, it's just NOT ACCEPTED. See how I said not accepted? That means the military, or government or whatever, IS NOT ACCEPTING this man's religion and religious symbol, reguardless of who pays for it but allows others. That, my friends, IS discrimination.

-Jesse



It's worse than not being accepted. It's in forever pending status. There is a TEN YEAR OLD request for a pentacle emblem that has yet to be resolved. If they denied it, there are appeals processes (which eventually lead to the courts). By keeping the applications in pending status, they cut off the route of due process for the applicants. (This is part of the basis the widow is considering suing under, as due process claims provide a strong basis for tort suits.)

*meow*




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