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RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? - 12/28/2011 12:47:31 PM   
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I have only 1 non negotiable trait that he MUST posses. He must be a true alpha male.
What behaviors, actions and spoken words would be indicators if he were in fact an alpha male.


The logical me wants to ask how you have determined that you MUST have an alpha male
if you aren't even certain you've ever been in the presence of one?

Then the flirty me says the heck with your inquiry, and takes another peek at all the wonderful alpha men
that have posted on this thread.

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RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? - 12/28/2011 1:28:01 PM   
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OMG this is great---now I have a study guide so Master and I can be the TRUE COLLAR ME D/s couple of 2012.

ETA I think Master might be a real man cause he has one of those things with a sack behind it hanging between his legs---it might be a wanna be though---I'll keep you all posted though.

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RE: How Can I tell if He's an alpha male? - 12/28/2011 1:32:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		OP, you are almost 40.  You really don't know what attracts you to a man?  You haven't figured out what qualities are manly in a manly man?  Have you been living on a desert island or something?

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RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? - 12/28/2011 1:53:58 PM   
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Look down his pants, shesh.

Do I have to tell you youngsters *all* my secrets?






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RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? - 12/28/2011 2:06:48 PM   
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Do I have to tell you youngsters *all* my secrets?



Yes, please?

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RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? - 12/28/2011 2:10:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

How Can You Tell If He's A Real Man?

Look down his pants, shesh.

Do I have to tell you youngsters *all* my secrets?






You should blog them
Id subscribe:)


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RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? - 12/28/2011 2:37:57 PM   
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You left out......pictures with him, in sunglasses, standing in front of or sitting on/in his manly car or motorcycle. Should have arms crossed to 'enhance' the illusion of manly muscles also (and draw your eyes away from his stomach). Possibly even a photo of his dick to prove once and for all he is a real and twue man....And pictures of his BDSM toy collection.......always important to know he is real and true yanno.

Then there is a photo of him with another woman/other women.......preferably with their faces cut out.

If they've written an essay on being real and true, their one true way.........they get bonus points.


I am thinking 'pimped out' profile...well almost. But you forgot the part where real men have rings on their fingers, bells on their toes and a bone in their nose.

Profiles often hide a man when you'll just have to meet all of them to see if they are...real men. Plus women as reflected in the above comment, don't want to see other women in your 'portfolio' because they don't want to know if you are really safe to meet with. They want that measure of fear, I guess.

Also a real man must have experience having played but women don't...want a player.

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RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? - 12/28/2011 2:39:37 PM   
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How Can I tell if He's a Real Man?



Ask, "Who sleeps in the wet spot?!!"

Answers:

a) "Neither of us", "We change the sheets", "I don't mind", or similar reply = WOMAN

b)  "You do!!!" = MAN





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RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? - 12/28/2011 2:41:29 PM   
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RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? - 12/28/2011 7:58:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GwenevereLynn
As I search for my master, I have only 1 non negotiable trait that he MUST posses. He must be a true alpha male. I thought it may be worth a try to ask dominant men if they had any advice. In the sense of what behaviors, actions and spoken words would be indicators if he were in fact an alpha male

You're 39 according to your profile and you still don't know what you find sexy and attractive in a man??? If you don't know what an alpha male is, how do you know if you're attracted to them? The way you find out if a guy is a real man or not is.....drumroll please.....look down his pants. If he's got a willy, he's a real man. Everything else is subjective and will vary according to the observer and what she or he is looking for. Oh for crying out loud, grow the hell up!

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RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? - 12/28/2011 8:06:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GwenevereLynn

Thanks to all who may help me with this issue. My love to you :)
As I search for my master, I have only 1 non negotiable trait that he MUST posses. He must be a true alpha male. I thought it may be worth a try to ask dominant men if they had any advice. In the sense of what behaviors, actions and spoken words would be indicators if he were in fact an alpha male. On the flip side of the coin, I would ask the same reversed. What would be behaviors, ect of a man who was not a real man at all? In short, what should I be looking for to ensure I do not fall prey to a p***y in a man costume! :)


When you first meet, hand him a coil of barbed wire. If he chews it up and spits out ten-penny nails, he's an alpha male.

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RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? - 12/28/2011 9:20:31 PM   
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When you first meet, hand him a coil of barbed wire. If he chews it up and spits out ten-penny nails, he's an alpha male.

What if he shits lag bolts?

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RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? - 12/28/2011 9:24:16 PM   
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what behaviors, actions and spoken words would be indicators if he were in fact an alpha male.

Everybody (and I do mean every single person in existence) will have a slightly different opinion of what that phrase means. So what you need to do is decide what YOUR definition is, and then compare potential mates to that definition.


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RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? - 12/28/2011 9:28:52 PM   
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dammit IM wearing a wife beater t shirt!!
WTF?
Im an alpha male?
*******Screaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaams* No NO NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

I know you were kidding around, but still, this shows that you don't understand logic. Look it up sometime, it's actually quite interesting, and it'll definitely help you in debates and discussions. You know how people here are always saying your logic "doesn't follow"? They won't say that anymore once you understand what logic and reasoning are.

In short, just because all oranges are fruit, doesn't mean all fruit are oranges.... and just because all alpha makes wear wife beaters, doesn't mean all people who wear wife beaters are alpha males.


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RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? - 12/28/2011 9:38:11 PM   
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When you first meet, hand him a coil of barbed wire. If he chews it up and spits out ten-penny nails, he's an alpha male.

What if he shits lag bolts?


his a legend

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RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? - 12/29/2011 6:15:20 AM   
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When you first meet, hand him a coil of barbed wire. If he chews it up and spits out ten-penny nails, he's an alpha male.

What if he shits lag bolts?



Bring that "boy" on I'll make him my bitch.

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RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? - 12/29/2011 6:17:06 AM   
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dammit IM wearing a wife beater t shirt!!
WTF?
Im an alpha male?
*******Screaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaams* No NO NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

I know you were kidding around, but still, this shows that you don't understand logic. Look it up sometime, it's actually quite interesting, and it'll definitely help you in debates and discussions. You know how people here are always saying your logic "doesn't follow"? They won't say that anymore once you understand what logic and reasoning are.

In short, just because all oranges are fruit, doesn't mean all fruit are oranges.... and just because all alpha makes wear wife beaters, doesn't mean all people who wear wife beaters are alpha males.



Im quite sure you are the only person who understands what you just said

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RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? - 12/29/2011 9:54:26 AM   
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I know you were kidding around, but still, this shows that you don't understand logic.


Or perhaps your sense of humor is on vacation.

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RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? - 12/29/2011 10:07:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		Getting back to the op, her comment that uses the term pussy as the most derogatory term possible in her lexicon says to me that if she ever finds a guy she approves of, he will perforce disrespect her for possessing a pussy. Women who look down on women have issues, and deserve to find guys with equal issues who are also incredibly bigoted.

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RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? - 12/29/2011 10:36:10 AM   
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When you first meet, hand him a coil of barbed wire. If he chews it up and spits out ten-penny nails, he's an alpha male.

What if he shits lag bolts?


dump his ass and run!!

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