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houseslave -> Any Real Life Knowledge of Male Slaves serving Straight Male Masters? (12/29/2011 10:22:41 AM)

i have had some limited experience serving Dominant Straight Male Masters, but the opportunities are few and far between. Wondering if anyone knows of the reality of such situations?

thank you



Fornica -> RE: Any Real Life Knowledge of Male Slaves serving Straight Male Masters? (12/29/2011 10:28:52 AM)

Are you asking if straight masters would want to be served by gay dudes? Or if anyone has?



houseslave -> RE: Any Real Life Knowledge of Male Slaves serving Straight Male Masters? (12/29/2011 10:29:32 AM)

i guess i'm asking both....



kalikshama -> RE: Any Real Life Knowledge of Male Slaves serving Straight Male Masters? (12/29/2011 10:32:02 AM)

I'm assuming you mean non-sexual service. See Another service sub thread: for those who get it...and those who don't



MikeSojourner -> RE: Any Real Life Knowledge of Male Slaves serving Straight Male Masters? (12/29/2011 10:35:25 AM)

There is one straight master I know of that has had male a submissive (not sure what orientation the submissive is).  But you're right, that is very rare.  Although a male topping another male I have seen a couple times, but it's pretty rare as well.

Probably because D/s or S/M is at least erotic if not sexual for the majority of people and so the interest in being with someone you aren't potentially sexually attracted to is rare.



houseslave -> RE: Any Real Life Knowledge of Male Slaves serving Straight Male Masters? (12/29/2011 10:57:07 AM)

yes talking about what is usually non-sexual service



DesFIP -> RE: Any Real Life Knowledge of Male Slaves serving Straight Male Masters? (12/29/2011 11:13:58 AM)

First op, just because one person told you that slaves have no gender doesn't make that statement true for anyone other than the person who said it. For most of us, it's entirely false.

As was already said, most of us are hard wired to find that sexuality enters into wiitwd a great deal.
Beyond that, just because you can be a slave to one guy doesn't mean you could be a slave to anybody else or that they could be a master or mistress to you. You have to feel able to do this with a person, from both sides of the kneel.

I'm his slave/sub/property/pet however we describe it on any given day. I'm not ever going to feel that way towards anyone else.

I can imagine that there are straight men who wouldn't mind you washing their dishes or changing the oil in their car. But what could they give you in return? What would you need from them to make it worth your while doing it instead of working at a soup kitchen?



houseslave -> RE: Any Real Life Knowledge of Male Slaves serving Straight Male Masters? (12/29/2011 12:01:43 PM)

washing dishes and changing oil in their car sounds good to me....find the service its own reward....



hangemhigh1953 -> RE: Any Real Life Knowledge of Male Slaves serving Straight Male Masters? (12/29/2011 12:05:39 PM)

I think that is actually more common than one might think. I've seen several Doms out there who are straight but their respect for women conflicts with their sadistic/Dominant side, and they consequently prefer to dominate men.



houseslave -> RE: Any Real Life Knowledge of Male Slaves serving Straight Male Masters? (12/29/2011 12:34:26 PM)

really? well that gives me hope..what do you mean by "seen"? you know in person? or you've seen online?



hangemhigh1953 -> RE: Any Real Life Knowledge of Male Slaves serving Straight Male Masters? (12/29/2011 12:37:51 PM)


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ORIGINAL: houseslave

really? well that gives me hope..what do you mean by "seen"? you know in person? or you've seen online?

I personally have served one such guy. I've seen a couple others online.



houseslave -> RE: Any Real Life Knowledge of Male Slaves serving Straight Male Masters? (12/29/2011 12:42:38 PM)

lucky you...what did you do for him? do you enjoy that kind of service?



hangemhigh1953 -> RE: Any Real Life Knowledge of Male Slaves serving Straight Male Masters? (12/29/2011 12:48:03 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: houseslave

lucky you...what did you do for him? do you enjoy that kind of service?

Not much, really. He's let me down more than a few times. To be fair there was a little bi-curiosity involved in that situation.



kalikshama -> RE: Any Real Life Knowledge of Male Slaves serving Straight Male Masters? (12/29/2011 12:59:32 PM)

I know IRL a hetero Dom who likes to beat males as he claims they can take more punishment. I know that's not right on topic, but the point is that not everyone attaches sex to sadism or service.



houseslave -> RE: Any Real Life Knowledge of Male Slaves serving Straight Male Masters? (12/29/2011 1:07:07 PM)

that's true..well that sounds hopeful, too....don't know why i haven't been so "lucky"...though served a married guy and another straight guy over time in the past....errands, car washing, shopping, massage, cleaning, stuff like that



kalikshama -> RE: Any Real Life Knowledge of Male Slaves serving Straight Male Masters? (12/29/2011 1:21:22 PM)

I guess you get the same advice as everyone else - meet people IRL at BDSM events - you should have no problem finding those in NY.



lelloy -> RE: Any Real Life Knowledge of Male Slaves serving Straight Male Masters? (12/29/2011 2:45:21 PM)

I had a former Dom who had a service-oriented sub. It worked out well for them both and he was a great help. I'm not sure David has ever considered service-only types, but I'm not sure if he's ever been approached by one either. I suspect he'd be open to service-only.



Winterapple -> RE: Any Real Life Knowledge of Male Slaves serving Straight Male Masters? (12/29/2011 3:11:10 PM)

I know of a straight Dom couple who have a
male submissive who serves them.
I'm unsure of the subs sexual orientation.
I believe it is a mostly service based
situation.
The submissive chauffeurs them around
and is quite the handy dandy fix it man
around the house and in the yard.
They loan him out to do stuff for their
friends to.





houseslave -> RE: Any Real Life Knowledge of Male Slaves serving Straight Male Masters? (12/29/2011 5:09:35 PM)

thanks great to hear about



houseslave -> RE: Any Real Life Knowledge of Male Slaves serving Straight Male Masters? (12/29/2011 5:18:28 PM)

yes maybe serving a Dom Couple is the way to go for me...



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