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RE: Favorite responses to sub's "transgressions" - 12/30/2011 4:21:13 PM

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Do you have all this written down?

Oral sex that doesn't involve hands in some fashion is just NOT satisfactory.

I'm with ya on that!!!

i agree ladies, I like being stroked while I do it.

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RE: Favorite responses to sub's "transgressions" - 12/30/2011 4:22:15 PM

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Hi Molly, question for you? Since when was giving oral deemed punishment?

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Shhhhhhh Niney, quit while we are ahead.

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RE: Favorite responses to sub's "transgressions" - 12/30/2011 4:28:00 PM

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Hi Molly, question for you? Since when was giving oral deemed punishment?

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Yeah, if someone thought giving me oral was punishment, he wouldn't be my sub. lol

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RE: Favorite responses to sub's "transgressions" - 12/30/2011 4:29:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Do you have all this written down?

Oral sex that doesn't involve hands in some fashion is just NOT satisfactory.

I'm with ya on that!!!

i agree ladies, I like being stroked while I do it.

You ruined my chocolate mint candy! It got stuck in my throat! Shame on you!

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RE: Favorite responses to sub's "transgressions" - 12/30/2011 4:37:10 PM

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You know me well enough Lockit. Impish and with a cute English accent.

Moral of the story, dont eat candy while reading my posts.

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RE: Favorite responses to sub's "transgressions" - 12/30/2011 8:21:22 PM

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A lot of people that pay to play will push a dom/me just so they can get hurt in the way they want or to test limits of said dom/me to try and control them.

I don't understand why you would have to provoke her to get a spanking (or whatever pain you wanted) especially if you are paying her. In a lifestyle situation I am assuming the Domme would enjoy doing that so if I wanted a spanking all I would have to do is ask, and if I haven't displeased her in some way there would be no reason for her not to. I know when I want a spanking that's all I have to do is ask for one.

And if I was going to a Pro for a spanking (or other type of pain) then that's what I would be paying her for so that's what she would do, right?

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In the same way a lot of(from what I have seen "lifestyle") dommes will set men up for things they can not do just so they can hurt them later. Though in most of the cases I have seen where this happens it comes from a woman that is in some way trying to get even with the male gender.

You have given me a thought though(inner sadist screaming) maybe someone doing this would just want to see some cute naked nookie(because I don't care for the word canuck) cry...it might look pretty.

That doesn't make any sense to me either. Hannah Lynn does think it looks pretty when I cry, so when she feels like seeing me cry, she does something to make me cry, she doesn't make up an excuse to do it, she just does it, which is how I thought things generally worked.

I'm even more confused, than before. It seems that with a punishment (or funishment) dynamic there is an awful lot of game playing going on, which seems counter productive to me, it sort of goes against the whole point of dominating and submitting, or at least the way I have been taught to think of it. Isn't the whole point of having somebody submit to you so that you can do stuff like that without having to have an excuse?

I don't think I would like that sort of dynamic, there's just too much dishonesty in it. I would be really mad if somebody gave me a task with the intent that I would fail just so they could spank me, I would much prefer she just throw me over her knee and spank me for no reason.

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RE: Favorite responses to sub's "transgressions" - 12/31/2011 10:05:00 AM

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Some pay to play men don't want to admit what they really want. They really don't want to admit it it if what they want is control. I'm not saying it's right, only that it happens.

As to the lifestyle ones....well I doubt Hanna is trying to get even with her own gender. She has an actual attraction to you and that is not the case in the situation I was talking about(at least as I understand it) And, again, I'm not saying it is right, only that I have seen it happen. In most cases I have seen it in women that say they are "dominant" when really they just hate men.

You do understand that last part was just me joking about making you cry right? I mean if I have to let the inner sadist speak...I don't have the personal attachment to you that Hanna has so I would most likely just think you look pretty when you cry(I think most people look pretty when they cry)

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RE: Favorite responses to sub's "transgressions" - 12/31/2011 12:44:12 PM

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I don't think I will ever understand people, maybe I will just stop trying and accept that they make no sense.

And I took no offence about the crying bit, as I said Hannah Lynn agrees with you about people being pretty when they cry. Luckily for her both Heather and I cry easily. Well luckily for us too, since it means we don't have to endure too much for her to get what she wants.

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RE: Favorite responses to sub's "transgressions" - 12/31/2011 3:51:27 PM

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Over the years I have found that it is easier to not bother to try and undertand people. Of course that is unless you want to get into the whole mind fuck thing, than you pretty much have to understand the other person pretty well. Hanna and I agree...Yay, of course the pretty when they cry thing is normally why I hurt men. I have found it is a little harder to get most men to cry so it's even more fun. The pretty little dolls in a row crying though...yeah I could see what she finds attractive about that too. Matching outfits, pretty bows in the hair, shiny little leather shoes, white knee socks, mind wandering...little lines of mascara running down the cheeks...umm yeah...I'm sure you get the point. OMG ask Hanna if she has ever thought about having you two face each other on your knees and than sticking needles though your nipples so you are stuck together...wait maybe you don't want to ask her. I'll shut up now.

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