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Justyourpet -> Right place? (12/29/2011 11:22:45 PM)
don't know if I should ask here or in sub, but I have a question. I have a problem when I try to visualize a woman being dominant, but not with guys. The problem is I do way better and see myself with a girl in a relationship, but I like to have my submissive side too. This being said I have never actually been with a dominant woman before so I don't know if it would be better afterwards? I liked the idea of a guy dominating me before i experienced it, but I feel nothing towards a woman(not a dislike or a like). I don't know what my question really is but maybe yall could give me your insight?

InhaleExhale -> RE: Right place? (12/30/2011 12:55:23 AM)
Let me first make sure I'm interpreting you correctly: overall, you prefer the company of a woman to that of a man, but you have a hard time submitting to a woman because there's something about masculinity that you associate with dominance, and something about femininity that you associate with submission? So you want a woman, but you also want to be the woman? I happened across the profile of a Domme the other day who called herself "a gay male top in a woman's body." She described herself as being very tomboyish, and professed her undying love for fucking a man in the ass with a strap-on. (Sorry--I can't remember her name, and wouldn't tell you on a public message board if I did because I don't know whether she'd appreciate it.) Maybe you can find someone like her.

Miserlou -> RE: Right place? (12/30/2011 1:01:20 AM)
insight into what?

Justyourpet -> RE: Right place? (12/30/2011 1:04:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: InhaleExhale Let me first make sure I'm interpreting you correctly: overall, you prefer the company of a woman to that of a man, but you have a hard time submitting to a woman because there's something about masculinity that you associate with dominance, and something about femininity that you associate with submission? So you want a woman, but you also want to be the woman? I happened across the profile of a Domme the other day who called herself "a gay male top in a woman's body." She described herself as being very tomboyish, and professed her undying love for fucking a man in the ass with a strap-on. (Sorry--I can't remember her name, and wouldn't tell you on a public message board if I did because I don't know whether she'd appreciate it.) Maybe you can find someone like her. Yeah Idk i'm just confused lol and kinda think this was a mistake. Thank you for taking your time to answer though. Can no one else post I'd rather think more/is there a way to close a thread?

FrostedFlake -> RE: Right place? (12/30/2011 1:49:14 AM)
ExhaleInhale did a marvelous job of reading your mind, Pet. All the more impressive in that you don't seem able to do it yourself. How about taking some time to figure out what your question is, and then ask it. Perhaps you should use notepad to write and rewrite it until it says what you mean and then copy and past it to the forum. Also, using textspeak is confusing. Idk = I don't know. If I guessed right. There is no need to save space and skip keystrokes because this is not a cell phone. See? I just typed six sentances about what three letters might or might not mean and why I wonder. I wonder because you didn't tell me, and the same can be said of your question. Until you make your question clear, I can't answer. I can only guess.

AcademyForSlaves -> RE: Right place? (12/30/2011 7:10:48 PM)
Hi. The best way to find out if you'd like something is to tyy it. Sort of like trying a new flavor of ice cream. So you want wanna go ahead and try subbing to a woman to see if you like it or not. Maybe try it online first and take it from there. There's also parties and clubs you can go to so you can experiment in a group setting. Hope this helps!!

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