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zenmoment -> Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or switch women? (12/30/2011 11:30:23 AM)

There seems to be plenty of pro-women that fit this category that aren't looking for any sort of relationship that typically lasts longer than a few sessions to have some fun and make a few bucks...nothing wrong with that, it's just not what I am currently seeking. Perhaps that's just the odds on this website lots of horny guys just trying to get off and too few women that don't get off wearing the pants or strap-on in a relationship?

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LaTigresse -> RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or switch women? (12/30/2011 11:32:19 AM)

Actually, based upon what I've seen, there are plenty of lifestyle dominant women. The problem seems to be that most of the guys that consider themselves submissive are in fact kinky bottoms. The only submission they have is to their dick.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or switch women? (12/30/2011 11:51:51 AM)

Look at all those keystrokes LaT saved me!



Clickofheels -> RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or switch women? (12/30/2011 12:05:02 PM)

(Heavy sighs with the shake of her head) I see the "standard put-down" rears its ugly head yet again as a submissive new to this site merely asks a question.

Welcome, zenmoment! (Smiles) And you are correct, there ARE quite a few Pro-Dommes here. But if you look a little more closely you'll see there are those of us who are not. Don't give up your search. There are some very nice ladies here (and I do not use the term loosely, either! LOL)

You have an interesting profile, by the way! (Smiles)

Sending my best your way,
Ms Click






DarkSteven -> RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or switch women? (12/30/2011 12:13:36 PM)

Your profile is good. You've been here six years.

I dunno what the problem is, but keep at it and something good should happen!



searching4mysir -> RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or switch women? (12/30/2011 12:18:26 PM)

Hi Zen

Welcome to the discussion side of CM! Like Click said, there are quite a few lifestyle dommes here.

Just a couple of questions:

1) are you initiating emails with the lifestyle dommes or are you waiting for them to find you?

2) if you are initiating, how are you doing so?



If you go to the Ask a Mistress forum, there is an FAQ at the top of the page.

I don't know about the lifestyle dommes, but when I was searching as a sub/slave, if a dom had pictures similar to those in your gallery I would write him off. I don't need to see scantily clad women and/or naked men in a man's profile. I would much rather see pictures showing him fully clothed in various activities that he enjoys that are not sexually-related that show me a bit of who he is.



LaTigresse -> RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or switch women? (12/30/2011 12:20:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Clickofheels

(Heavy sighs with the shake of her head) I see the "standard put-down" rears its ugly head yet again as a submissive new to this site merely asks a question.

Welcome, zenmoment! (Smiles) And you are correct, there ARE quite a few Pro-Dommes here. But if you look a little more closely you'll see there are those of us who are not. Don't give up your search. There are some very nice ladies here (and I do not use the term loosely, either! LOL)

You have an interesting profile, by the way! (Smiles)

Sending my best your way,
Ms Click



Oh click quit being such a drama llama and reading shit into other people's posts that isn't there.

Unless you are going to deny that there really ARE quite a few lifestyle dominant women here.......or that there ARE quite a few men just looking for kink. Which I don't see as a negative, only that they are confused by what exactly they are looking for.

In no way did I even attempt to imply that the OP was anything other than what he believes he is. However, if you wish to do so by twisting my words.......shame on you.



lizi -> RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or switch women? (12/30/2011 2:13:13 PM)

Welcome to the forums! There does seem to be an inequity in the ratio of lifestyle Dommes to submissive men, but you seem to be ahead of the usual sub male as far as profile goes, and if you are actively seeking I'd hope you'd find what you are looking for soon enough. I agree with taking off the nude pics from your profile, I'm thinking they are meant to show what D/s means to you, but it's a bit TMI. I mean if you meet someone at a party you don't whip out the picture book saying this is how I picture us in the near future. It's just kind of icky.

That being said I wish you luck and hope you find what you are seeking!



ashjor911 -> RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or switch women? (12/30/2011 3:40:46 PM)

Welcome,



Fornica -> RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or switch women? (12/30/2011 3:44:07 PM)

We're all lesbians.
Sorry dude.



OohAahMrs -> RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or switch women? (12/31/2011 6:24:18 AM)

I was once a lesbian and i was a damn good one!



Higuysitsme -> RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or switch women? (12/31/2011 7:19:48 AM)

Yes, your profile is not bad (not as good as mine, but not bad...) . Wtf is a 'clamsucker'?? Something Aus? And pulease, lose the pics - they are terrible! Put me off and I'm not a woman!
Oh hey; and good luck with your search.



Fornica -> RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or switch women? (12/31/2011 7:33:50 AM)

Thank you SOOOOOOOOOOOO much for making me look.
Bleck
quote:

ORIGINAL: Higuysitsme

And pulease, lose the pics - they are terrible! Put me off and I'm not a woman!





seababy -> RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or switch women? (12/31/2011 7:52:44 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Higuysitsme

Yes, your profile is not bad (not as good as mine, but not bad...) . Wtf is a 'clamsucker'?? Something Aus? And pulease, lose the pics - they are terrible! Put me off and I'm not a woman!
Oh hey; and good luck with your search.


No Aussie I know has ever used that term.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or switch women? (12/31/2011 7:54:57 AM)

Nice to know he's all about the clam.[8|]



Fornica -> RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or switch women? (12/31/2011 8:31:10 AM)

Keepin' it classy, OP!



lizi -> RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or switch women? (12/31/2011 9:28:06 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Higuysitsme

Wtf is a 'clamsucker'?? Something Aus?


I 'think' he meant clamshucker, as in having worked at some kind of seafood processing place. I hope so anyway because being a clamsucker for a job is .....odd.



kalikshama -> RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or switch women? (12/31/2011 9:33:35 AM)

OP,

Your profile is quite good but your pictures scream "I want a fetish delivery system." It's easy to anonymize pictures.

If you send me a sample of your first email to potential Dommes, I will be happy to critique it.

Welcome,

KK



mnottertail -> RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or switch women? (12/31/2011 9:39:40 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama

OP,

Your profile is quite good but your pictures scream "I want a fetish delivery system." It's easy to anonymize pictures.

If you send me a sample of your first email to potential Dommes, I will be happy to critique it.

Welcome,

KK


KK, write me the other side, I think I have a good profile, look at my pics and see how I could pose so that my pics would scream I want a fetish delivery system (cuz that exactly what I want) but of a somewhat different mein than the OPs. Help a brother out here. 



kalikshama -> RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or switch women? (12/31/2011 9:43:26 AM)

Well, as you are dominant and into receiving blowjobs, your photos should be of porn stars getting head and chicks giving head with their arms restrained.



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