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davecuckinCT -> hi from connecticut (12/30/2011 1:46:54 PM)

hi, I would like some advice and co,,emts maybe some friends on here who could help me in becoming what i know should happen. my wife's deserves better sexually. i am small down below and squirt as soon as i enter her. can we talk and become friends? help me become her toy to tease?..i would like advice from both women and men... she has had an affair..and now i beat off for her most of the time.
my yahoo is [mod note - contact information removed]

lets talk.please?

thanks Dave


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Fornica -> RE: hi from connecticut (12/30/2011 1:52:21 PM)

Have you been to a doctor about it?



lizi -> RE: hi from connecticut (12/30/2011 1:57:01 PM)

Hey there Dave, welcome to CM.
Forgive me for being a bit confused on a couple of points, you say you say you want to become a toy for your wife to tease and don't know how to do that. I don't think you do anything in particular except let her kind of take the lead on that. Why do you need a friend to advise you on that if she's the one teasing?

I'm not understanding that or why in your profile you are looking for a woman to please and become a toy for....didn't you say here in this thread that you have your wife for that already?



davecuckinCT -> RE: hi from connecticut (12/30/2011 2:00:46 PM)

hi ..well thanks for your response. i guess im a confusing guy..im nervous to ask my wife to cuckold me..maybe because she may think less of me..or because i may loose her. i love her and she loves me ..just nervous about that i guess ..thanks

dave



lizi -> RE: hi from connecticut (12/30/2011 2:27:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: davecuckinCT

hi ..well thanks for your response. i guess im a confusing guy..im nervous to ask my wife to cuckold me..maybe because she may think less of me..or because i may loose her. i love her and she loves me ..just nervous about that i guess ..thanks

dave


Well, it's understandable to be nervous. Isn't it going to be easier though to screw up your courage and talk with her rather than have her find out you're cheating? I mean I could be wrong about you doing this behind her back, but if you are having a hard time discussing your desires with her I dont think you're going to be upfront about the fact that you want another woman to play with in a sexual manner.

You said you wanted advice on how to become a toy for your wife, really there is only one place to start...your wife has to know of your desires. There isn't any easy way around it and I sincerely doubt that some strange woman is going to want to play sexual games with a man whose wife does not know about what is going on. So that is my advice to you, sit down and tell your wife how dearly you love her, and begin to tell her where you are with this whole subject. Most women would want to know how their loved one feels and to have a shot at making him happy.



ashjor911 -> RE: hi from connecticut (12/30/2011 3:43:02 PM)

Welcome



Fornica -> RE: hi from connecticut (12/30/2011 3:45:20 PM)

Is this for YOU or your wife? You say you can't please her...does she agree?



davecuckinCT -> RE: hi from connecticut (12/30/2011 4:04:19 PM)

well..i do feel inadequate down below...im small and squirt so fast...but i want her to be satisfied...to feel like a woman...im sure she wants this..to feel young ..vibrant and desirable by men..





davecuckinCT -> RE: hi from connecticut (12/30/2011 4:06:14 PM)

i know..honesty..means i must be vulnerable.....im so weak.....



LadyHibiscus -> RE: hi from connecticut (12/30/2011 4:15:26 PM)

You really need to be talking with your wife.



angelikaJ -> RE: hi from connecticut (12/30/2011 4:27:35 PM)

Do you really think that the only way to please a woman is with your cock?

Do you not have a body that has hands, fingers, a mouth with lips and a tongue?

Or is this about the fact that you have a desire to be cucked and humiliated?

As for you issues with intercourse w/your wife, if you go to the doctor he might put you on an SSRI which will likely inhibit your ability for orgasm... and you can try to be less sensitive by wearing 2 condoms to dull sensation.

And you can get information on training your self to deal with premature ejaculation.
If you can masturbate without cumming right away you can learn to slow things down.

There is also the option of wearing a strap-on if she wants it.

So again, is this about pleasing her, or pleasing yourself?



davecuckinCT -> RE: hi from connecticut (12/30/2011 5:08:15 PM)

i think i want to be cucked as well as allow her pleasure..i like the idea im her toy



Fornica -> RE: hi from connecticut (12/30/2011 6:22:35 PM)

I think you need to be honest with yourself and her. It sounds like you're looking for reasons to indulge your cuck fetish.
Just be real.



Delilya -> RE: hi from connecticut (12/30/2011 7:07:32 PM)

good luck



LadyHibiscus -> RE: hi from connecticut (12/30/2011 7:19:27 PM)

Did I mention the part about talking to your wife? Because if she were interested in playing with you sexually, doesn't she just have to reach over for you? VERY FEW women are into cucking, that's a male oriented fantasy.

See a urologist, too.



xxblushesxx -> RE: hi from connecticut (12/30/2011 7:23:33 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Fornica

I think you need to be honest with yourself and her. It sounds like you're looking for reasons to indulge your cuck fetish.
Just be real.


Yep. Call a phonesex girl (someone who knows the fetish) and have fun. The people here are a bit too sophisticated to indulge you for free.



angelikaJ -> RE: hi from connecticut (12/30/2011 7:26:07 PM)

Deal with your other issues first and then be honest about your cuck fantasy; they are 2 separate issues and it is dishonest to try and combine them to somehow justify.



stellauk -> RE: hi from connecticut (12/31/2011 12:02:09 AM)

I think you're either having us on or looking for a wee hairy.

But anyway, whatever, welcome to Collarme.



OohAahMrs -> RE: hi from connecticut (12/31/2011 6:12:57 AM)

Hey dave, welcome. You're one confusing guy.



Casteele -> RE: hi from connecticut (12/31/2011 8:03:33 PM)

Greetings and welcome to CM, dave.

I'm a bit confused by your posts.. and the replies as well.. Just what do you define as "cucking"/"cuckold", dave? Most definitions I'm familiar with are more or less married couples who get off with the husband watching the wife have sexual encounters with other men. This is kind of contradictory to your asking advice on how to become a more pleasing toy for your wife (unless that's how _she_ wants to be pleased, in which case, like others said, you best ask her rather than us..).



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