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sessions for money? - 12/30/2011 3:00:15 PM

firedancer9191

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I had someone write asking if they can pay for a spanking session. Their profile is similar to mine (no pic and little to no info). Is that a normal thing on here? How have ya'll responded?

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RE: sessions for money? - 12/30/2011 3:11:06 PM

lizi

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It's not that common in my experience, but it happens that men will offer to pay to pay something kinky. I respond by saying no fucking way, or by ignoring the offer as I'm not interested in the least.

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RE: sessions for money? - 12/30/2011 3:13:55 PM

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While I have pro-subbed and assisted pro-Dommes, I did this out of a dungeon and reject that sort of solicitation from random emails by simply deleting the message.

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RE: sessions for money? - 12/30/2011 4:19:19 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

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I've had a couple guys write to me and offer to pay me for spanking them, but I said no, that I'm not a ProDomme and don't charge. I added that I don't play with strangers either.

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RE: sessions for money? - 12/31/2011 8:06:31 AM

firedancer9191

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Thank you for your quick responses. I politely declined. I am not in need of money and I dont think I am comfortable setting up something like that with a stranger. Thank you so much!

-elle

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RE: sessions for money? - 12/31/2011 9:25:24 AM

kalikshama

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No need to be polite. His out-of-the-blue request was rude.

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RE: sessions for money? - 1/1/2012 1:41:21 AM

firedancer9191

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My mother used to say that someone elses lack of manners is not excuse for mine so I tend to error on the side of politeness when possible. If need be I can be quite a bit more firm.

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RE: sessions for money? - 1/1/2012 5:07:05 AM

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Welcome Elle.

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RE: sessions for money? - 1/1/2012 7:30:20 AM

kalikshama

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Just as there is no need to respond to every piece of junk mail in your physical mailbox, there is no need to respond to every unwanted solicitation in your CM inbox.

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RE: sessions for money? - 1/1/2012 8:29:56 AM

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I give em a PO box, tell them to send cash, I dont take credit cards.

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