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RE: Had Any Luck - 12/31/2011 5:40:57 PM

BurntKitty

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Met my honey on a different site. Still very new, but we're happy and working on how/when to get me to Chicago. (Personal obligations here for a bit yet...)

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RE: Had Any Luck - 12/31/2011 6:26:26 PM

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I haven't. But a friend of mine has had nothing but good luck. She keeps raving about how much she loves her Daddy and her 3 subs.

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RE: Had Any Luck - 12/31/2011 8:33:32 PM

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I've been on CM for years and made a number of acquaintances, a couple temporary playmates, and my wife. So, I've had great luck overall, but it took patience. Don't expect to find what you seek quickly unless you have low standards. You can take that as a dig at the riffraff swarming the site or just an acknowledgement that the right match for each of us is someone relatively unique.

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RE: Had Any Luck - 12/31/2011 8:54:24 PM

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I'm too new to CM to have any stories yet of people I've met from this site. However, I've been doing online chats since the days of the 2400 baud modem and dial-up BBS's and have found that most sites are a lot like any other community (in the geographical sense as well as the online forums sense); I've met a lot of great people, and just as many not-so-great ones. On the other hand, I have _never_ met anyone that turned out to be worthwhile when I've actively tried _looking_. All of my long lasting and solid friendships and relationships began with conversations where the focus of the talk was the common interest, rather than any direct interest in each other. Almost ironically, some of my better relationships even began with personality and/or opinion clashes that lead to passionate and hot-headed debates.

So I would say that hoping to get lucky and find someone on here (or anywhere, really) is more likely to just end in disappointment and frustration.. Which is not to say that you won't get "lucky," but that when you're _looking/hoping_ for it, you're really just trying to _make_ luck happen, which isn't how it works, right?

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RE: Had Any Luck - 12/31/2011 9:21:23 PM

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Daddyneeds,
Would you take a moment to imagine substituting 'ideal woman' for 'perfect woman' in your profile narrative and see how that feels to you?

There is no such thing as perfect in this world. 'Ideal' on the other hand is much more attainable. Give the universe some realistic information to work with. Good luck in your search.

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RE: Had Any Luck - 1/1/2012 7:58:54 AM

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I met lots of fun play partners here but met the man with whom I am now living on OKCupid. I'd put kinky keywords in my OKC profile.

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RE: Had Any Luck - 1/1/2012 7:59:46 AM

DesFIP

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I met him on a different kink site almost 9 years ago. I had just joined, he had been there for months on end.

I did first all the work necessary to determine what I had to have in a partner and what I couldn't accept. It made it easier to find someone with whom I have a high level of compatibility by deciding first what I needed.

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