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abecedarian -> Need direction/advice... (1/2/2012 9:57:19 PM)

Hello -

my Mistress advised me that She has a desire to cuckold me while She uses a submissive female for Her pleasure. She wishes for me to arrange such a scenario at some point within the next 6 months or so. Basically, Her desire is for me to obtain a young (age 25-35) blonde submissive female with large breasts for Her to use as She sees fit. i am told that i am to watch only. i have no idea how to go about arranging this or even where to start looking as i am not involved in any local D/s groups. i am sure that my Mistress does not want a hooker. Can anyone please give me some direction on how to proceed with this quest? Thanks!

~ abecedarian




Lockit -> RE: Need direction/advice... (1/2/2012 11:06:57 PM)

Show her this thread...

Get off your ass and find your own ass.

There... you didn't have to say it, I said it for you.




FrostedFlake -> RE: Need direction/advice... (1/3/2012 1:25:00 AM)

Have you considered the idea that the pressure you feel is her shoving you towards the door?

Let's consider how this would work if it was going to.

"Hey, Babe. You sure do look nice. (And dumb)"

"Why, thank you, horny prevert man!" (sorry, can't do the high pitched voice that well)

"Say, cutie, I have an idea. Why don't you come with me to meet my girlfriend. I'm sure she would LOVE to slap you around and take a strapon to you. And I'll WATCH!"

"Why, thank you, horny prevert man!" (again, sorry, can't do the high pitched voice that well)

Having trouble visualizing this working? Well, my take is, unless your girlfriend is pretty dim, she has already been through this loop. Your big question should be why do you think she sent you on a snipe hunt? My thought is, you would do a lot better for everyone if you spend this time looking for a young (age 25-35) blonde DOMINANT female with large breasts. ( age, hair color and cup size are not the most important characteristics)

The good news is, it is much easier to do this than to conduct a successful snipe hunt. And should you come back empty handed, you haven't lost anything you hadn't already lost before you posted this thread.

Bets witches. Get a new date.




abecedarian -> RE: Need direction/advice... (1/3/2012 4:34:17 AM)

Frosted Flake.. thanks for your post... but that is not the case. my Mistress has a fantasy that She wants fulfilled and has asked me to research how to make it happen. W/we are both very private in O/our relationship... W/we do not mingle with other llifestylers. (i.e.: very vanilla in public, but solid D/s lifestyle behind closed doors). i thought that by asking this community via this board, i would be able to gain some assistance/ideas/advice. My Mistress already approved me to ask the question here. Oh, and just to be clear, this is my Mistresses desire... not mine. my only desire is to please Her & make Her happy... like any good sub should want to do.

A/anyone out there in CM that can offer some direction - without being so condesending - would be a welcome surprise.

Thanks again.




xxblushesxx -> RE: Need direction/advice... (1/3/2012 4:52:10 AM)

SHE needs to find her own submissive to "do with as she sees fit". Why would any lady care about what you say your mistress wants? I'd suggest SHE start hitting the munches and play parties pronto, if this is to happen within a few month's time.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Need direction/advice... (1/3/2012 5:00:40 AM)

if I want to have some hot femme action, I get my own date. That's how that works. I don't send some guy out to find my strange.

Call an escort service. Use her credit card. Easy peasy.





thishereboi -> RE: Need direction/advice... (1/3/2012 5:07:44 AM)

quote:

Can anyone please give me some direction on how to proceed with this quest?


Well according to your profile you are seeking someone, so I would say you are already handling it. And I have to say I don't blame you. If my mistress sent me on this kind of wild goose chase, I would look for someone new also.




thishereboi -> RE: Need direction/advice... (1/3/2012 5:09:07 AM)

quote:

my only desire is to please Her & make Her happy


And having you on cm looking for a domme is going to make her happy?

Color me confused.




kalikshama -> RE: Need direction/advice... (1/3/2012 5:46:59 AM)

quote:

A/anyone out there in CM that can offer some direction - without being so condesending - would be a welcome surprise.


I think you are detecting skepticism, not condescension. "Mistress wants me to..." is a common ploy.

According to our zip codes, you are in or near New York City. Shame on you for not being part of the local community.




poise -> RE: Need direction/advice... (1/3/2012 6:09:56 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: abecedarian

Her desire is for me to obtain a young (age 25-35) blonde submissive female with large breasts for Her to use as She sees fit. i am told that i am to watch only. i have no idea how to go about arranging this or even where to start looking as i am not involved in any local D/s groups. i am sure that my Mistress does not want a hooker. Can anyone please give me some direction on how to proceed with this quest? Thanks!

~ abecedarian

FrostedFlakes was right in describing how this scenario won't work.
The fact that you are coming here for advice on where to start looking leads me to believe that
you wouldn't have the courage to approach a female stranger with this proposition, no matter how
enticing the scenario may seem to you.

I also can't imagine either gender agreeing to be subjected to the whims of some stranger. The fact
that she isn't out in the hunt herself and is relying on you leads me to wonder about her social skills,
and I get the impression that she hasn't been successful in her past searches. So not only would you
be coming across as some pervert who may be doing this just to get yourself off, but you are
also inviting us to feel pity for your Mistress in that she can't find a woman on her own.
And not just any woman, mind you. But a young blonde with large breasts! Woohooo!

I think you should just submit to whatever punishment she deems fit for not finding her a playmate.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Need direction/advice... (1/3/2012 6:49:51 AM)

ESCORT, it's in the phone book.  Honestly, just get out your Amex.  If this is for real, imagine her surprise when you turn up with...someone. 




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Need direction/advice... (1/3/2012 11:04:01 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

if I want to have some hot femme action, I get my own date. That's how that works. I don't send some guy out to find my strange.

Same here.




LaTigresse -> RE: Need direction/advice... (1/3/2012 11:08:13 AM)

Ahhhhhh yup.......I've seen the tail most of the guys I know sniff after. I am by far, more picky.




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Need direction/advice... (1/3/2012 11:28:10 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Ahhhhhh yup.......I've seen the tail most of the guys I know sniff after. I am by far, more picky.

Yesssssssssssssssss!!!!!




LookieNoNookie -> RE: Need direction/advice... (1/3/2012 6:25:07 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: abecedarian

Hello -

my Mistress advised me that She has a desire to cuckold me while She uses a submissive female for Her pleasure. She wishes for me to arrange such a scenario at some point within the next 6 months or so. Basically, Her desire is for me to obtain a young (age 25-35) blonde submissive female with large breasts for Her to use as She sees fit. i am told that i am to watch only. i have no idea how to go about arranging this or even where to start looking as i am not involved in any local D/s groups. i am sure that my Mistress does not want a hooker. Can anyone please give me some direction on how to proceed with this quest? Thanks!

~ abecedarian


That's a bi (chic) scenario....has nothing to do with cuckold.

Call me when you've read a dictionary.




Madame4a -> RE: Need direction/advice... (1/3/2012 6:31:27 PM)

find a new Mistress....




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