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Kittynoir -> Need collar advice (1/3/2012 2:58:27 AM)
I have yet to collar my sub for one very good reason: He would have to take it off for his work so if it's not something he can wear to any event or occassion I figure what's the point? Is there a subtle approach? Does anybody know of any plan bands that can pass off as simple male jewlery out there? I'm thinking of something like a torc http://www.britishmuseum.org/images/ps261195_m.jpg that way he can also keep his heritage and identity as a good excuse should anybody who need not know inquire about it. Anybody know of a good retailer that can help ?

seababy -> RE: Need collar advice (1/3/2012 3:22:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kittynoir I have yet to collar my sub for one very good reason: He would have to take it off for his work so if it's not something he can wear to any event or occassion I figure what's the point? Is there a subtle approach? Does anybody know of any plan bands that can pass off as simple male jewlery out there? I'm thinking of something like a torc http://www.britishmuseum.org/images/ps261195_m.jpg that way he can also keep his heritage and identity as a good excuse should anybody who need not know inquire about it. Anybody know of a good retailer that can help ? http://www.urweg.com/list/torcs.html Öland Neckring 10th Century Individually Hand-forged Torc Diameter is approx. 9/32" Sterling Silver ... $695 Specify Neck Size [image]local://upfiles/627961/B5867B46570342C5ADA8F0360BE29244.jpg[/image]

seababy -> RE: Need collar advice (1/3/2012 3:23:56 AM)
same site Cush Torc Cush County, Limerick, Ireland Insular Norse 9th - 10th Century Individually Hand-forged Torc Diameter is approx. 5/16" Solid Sterling Silver Twist with Bronze Terminals ... $745 Specify Neck Size [image]local://upfiles/627961/B0519620FDEE4C25A512033F596C0EBC.jpg[/image]

seababy -> RE: Need collar advice (1/3/2012 3:25:02 AM)
same site again Chieftain's Torc Bronze & Silver Twist Sterling Silver Terminals Terminal is 1 1/2" long, 1" tall Torc Diameter is approx. 1/2" Chieftain's Torc up to 18"... $255 Specify Neck Size [image]local://upfiles/627961/6DDF61A4EC4942679A1586319C6A2B8E.jpg[/image]

MissImmortalPain -> RE: Need collar advice (1/3/2012 3:25:48 AM)
I don't know of someone that sells what you are looking for but if I could suggest a few other things. Have you thought about a tattoo? A belt? A male I.D bracelet? I know a few people that use that last one because if someone asks they just say they have an allergy. If someone asks to what they just pick something that is common. No one knows if they are telling the truth or not without flipping it over and reading it.

seababy -> RE: Need collar advice (1/3/2012 3:27:31 AM)
stuffed this post up

seababy -> RE: Need collar advice (1/3/2012 3:28:44 AM)
Urnes Torc Sterling Silver Viking Beast Finals with Bronze & Silver Twist (Same as Chieftain above) Viking Beast Head is 2 1/4" long Torc Diameter is approx. 1/2" Urnes Torc up to 18"... $325 Specify Neck Size [image]local://upfiles/627961/0950FBA7154A4E23BAC4F82065046C8E.jpg[/image]

seababy -> RE: Need collar advice (1/3/2012 3:38:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain I don't know of someone that sells what you are looking for but if I could suggest a few other things. Have you thought about a tattoo? A belt? A male I.D bracelet? I know a few people that use that last one because if someone asks they just say they have an allergy. If someone asks to what they just pick something that is common. No one knows if they are telling the truth or not without flipping it over and reading it. Thats a great idea. Same site as what I have already posted has some bracelets/ cuffs made to traditional british/danish/viking designs

MissImmortalPain -> RE: Need collar advice (1/3/2012 3:52:42 AM)
hahaha yeah it's a simple thought but the simple ones are the ones you don't have to explain to outsiders later. When the livein first came to me I brought him a nice silver mans bracelet with his name on the outside and my name on the inside. It worked and no one asked why he wore it.

Kittynoir -> RE: Need collar advice (1/3/2012 3:53:19 AM)
Those are a bit pricey (but then silver would be... I was thinking more steel or titanium as a metal) Seababy but very nice thanks for sharing, maybe I can combine the two ideas from Missimortalpain and yourself to come up with something. :)

MissImmortalPain -> RE: Need collar advice (1/3/2012 3:58:24 AM)
http://www.etsy.com/listing/20932424/celtic-torc-woven-stainless-steel

seababy -> RE: Need collar advice (1/3/2012 4:06:45 AM)
The bracelets are alot cheaper from $50 up to $500 with alot around the $100 - $150 mark. and on etsy (I love that site.) I did a search for mens bracelets. There is some really nice stuff. Its sorted in price order starting with the most expensive. http://www.etsy.com/search_results.php?search_query=mens&search_submit=&search_type=category&category=jewelry.bracelet&page=2&order=price_desc

leonine -> RE: Need collar advice (1/3/2012 5:12:51 AM)
Wearing my leather hat, I make stainless steel collars you can just clip on and off, stamped to order. www.silverandsteel.co.uk, click on "jewellery". Wearing my other hat (the helmet with horns on) I make Viking and Celtic jewellery, try these: http://runesmith.co.uk/runehand/beastHeadTorc.htm http://runesmith.co.uk/runehand/wolfHeadTorc.htm http://runesmith.co.uk/runehand/flat.htm The last one is decorated to order, so could incorporate a slave name or other message in English, Runes or Elvish. Hope this helps, LeoNine quote: ORIGINAL: Kittynoir I have yet to collar my sub for one very good reason: He would have to take it off for his work so if it's not something he can wear to any event or occassion I figure what's the point? Is there a subtle approach? Does anybody know of any plan bands that can pass off as simple male jewlery out there? I'm thinking of something like a torc http://www.britishmuseum.org/images/ps261195_m.jpg that way he can also keep his heritage and identity as a good excuse should anybody who need not know inquire about it. Anybody know of a good retailer that can help ?

NCtriadsub -> RE: Need collar advice (1/16/2012 5:29:52 PM)
Over the years I have found a few collars that could be worn without much attention in public. Extreme restraints has a chain that costs about 22$. Personally I would go to ebay and look there. There are hundreds of vendors that sell jewelry for the discriminating minds and quite frankly your selection will be much broader. In looking for bondage jewelry, try looking under Celtic Rings and Necklaces. Most have a pagan style to them and dont attract much attention but will definately be recognized by those in the D/s lifestyle.

Soyokaze -> RE: Need collar advice (1/16/2012 6:13:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: seababy http://www.urweg.com/list/torcs.html Öland Neckring 10th Century Individually Hand-forged Torc Diameter is approx. 9/32" Sterling Silver ... $695 Specify Neck Size [image]local://upfiles/627961/B5867B46570342C5ADA8F0360BE29244.jpg[/image] Those all look really nice. I think I like this one best since it forms a complete circle and I dig the spiral look: [image]http://www.urweg.com/list/torcs/gotland%20neckring%20t.jpg[/image]

Whenready -> RE: Need collar advice (1/26/2012 8:15:55 AM)
The British Museum shop sells cufflinks - one depicting "the journey" in an arabic script. Would these (or other) cufflinks be suitable for work? I had a previous sub who wore an ankle bracelet at work - couldn't be seen under her trousers - would this work for him too? Amazon sell a range of celtic and triskele belt buckles.

peppermint -> RE: Need collar advice (1/26/2012 1:04:41 PM)
Even Walmart has some nice looking heavy silver chains. My collar was bought a Sears. I've seen similar ones at Sam's Club. Just look around until you find something appropriate and within budget.

experiment2 -> RE: Need collar advice (1/27/2012 11:55:02 AM)
i could not wear a collar as well. my mistress had me wear an ankle bracelet also. For a period she also had me wear a light metal chain around my genitals.

NinaAura -> RE: Need collar advice (2/4/2012 2:18:51 PM)
My master had the same problem. Couldn't use a real collar because of the vanilla world, so he bought me a necklace that I never take off. Simple thing, just a piece of glass jewelry on a cord with a dragonfly on it. It would be your own little symbol or something that he never takes off. That's the best idea I've got. :)

graceadieu -> RE: Need collar advice (2/4/2012 11:32:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain hahaha yeah it's a simple thought but the simple ones are the ones you don't have to explain to outsiders later. When the livein first came to me I brought him a nice silver mans bracelet with his name on the outside and my name on the inside. It worked and no one asked why he wore it. This is a great idea. Plenty of guys wear those sorts of bracelets (I know my dad did for example), so nobody but the couple will know what it really means. quote: ORIGINAL: NinaAura My master had the same problem. Couldn't use a real collar because of the vanilla world, so he bought me a necklace that I never take off. Simple thing, just a piece of glass jewelry on a cord with a dragonfly on it. It would be your own little symbol or something that he never takes off. That's the best idea I've got. :) We tried this with two necklaces, for the same reason, but I kept somehow pulling the clasp apart in my sleep, and there's only so many times you can fix a clasp with pliers before the wire is just a wreck. [:(]

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