lizi
Posts: 4673
Joined: 2/1/2009
Status: offline
|
quote:
ORIGINAL: CeePee
What a harsh welcome the guy is getting! I clicked on this discussion because I'm new here and I received an email notice that the discussion board had new activity. I idly clicked on this thread because I'm an intelligent whore. I read the guy's intro and the observation I had intended to make was that it helps to indicate **where you live** if you really want to meet somebody in person but now I'm just feeling sorry for the guy.
I mean, really. If you worked at, say, a fish 'n' chip stand, you're going to hear no end of requests for the two-piece with chips, n'est pa? Is it SO odd that he wants what a lot of guys want? He skews crude, yeah. A lot of us turn on to that. Or is the done thing that even here we pretend we don't?
So he raced in with a statement about his particular bottom line where angels would've feared to tread and, instead, have talked about their interests in bowling, origami, and flute playing. Jeez.
Why hold the guys hand? He's been here before and tried the same game, we're supposed to pat his head and let him blunder about doing the SOS that didn't get him anywhere the last time? Just because this is a kink site it doesn't mean that it exists outside of the rest of society, it doesn't mean that anything goes and the usual niceties are thrown out. People here are still people. By your reasoning I guess that disabled people should be continually addressed by their disabilities then and not as people first? Because that's the obvious, right, and it's just people being honest - just like being in a chip shop and ordering chips. "Hey Dude, what's up with the wheelchair and the wonky facial expressions?"
But that isn't what you're talking about. That would be....wrong. To treat a clearly disabled person as being less than another, or worthy of being singled out because they are different. Why is it ok then for someone kinky to address and single out other kinky humans by treating them like menu items to be ordered up, and without offering them any social pleasantries at all? You honestly can't see that it's demeaning to be addressed as less than a human being with feelings and thoughts because some random guy wants to get his dick wet? Why even learn to say please and thank you if it's ok to do anything at all whenever we feel there are overriding circumstances?
There is nothing wrong with letting people know when they are out of line and in fact that is the best thing that can happen. Look, he didnt' learn from the last time and is still alone, why give him false hope that his blundering about with his dick out is actually going to work? What an incredibly silly concept...oh lets just accept whatever people do as long as it vaguely relates to the subject at hand. While that's nice, it never gives them the chance to learn does it?
Anyone who comes in with the idea that certain human beings can be treated as less simply by virtue of their sex or orientation is fully deserving of whatever negative reactions they incur in doing so.
|
seeking my intelligent whore - 
Profile
New Messages
No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages
Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages
Locked w/o New Messages
Post New Thread