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RE: dom vs dom - 1/7/2012 3:56:26 PM

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Two Doms compete for a sub? Is any girl worth that?

But of course! (there are many here!!!)

That's right, Blush. I'm with you, and consider myself one of them thar very worthy gals! Now all I've got to do is convince some wonderful, manly, sexy, sensual Dom of this. Oh dear, it would seem my work is cut out for me, isn't it?!

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RE: dom vs dom - 1/7/2012 4:38:28 PM

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I would think the men should be convincing you that they are worthy, my darling, loving, wonderful Pearls.

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RE: dom vs dom - 1/7/2012 4:50:00 PM

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it's entirely possible for two dominantt people to ha ve an equal relatio nship. If you need to play, the simplest thing is to make a deal...for myself, I *need* a pain slut to feel happy, but that person doesn't need to be the person I go home with.

Talk to him. Giving up a big part of yourself is a tremendus sacrifice. If it turns out to not be worth it, giving up sadism could just be fuel for resentment.

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RE: dom vs dom - 1/7/2012 6:26:05 PM

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Hahaha okay maybe i have to put this thing in clear english...

Im a person that must be challanged in life and do things my way... i mean let others doing it my way... prefering dominant men... :)
If you do what i want and im happy, you can live in my world and ill take care of you under my rules...

He is pretty the same... only im more agressive and sadistic.. but he is stronger (i found out the hard way lol)... so thats why a battle i cant win...
Crazy but not stupid people... We fight both for the leaderposition in the relationship but we are loyal and respect eachother so no problems

We understand eachother or feel eachother very well without or barely communication (like the unwritten rules) no problems here

i only need time to time to set my sadistic feelings free...

okay yeah guys thank you for the information
I have my answer

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RE: dom vs dom - 1/7/2012 6:27:18 PM

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I would think the men should be convincing you that they are worthy, my darling, loving, wonderful Pearls.

Good grief girl, are you AND Frosty in cahoots in spreading such heinous rumors about me?

OMG, CM, they're ganging up on me now. It must be a conspiracy. I'd better run for the hills. What should I take first? My bugout bag, 30-06, .357? Oh Mabel, I'm so confused!

Now, Blush, just what am I gonna do with you? You're making me blush, and not for nuttin', but that's no mean feat!

Thank you darlin', you're a keeper, for sure.

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RE: dom vs dom - 1/7/2012 8:18:42 PM

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it's entirely possible for two dominant people to have an equal relationship.

What she said, I mean that's kind of the template for the modern relationship.

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If you need to play, the simplest thing is to make a deal...for myself, I *need* a pain slut to feel happy, but that person doesn't need to be the person I go home with.

Certainly if you can scene a little on the side that might be all it takes to make you happy. But if you can't, then the question is how important is kinky sex to you? That's a question that only you can answer.

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RE: dom vs dom - 1/7/2012 9:09:25 PM

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NoyaQB,

So what you are saying is you are both Dominant but he won't do certain things or doesn't want to allow you to do certain things? And you are both fighting for the leadership position in the relationship? Could bringing in a third be a possibility so you could satisfy your Topping needs, or is he totally monogamous?

I'm in a Dom/Domme relationship with someone I love very much. It's possible to have a D/D relationship, and it seems to be working for us now that we've got most of the, er, hehe, kinks worked out. lol

Although sometimes I have to remind him to not get pushy. He will try to Dom me sometimes and issue ultimatums and I tell him "NO" and then he will back down because, see, when we first were together, I was submissive, then went to switch and now I'm Dominant. The way we solved the issue is, we are poly and both looking for our own submissives. We're also considering just finding one submissive for both of us & it wouldn't matter male or female cause we're both bi.

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RE: dom vs dom - 1/8/2012 9:48:59 AM

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you could always just do what a lot of switch couples and just do a struggle scene. It's problematic if there's a big strength differential

Just wanted to throw out there that there are a lot of advantages to being smaller, more flexible, and faster.

My little wrists can slide right out of a lot of things.

While my partner has better upper body strength, my legs are stronger, and there's ways to throw your weight.

I love to fight, but I'm a sadomasochist, not a sadist.

If he's not either, fighting is not recommended.

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RE: dom vs dom - 1/8/2012 10:18:19 AM

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you could always just do what a lot of switch couples and just do a struggle scene. It's problematic if there's a big strength differential

Just wanted to throw out there that there are a lot of advantages to being smaller, more flexible, and faster.

My little wrists can slide right out of a lot of things.

While my partner has better upper body strength, my legs are stronger, and there's ways to throw your weight.

I love to fight, but I'm a sadomasochist, not a sadist.

If he's not either, fighting is not recommended.

All true. Like I say, the most blood I've ever left anywhere was in the bed of a "sub" who weighed about 95 pounds lol. Anyway, I don't know much about OPs partner, but I figure the suggestion can't hurt. A little pain now and then does anyone good, and it's pretty rare to see to see a dom who isn't a sadist. Not unheard of, but rare-ish.

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