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BoWay -> Submissive Females----CBT ? (1/7/2012 11:24:05 AM)



I am very puzzled / confused as to why any submissive female would even include CBT in their likes dislikes section of their profile ???




Ninebelowzero -> RE: Submissive Females----CBT ? (1/7/2012 11:26:07 AM)

maybe she has a set.




peppermint -> RE: Submissive Females----CBT ? (1/7/2012 11:26:40 AM)

Here are two possibilities.

1. She has no idea what CBT means and just checked the box
2. She's is a sadist as well as a submissive




hangemhigh1953 -> RE: Submissive Females----CBT ? (1/7/2012 11:45:11 AM)

Because sub=/=bottom and Dom=/=top. What if she had a Dom who also had a CBT fetish. Is it not her job to please him by catering to that?




DarkSteven -> RE: Submissive Females----CBT ? (1/7/2012 11:59:53 AM)

My guess is that she meant pussy torture, but cm has no designation for that so she chose CBT.




fragilepieces -> RE: Submissive Females----CBT ? (1/7/2012 12:06:59 PM)

maybe she thought it meant cunt, bum and tits.




OsideGirl -> RE: Submissive Females----CBT ? (1/7/2012 12:14:07 PM)

I believe I probably have that checked as a dislike. I'm geared more towards women than men and have no urge to engage in CBT. CBT happens to men and I have no interest in topping a male, so yes, it's a dislike for me.

Just because someone will bring it up.....Master has no interest in having CBT done to him and if he requested it at this point in our relationship, we'd be having a pretty serious talk.




Wheldrake -> RE: Submissive Females----CBT ? (1/7/2012 12:24:25 PM)

Clit and boob torture? [;)]




fragilepieces -> RE: Submissive Females----CBT ? (1/7/2012 12:32:28 PM)

I have 'prostate massage (wearing)' listed on my FL account. It was an option it was funny so I did it.




littlewonder -> RE: Submissive Females----CBT ? (1/7/2012 2:03:01 PM)

When I was single I had it checked as a dislike because I have numerous Doms who would approach me wanting me to torture their cock and balls. 




Kittynoir -> RE: Submissive Females----CBT ? (1/7/2012 2:37:55 PM)

Doesn't CBT stand for Cognitive Behavioral Therapy?




angelikaJ -> RE: Submissive Females----CBT ? (1/7/2012 5:16:48 PM)

You would be surprised how many "switch men" write to submissive women with a laundry list of what they want done to them in a topping them sort of way.




RaspberryLemon -> RE: Submissive Females----CBT ? (1/7/2012 6:39:08 PM)

On my profile I went through and put down something for just about everything I had an opinion on. CBT is certainly something I have a very strong opinion about--the idea of it is repulsive and frightening to me. My Master obviously has no interest in it, but if on the 'when-pigs-fly' chance he ever asked me to do it I don't think I could bring myself to do so. I just abhor the thought of ever hurting him in any way.




RexDarcy -> RE: Submissive Females----CBT ? (1/7/2012 6:40:15 PM)

Kittynoir, it can mean that but in most cases I have seen people use CBT in BDSM context, it means Cock and Ball Torture.




SAMHAIN09 -> RE: Submissive Females----CBT ? (1/7/2012 8:57:20 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Wheldrake

Clit and boob torture? [;)]

Bravo my friend!




SAMHAIN09 -> RE: Submissive Females----CBT ? (1/7/2012 9:00:30 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: hangemhigh1953

Because sub=/=bottom and Dom=/=top. What if she had a Dom who also had a CBT fetish. Is it not her job to please him by catering to that?

Never knew a Dom that was even prone to masochistic fantasies.




seababy -> RE: Submissive Females----CBT ? (1/7/2012 9:10:33 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kittynoir

Doesn't CBT stand for Cognitive Behavioral Therapy?


Yeah it does. When CBT was first bought up in my psychology class I was WTF? Glad I figured out what they were actually talking about so I didnt end up handing up an assignment on cock and ball torture. That would have been ambarassing.




myotherself -> RE: Submissive Females----CBT ? (1/8/2012 12:18:54 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SAMHAIN09


Never knew a Dom that was even prone to masochistic fantasies.


I know a couple, and was contacted by a couple when I was looking.

Being a masochist does not automatically make you submissive.




GreedyTop -> RE: Submissive Females----CBT ? (1/8/2012 1:01:01 AM)

what the ever so adorable Bunny said

*nibbles da Bunnys neck*




RexCorvus -> RE: Submissive Females----CBT ? (1/8/2012 11:50:51 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kittynoir
Doesn't CBT stand for Cognitive Behavioral Therapy?

Yes it does, and my wife has been brought up short by the acronym in studying for nursing school several times.




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