lizi
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Joined: 2/1/2009 Status: offline
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Slight variation of the SOS - where are all the lifestyle Dommes? If CM (or in this case Egypt) would just get rid of the Dommes who want money to play, then lifestyle Dommes would come rushing in! Sigh. OP, there don't seem to be all that many Dommes out there who do BDSM for the love of the play. There are some, you have to find them and work at getting them interested in you. Women are out there abusing the BDSM connection to get money from men because there are so few who do it for free, and because men let them do it. You can't really change how many women out there do it solely for pleasure, that's an immovable part of the equation. If you are upset at the women taking money to play, then get pissed at the men who are giving it to them. If there weren't any men doing that the supply of women asking for money would dry up and disappear. It;s like asking why can't I find a purple polka dotted cars to buy? Damn it, it must be because all of these red, black, blue, and gray cars are here in this car lot instead...get rid of them immediately!! Now there should be a purple polka dotted car for me! No...now there are no cars at all. Why can't the guys ever see this? They truly think that there are women who do it for free lurking somewhere, but the women getting money are somehow obscuring them by wearing camouflage. OP, go find a woman who seems to like you, put some time and effort into a relationship with her, explain to her how you love to be Dominated in the bedroom, see if she's open to trying it. It seems to be your best solution.
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