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RE: BDSM Matrimony - 1/11/2012 8:31:32 AM

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There are plenty of leather weddings if that is what you mean. I gave a ball & chain as a gift at one wedding.

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RE: BDSM Matrimony - 1/11/2012 8:42:07 AM

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well but then where is the love?

Same place as when there isn't any money. But lack of money adds huge stresses to any relationship. And eventually, no matter how much love there is, enough stress will break a person and/or a relationship.

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RE: BDSM Matrimony - 1/11/2012 8:53:47 AM

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Even better would be if government got of marriage completely -- simplify taxes, insure whoever you want, set your will/next-of-kin to whoever you want, etc .

Then getting married wold be a completely religious/social thing.

But, if you are going to get married -

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RE: BDSM Matrimony - 1/11/2012 9:30:01 AM

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great thought and great piic

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RE: BDSM Matrimony - 1/13/2012 1:17:25 AM

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There is a ceremony called The Ceremony of the Roses it is very similar to matrimony in ways.
http://www.deepwithinthesoul.me.uk/ceremonyoftheroses.html

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RE: BDSM Matrimony - 1/14/2012 7:44:39 AM

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Master and I have been handfasted for a year and a half, which is all the "marriage" we need. But we do plan next summer to have a "real" wedding for our more conservative family who would be very happy if they had the chance to celebrate with us in a way that is familiar to them. However, I have been planning this ceremony for over a year and although it is still in early rough-draft stages, things like my kneeling and offering myself to Master as his wife are certain. It won't be a collaring ceremony and it won't be just a vanilla wedding but hopefully some graceful mix of the two. Since the people who have no clue about our M/s relationship just think we're a "little weird" the things like my kneeling will just be put down to some cute eccentricity. Lol. It's totally possible to have a BDSM marriage and I certainly hope it's possible to even have a BDSM/vanilla friendly wedding. Keep seeking, what you are looking for is out there.

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RE: BDSM Matrimony - 1/14/2012 11:40:10 AM

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I am married to my sub and it has been four years. I collared him eight years ago. Real life tended to get in the way and we have not been able to play for some time. The last few times he made excuses. Sadly, I intercepted a email from his ex- Mistress the other day. It seems he bought her an intimate gift. My heart is broken and I demanded an explanation and he said he did not want to talk about it. I find myself saying mean things just to get a reaction. I think the only measure of saving this marriage is to put him in chastity. The hurt is recent so I do not want to rush into leaving or anything but he will not say anything. I am not sure what he can really say anyway.

Thanks for any input,

Ms. G

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RE: BDSM Matrimony - 1/14/2012 11:41:39 AM

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So sorry about the font size!

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RE: BDSM Matrimony - 1/14/2012 9:05:47 PM

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