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Confused About No Sex/Loves Body Worship Domme Profiles - 1/9/2012 10:35:52 AM   
efrain83


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Greetings!

i am just curious whenever i see a Domme's profile, what is specifically meant when a Domme says "no sex" and yet lists "Body worship" as lives for, or loves.  Is She saying "no intercourse ever", but intimate oral worship of Her only is what is desired in the relationship?  Or is She saying no touching intimately at all with the sub/slave ever, but that she has someone else perform orally when She desires it, since She loves it, just not  with the sub/slave?  It seems confusing to me.  Can anyone let me know their perspective on this?

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RE: Confused About No Sex/Loves Body Worship Domme Prof... - 1/9/2012 11:00:48 AM   
hangemhigh1953


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I didn't know licking someone's foot or kissing their ass counted as sex.


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RE: Confused About No Sex/Loves Body Worship Domme Prof... - 1/9/2012 11:04:50 AM   
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I would guess that it differs person to person. Though I would have to say that being wanted and actualy having sex are not the same thing. I had a sub awhile back and used to get off picking petals off roses and dropping them on my chest. I never had sex with him, but the things that came out of his mouth while he did it were nice to hear. The best way to understand what someone means when you read something like this on their profile is to ask them.

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RE: Confused About No Sex/Loves Body Worship Domme Prof... - 1/9/2012 7:17:14 PM   
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when a Domme says "no sex" and yet lists "Body worship" as lives for, or loves. Is She saying "no intercourse ever", but intimate oral worship of Her only is what is desired in the relationship?


For me, yes, with some subs.

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RE: Confused About No Sex/Loves Body Worship Domme Prof... - 1/9/2012 7:27:33 PM   
MistrixMsE


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My take:
I allow skin to skin worship only below the knee.. above that, it is covered only... i.e. you may worship my bum, respectfully, whilst I have my latex or leather or denim pants or leggings on. I dont live for or love body worship, though i enjoy a worshipful sub/slave, and if they are truly *worshipful*, it shant matter if I'm exposed or covered. A personal alpha sub/slave in a monogamous relationship however, would be allowed the privilege.

Other dominants may see it differently... best person to ask when confused about such things however is the dominant owning the profile you are confused by.


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RE: Confused About No Sex/Loves Body Worship Domme Prof... - 1/9/2012 8:02:23 PM   
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It could possibly mean that she will be expecting tribute, and 'tribute for sex' = prostitution, so no sex.

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RE: Confused About No Sex/Loves Body Worship Domme Prof... - 1/10/2012 11:23:08 AM   
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I hadn't even considered oral before I read the replies here, my first thoughts were that she likes kissing and massages etc, but does not want any true sexual contact

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RE: Confused About No Sex/Loves Body Worship Domme Prof... - 1/10/2012 12:40:51 PM   
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"body worship" does not mean "oral sex", OP.

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RE: Confused About No Sex/Loves Body Worship Domme Prof... - 1/10/2012 1:09:50 PM   
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Awwww crap. another fantasy ruined. Thanks Rumpy.

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RE: Confused About No Sex/Loves Body Worship Domme Prof... - 1/10/2012 3:43:02 PM   
MSubEdinburgh29


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quote:

ORIGINAL: RumpusParable


"body worship" does not mean "oral sex", OP.
No I didn't think so either, I thought it was just me!


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ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero

Awwww crap. another fantasy ruined. Thanks Rumpy.



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RE: Confused About No Sex/Loves Body Worship Domme Prof... - 1/11/2012 1:51:09 AM   
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For me it depends on the depth of the relationship.
For someone I know well and who is much more than a one off, I may get him to massage my body with oils, I may get him to bath me and wash my body and I may send him to the end of the bed with a piece of string in his mouth, the other end attached to my clit ring. He gets to chew the string, I get the orgasms without him so much as touching me.

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RE: Confused About No Sex/Loves Body Worship Domme Prof... - 1/11/2012 2:02:04 AM   
MistressDarkArt


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MariaB
I may send him to the end of the bed with a piece of string in his mouth, the other end attached to my clit ring. He gets to chew the string, I get the orgasms without him so much as touching me.


Now that's a neat trick!

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RE: Confused About No Sex/Loves Body Worship Domme Prof... - 1/11/2012 7:59:42 AM   
Rochsub2009


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quote:

ORIGINAL: RumpusParable

"body worship" does not mean "oral sex", OP.



It doesn't?  Well darn!  I'm taking "body worship" off of my list of "likes". 

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