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RE: I'm so happy right now :) - 1/10/2012 6:25:05 PM

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It's not specific care, we just like it when people are happy. (Right, Hilly?)

Crumbs...... what's with the *we* and the checking out with HillWilliam?

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RE: I'm so happy right now :) - 1/10/2012 6:43:22 PM

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Ha! I was answering figuring I knew what he meant, and he would agree with me! And I didn't want him to think I was his mouthpiece all of a sudden! Our BWC can speak for himself!

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RE: I'm so happy right now :) - 1/10/2012 6:58:24 PM

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Ha! I was answering figuring I knew what he meant, and he would agree with me! And I didn't want him to think I was his mouthpiece all of a sudden! Our BWC can speak for himself!

Colour me cynical.... but dearie me. That post was chocco full of the USA type *red flags*.... Anyhow, I extend my 7 weeks to 7 months.

I hope SAMHAIN has found his dream....I'll check back in August.

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RE: I'm so happy right now :) - 1/10/2012 7:05:30 PM

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Yeah, it was...but what the hell, stranger things have happened!

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RE: I'm so happy right now :) - 1/10/2012 7:10:18 PM

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Good luck! I hope things go well for you.

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RE: I'm so happy right now :) - 1/10/2012 7:21:18 PM

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Cool, enjoy and stay happy!

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RE: I'm so happy right now :) - 1/10/2012 9:58:07 PM

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Required to tell her " I love her" ..Is it just me or that sounds a little, how should I say this......... strange?

No not really it's not so much as required as expected(your telling me you don't expect the one you love to express their feelings) Admitedly I was exaggerating besides she said that as reward she says she loves me and kisses me back (it's more of our own little game) All I know is that she makes me not feel alone and I make her feel like she's not alone.

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RE: I'm so happy right now :) - 1/10/2012 11:56:10 PM

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That's wonderful, Sam. Good luck and may the love continue.

What if it goes kaput in 7 days or 7 weeks or 7 months or 7 years? None of us has a crystal ball that actually works. Things can change overnight, and that goes for every single one of us including folks in long, long, long term partnerships. Be happy today. Worry about tomorrow, tomorrow.

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RE: I'm so happy right now :) - 1/11/2012 4:52:18 AM

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Okay my Mistress she contacted me and she it turns out she does feel something for me she actually has for a while she even said that before she met me her life was empty and dull and that all she had was her job.

I don't view this as her whole life sucking, but rather being very happy to have feelings for one of her submissives.

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Any way she's decided that I will be her official right hand man this means I get to help her run her Dominate clients, dominate clients when she can't, help her pick out new gear and clothing, cook for her and give her massages. That's not even the best part I am now required to kiss her on sight and tell her I love her as my new tribute. I even got my own collar(well it's a tie to go with my suit that I wear when I serve her but it's the symbolizm that really matters I think). She is truly the best.

This is how I would expect her to start. She's not only a domme, she's a pro domme. She's taken back the reigns, and has changed things up to allow their feelings to be involved, and to increase contact with him.

Pro dommes have a tough time, and they can be pretty eccentric chicks. I get why, people pay them for a service usually because it gets them off sexually.

So yeah, she probably does have some issues, and her emotions are probably pretty protected. However, this is a step in the right direction. The OP obviously cares for her, and she obviously cares for him.

She's also using the D/s dynamic as the means of adjusting and increasing contact.

The only thing to watch out for is that a lot of pro dommes, are not lifestyle dommes. She sounds like she wants to be a lifestyle domme, the question is whether or not she has support and community exposure to make that work. As a lot of the expectations on her and maintaining her dominance in a pro session, are fantastical and unsustainable.

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RE: I'm so happy right now :) - 1/11/2012 4:53:50 AM

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Required to tell her " I love her" ..Is it just me or that sounds a little, how should I say this......... strange?

Nope. Someone is loved up. Frankly, if someone's life is empty and dull, and all they had was their job.........I'd be less than keen to be their spark.

Needless to say *each to their own* but I'm a leeeeeetle bit more drawn to people who's lives aren't empty and dull.

I imagine a match made in heaven for about 7 weeks.

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I see your point but Im hoping for 100+ times that long.

You care that much?

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I just like to see people happy. Is that a bad thing?

ETA: (believe it or not, I typed that before I saw Hibbie's reply LOL)

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RE: I'm so happy right now :) - 1/11/2012 5:56:43 AM

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Required to tell her " I love her" ..Is it just me or that sounds a little, how should I say this......... strange?

Nope. Someone is loved up. Frankly, if someone's life is empty and dull, and all they had was their job.........I'd be less than keen to be their spark.

Needless to say *each to their own* but I'm a leeeeeetle bit more drawn to people who's lives aren't empty and dull.

I imagine a match made in heaven for about 7 weeks.

agirl

The key word here is "required" not "love". What I mean is that the requirement of saying "I love you" seems a little strange to me.

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RE: I'm so happy right now :) - 1/11/2012 3:08:25 PM

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I used to be required to say "thanks for taking my call."

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RE: I'm so happy right now :) - 1/11/2012 5:49:54 PM

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saying "thank you" though is not exactly the same as being required to say "I love you" imo. For me "thank you" is just showing manners. Saying "I love you" for me is something I want to feel and know comes from someone's heart and that they truly mean it, that they truly desire and want me with their entire being, not something they say because it's a custom or manner or etiquette or courtesy.

I tell people thank you all the time. It's just manners. I don't go around telling everyone I love them though because it's not true and it's not from my entire fibre and being. That's saved for two people in my life and that's it and I only say it when I mean it so that it actually means something when I do say it.

The idea of it being required to me personally would show some kind of insecurity that they need to hear it all the time whether the person wants to say it or not, whether it means something to the other person or not.

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