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RE: Most offensive message you have ever recieved on th... - 1/10/2012 8:41:18 AM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

I had a guy email me saying that if I belonged to him, he'd keep me pregnant all the time. I told him that he had the wrong person because I'm a cancer survivor and can't have kids. He replied, "Oh, then you're useless."


That is just totally fucked up as is the one Stella wrote about.

I've got to say that, while I am sure I've received emails that were intended to be offensive, I am the sort of person that just deletes and forgets. So few people online have the ability to get under my skin, or have a clue about me as a woman and human being, any shit they toss at me probably isn't going to stick.

It does make me rather sad to know that people I appreciate on here, get the crap they do and that it is hurtful to them.

I know this is going to sound sappy as all fucking hell but allow me one moment of non snark.....for all of you that have to put up with that shit and it hurts you......mucho loving energy your way. Do NOT let the assholes get to you! They aren't worth it.


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RE: Most offensive message you have ever recieved on th... - 1/10/2012 8:45:30 AM   
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It should be legal to murder people like you.


Stella, I have found you to be a beautiful soul. I can't even begin to understand how someone could say that to you.


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RE: Most offensive message you have ever recieved on th... - 1/10/2012 8:48:09 AM   
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I feel for you and stella. Some people just get off on being mean.

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RE: Most offensive message you have ever recieved on th... - 1/10/2012 8:53:47 AM   
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Ah yes, it can be both trying and educational, some of the things we gals are exposed to here. Of course, there are many I've forgotten, but a couple still stick out in my mind.

I had one PM that offered nothing but, "I would love to take your temperature with a rectal thermometer." No hello, how are you, goodbye, or anything else.

It's no news to me I was not born, this time around, into the most feminine looking of bodies, but it was a bit of a surprise to get a PM from a fellow seriously lambasting me for being TG (I'm not!), hiding it, and claiming to be a woman, looking for a man. Oh, he was so angry with me! What can you say to something like that? Nothing.

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RE: Most offensive message you have ever recieved on th... - 1/10/2012 8:55:59 AM   
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Duskypearls~ fuck that. You're just right :)

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RE: Most offensive message you have ever recieved on th... - 1/10/2012 8:56:47 AM   
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I get the "Do you have a sphygmometer?" Im always leery of that one. Its not offensive, just a bit too scary to contemplate what they would want one for.

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If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: Most offensive message you have ever recieved on th... - 1/10/2012 8:57:46 AM   
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Ah yes, it can be both trying and educational, some of the things we gals are exposed to here. Of course, there are many I've forgotten, but a couple still stick out in my mind.

I had one PM that offered nothing but, "I would love to take your temperature with a rectal thermometer." No hello, how are you, goodbye, or anything else.

It's no news to me I was not born, this time around, into the most feminine looking of bodies, but it was a bit of a surprise to get a PM from a fellow seriously lambasting me for being TG (I'm not!), hiding it, and claiming to be a woman, looking for a man. Oh, he was so angry with me! What can you say to something like that? Nothing.

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RE: Most offensive message you have ever recieved on th... - 1/10/2012 9:10:28 AM   
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Usually i just block delete.

I got one not long ago.. the guy used the "C" word constantly, he wanted to know if i was a real c**t and telling me how he treats c**ts, blah blah blah.. I guess he saw himself as a Bad Ass Dom or something.. I replied that i reported him (for vulgar language), that i was blocking him and reported him as a spammer.. lol

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RE: Most offensive message you have ever recieved on th... - 1/10/2012 9:13:21 AM   
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A goatherdess? (LMAO) Gosh, Sorceress! What an honor! You could probably get away with not bathing for a year, too! Congrats on the offer! (LOL)

Most offensive message I have received on this site? Hmmm...
Actually, in the short time I have been "here," I've surely gotten my share of them. But I usually "consider the source," and forget them for the most part.

Let's face it. Online is a breeding ground for people to take out their disappointments in themselves, their anger at their next door neighbor, their bitterness towards their spouses, and their rage at their boss... and all done anonymously towards people they will most likely never meet in RL.
And all those insecure, timid little men who couldn't talk to a woman in RL to save themselves, can come across as big, tough males online!!

It's pitifully and unfairly the way of things here. I guess as someone said, it's up to each of us to be the "better person."

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RE: Most offensive message you have ever recieved on th... - 1/10/2012 9:58:51 AM   
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I am rendered speechless. Gobsmacked in the extreme. I'm gutted for you.



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RE: Most offensive message you have ever recieved on th... - 1/10/2012 10:45:02 AM   
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I had some photos on a site that shan't be named. (Foxtrot Lima) Taken ona rifle range & I got asked to rape peeps at gunpoint even though my profile was pure subbie. I gave up there in exasperation slightly disturbed at the thought.

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RE: Most offensive message you have ever recieved on th... - 1/10/2012 7:30:48 PM   
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I've not had any offensive/shocking messages so far. Maybe I should be offended by that? =:-o

Of course, I'm hardly a target demographic being a dominant male, a dime a dozen around here. I do feel for those of you whom, have to tolerate it regularly, though. I would suggest you get the best kind of revenge when you do, though.. Kill them with kindness--genuine kindness, not the passive-aggressive kind. Just remember what their goals are in being nasty to you, or what kind of life they may be living to be so negative and taking it out on others. In case of the first, they don't deserve to get out of you what they are hoping for. In case of the second, it may be the only warmth they'll ever know in their lives. In either case, you come out of it positive, not negative.

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RE: Most offensive message you have ever recieved on th... - 1/10/2012 7:41:49 PM   
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I've had a few.  Similar to Stella's.

Pure hate.



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RE: Most offensive message you have ever recieved on th... - 1/10/2012 7:49:44 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: SAMHAIN09

Okay I stumble across this one Domme's profile I read it and move on the next thing I know I have a message from her and she's calling me a pussy for not showing my face on my profile which is funny considering her pics didn't show her face either(they did but they were blurry or her hair covered her face) now I really wanted to give her a piece of my mind but I chose to be the better person and I just deleted the email. This was years ago before I rejoined Collarme.


She was a guy and she wanted to see your hang down.

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RE: Most offensive message you have ever recieved on th... - 1/10/2012 8:45:28 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Casteele

I've not had any offensive/shocking messages so far. Maybe I should be offended by that? =:-o

Of course, I'm hardly a target demographic being a dominant male, a dime a dozen around here. I do feel for those of you whom, have to tolerate it regularly, though. I would suggest you get the best kind of revenge when you do, though.. Kill them with kindness--genuine kindness, not the passive-aggressive kind. Just remember what their goals are in being nasty to you, or what kind of life they may be living to be so negative and taking it out on others. In case of the first, they don't deserve to get out of you what they are hoping for. In case of the second, it may be the only warmth they'll ever know in their lives. In either case, you come out of it positive, not negative.



Excellent and sage advice.

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RE: Most offensive message you have ever recieved on th... - 1/10/2012 8:50:01 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

I get the "Do you have a sphygmometer?" Im always leery of that one. Its not offensive, just a bit too scary to contemplate what they would want one for.


(I have absofuckingloooootely no idea what the hell that is so....fear not.....I will never email you with that question).

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RE: Most offensive message you have ever recieved on th... - 1/10/2012 9:00:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MissKittyDeVine

If the worst thing you´ve been called is a pussy, think yourself lucky. Some of the messages I get are so abusive they just make me giggle at how the sender thinks they´re going to upset me, but fails miserably. Why should I care what they think?


Oh yeah.. the abusive threatening violent ones, usually from self professed male doms... like the 'i love skull fucking domme bitches' guy.. LOL

Yeah if I didnt just KNOW he had toddler dick by that missive, I wouldn't have assumed he meant in the ear... without hearing damage!  

< Message edited by MistrixMsE -- 1/10/2012 9:28:43 PM >


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RE: Most offensive message you have ever recieved on th... - 1/10/2012 9:09:49 PM   
Duskypearls


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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

I get the "Do you have a sphygmometer?" Im always leery of that one. Its not offensive, just a bit too scary to contemplate what they would want one for.


(I have absofuckingloooootely no idea what the hell that is so....fear not.....I will never email you with that question).


A sphygmomanometer is a blood pressure meter/cuff, used to take blood pressure. The word is of Greek origin:

Sphygmo - Pulse
mano - Thin or elastic (which a pulse is)
meter - Instrument for measuring

Old fashioned one:

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/a/ae/Sphygmomanometer%26Cuff.JPG/220px-Sphygmomanometer%26Cuff.JPG

New fangled one:

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/3/3b/BloodPressure.jpg/220px-BloodPressure.jpg



< Message edited by Duskypearls -- 1/10/2012 9:20:50 PM >

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RE: Most offensive message you have ever recieved on th... - 1/10/2012 9:37:16 PM   
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The only ones that ever made me feel nasty were the TOS violating ones. I swear that just by reading the message you could feel the cold emptiness where their soul was supposed to be. 

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RE: Most offensive message you have ever recieved on th... - 1/10/2012 9:41:19 PM   
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I had two.

One was from some guy, out of state, bragging that he could give me a blowjob so good it would turn me gay.

Another was from a local who has mental issues.  He offered to feminize me and whore me out.


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