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cleaning sub - 1/11/2012 8:40:00 PM

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I'm new and was wondering how often the Mistresses get asked for humiliation in lieu of cleaning house?I don't know if I'd feel comfortable having anyone come to my house even if we did talk for a long time.

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RE: cleaning sub - 1/11/2012 8:44:34 PM

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In lieu of cleaning house? As is often said here, I don't think that word means what you think it means.
You mean in exchange for house cleaning services?
I think you're correct in not letting complete strangers know where you live.
Maybe after you've gotten to know them very very well perhaps. (like where they live, their jobs, their friends...)

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RE: cleaning sub - 1/13/2012 7:59:33 PM

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I'm new and was wondering how often the Mistresses get asked for humiliation in lieu of cleaning house?I don't know if I'd feel comfortable having anyone come to my house even if we did talk for a long time.

Sort of make it hard to date? How hard is it to meet at a resturant over lunch or dinner and talk for a meet & great?

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RE: cleaning sub - 1/14/2012 2:31:15 AM

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Dommes get offered all kinds of "service" in exchange for kinky play. Blushes if correct, keep your wits about you...stanger danger.

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RE: cleaning sub - 1/14/2012 7:56:00 AM

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I am not saying not to be careful. But the OP stated she would feel uncomfortable even after talking to the potential sub for a long time. This is no different than the vanilla world. I mean what is the point if you are never going to meet in person? If you are too scared for your safety to go out a meet someone in a public place after writing each other for a long time......then I just feel its kind of pointless leading the guy on.

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RE: cleaning sub - 1/15/2012 9:39:09 PM

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Meet them at a previously agreed upon location; blindfold them (or better yet put a mask on them that only has a hole to breathe in, have them lie down (partially) in front seat with their head on the seat to avoid anyone seeing the two of you, drive them to your house (having first put away all mail, etc, that has your address on it), escort them into the house, once in the house take of their blindfold, then when they are finished, blindfold them again and take them back to their car. Make sure that no matter what room they are in, you are in the same room or don't allow them to clean in rooms that you cannot watch them in. If they ask you why, say you are watching them to make sure they do a good job because of they miss a spot you will have to punish them and when they are done, repeat the process in reverse. If you decide to use a mask simply blind them before you get out of the car and put the mask back on them (going back) once you are in the car.....with their fact lying on the seat. They won't have a clue where they've been.

1) Make sure to remove ANY possible item that gives away your location
2) Don't let them know your last name; go by your first (or My lady, mistress, goddess....whatever)
3) Don't leave them alone in a room in the house at any time.
4) Take away their cell phone when they first get in to avoid them using their gps to record directions.

All bases covered. I

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RE: cleaning sub - 1/18/2012 10:37:33 AM

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quote:

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I am not saying not to be careful. But the OP stated she would feel uncomfortable even after talking to the potential sub for a long time. This is no different than the vanilla world. I mean what is the point if you are never going to meet in person? If you are too scared for your safety to go out a meet someone in a public place after writing each other for a long time......then I just feel its kind of pointless leading the guy on.

I thought she meant giving out her address after talking online only. And yes, online isn't real.

OP meet him for coffee. Nobody ever has gotten abducted from a Starbucks that I know of.

Meet next for lunch if you like each other.

Ask him to meet you at a munch.

And so on.

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RE: cleaning sub - 1/20/2012 5:09:28 PM

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Hi.

We get lots of subs asking to come over and clean our houses but then that's because we train some subs in person not just online and we own 24/7 lifestyle subs too so it's normal we'd have some subs in our home. If your not comfortable having subs in your home but you wish you could maybe try training them online for awhile first like we do then have them serve you in public too before inviting them to your home. That way you get to know them.

Hope this helps.

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RE: cleaning sub - 1/22/2012 10:49:25 AM

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Im equally as uncomfortable allowing a stranger into my home, but also uncomfortable allowing a sort of know they guy person into my personal effects as well! I don't understand why I get so many offers such as the one you describe, even from subs I know, but it's never really been my thing...

I guess doing anything "in exchange for play" actually makes me uncomfortable, but then again, Im not a professional.

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